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7 yr old wants to go to school... Reassurance please!

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Psychomumma · 11/11/2009 10:50

Apart from a term at nursery (which she can't remember), my eldest daughter, like her three younger siblings, has never been to school. However, she has friends, cousins, etc who do, whom she sees regularly, who talk to her about school - naturally! I have no problem with that. However, every now and then she brings up the idea of school, we talk about it a bit, I explain some of the reasons (that she is able to comprehend, at 7) why I don't want her to go ... and it ends with her saying that she would like to go to school .

Now, I do not believe at all that my 7 yr old is better qualified than me to judge whether school is the best place for her to be at this point in her life. I am 95% certain that HE is far better for my children. However, it still hurts that she doesn't want to be HE'd (despite having no idea what the alternative is like).

Has anyone had similar experiences? How did you feel about/deal with it? Did your dc change their minds eventually? (NB: I'm asking for advice from other HE'ers... having had plenty of advice from non-HE'ers to send my kids to school on previous occasions, ta v much...)

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psychomumma · 14/12/2009 13:58

ommmward: thanks for the link to that blog - I wish I could bring my children up in such a beautiful place! It pretty much expressed all my fears regarding a school experiment, notwithstanding a pro-HE outcome; I wish the child in question could have reached his conclusion without having to suffer so much in the process . One of the comments on the blog included the phrase "low-key brutalisation", which rings horribly true for me. If my daughter ever does try school, I hope she makes it through the experience unharmed, at least.

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piscesmoon · 15/12/2009 07:56

Everything depends on your DC and the school in question. I loved the post I saw on another site; a TA was working with a 6 yr old and chatting, when the 6yr old said 'D'you know Mrs Smith, I really like school. In fact I think it is my favourite hobby'!
Sadly it isn't the same for all DCs, but it is true for many. I think it should be the aim for schools.

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