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how do you know when you are drinking too much?

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Cistus · 08/06/2009 17:35

actually thats a stupid question. I know I am drinking too much, but I dont know how to stop.

I am in my mid 40's, FT job, three lovely kids, nice house etc....

I am drinking almost a bottle of wine, almost every night. I have been doing so for about 6 months. Prior to that its been up and down, I have always been a heavy-ish drinker but with a lot of dry days. there are a few dry days now but not many - perhaps one a fortnight.

I don't drink until the kids are in bed, I never miss work, I never drink and drive, But I know its too much. I dont get drunk as such although I certainly know Ive had too much the next morning.....

so how do you stop? I recently had some blood tests for something unrelated and was extremely pleased to hear that me liver function was normal.... but it wont be if I carry on like this.....

I last stopped drinking in April 08 for about 4 weeks, not at that time because I was overtly worried about my drinking ( though I was releived that I found it quite easy not to drink at all) but since then, its slowly increased....

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IUSEDTODRINKTOOMUCH · 11/08/2009 16:17

The saturday spirit made me change my views ...the good thing is that between sat and sunday, I only had one bottle which is better than 4 (still not ideal I know)..I think I'm better in a way that I dont worry if I dont have wine in the fridge..I know its just small steps..and I know that I wanted to go Cold turquey for a while and I have failed but I'm trying to remain positive and think that actually I have made some progress..I do not drink anymore 2 bottle of wine a day !

Sleep-Dh does drink but it's not a regular thing, he keeps it at week end. He completely disaprove what I have done but now I'm able to talk about it with him and admit that I was wrong becoming addicted and I also apologize.

MIFLAW · 23/08/2009 21:17

No one drinking too much any more then? Excellent news!

Cistus · 08/09/2009 13:45

just A QUICK UPDATE

I have been completely abstinent from alcohol for a month today.

and I feel good.

One day at a time. no longer term goals, but will not drink today

Hope everyone else is where they want to be

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Blackduck · 08/09/2009 14:03

Cistus - good for you...I can't say the same but have certainly cut down on it quite a bit and having less days where I am only just functioning...

whalesongandhey · 08/09/2009 14:45

Good for you Cistus (am new to the thread but wanted to congratulate you).

Also for anyone who doesn't click with AA, have a look at Lifering. The basic motto is similar to yours Cistus - "I will not drink (or use) today no matter what" - one day at a time, and good for people who have trouble with the higher power idea. Lots of information online, forums and so on, well worth a look.

MIFLAW · 14/09/2009 00:40

Fantastic news, Cistus!

Blackduck - don't throw the towel in, you can beat this!

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