Dh very ill, will be going into the hospice on Wednesday

[Blandmum]

Dh is now very poorly. He is very thin, has no appetite, sleeps most of the day and is up most of the night.

The Macmillan nurse visited today and has told him to stay in bed, and he will have a bed in the hospice on Wednesday.

I don't know if this is 'it'. but he is getting very ill very quickly. At least he got to do his balloon ride yesterday, and got the formal news of his MBE a little while ago.

We have been lucky to have the extra time that we have had, and we have built some fine memories, but this is very hard. He is such a good man and doesn't deserve this. I don't know if I can post updates, I may well just use MN as a distraction.

There have been some really sad threads on MN recently, yet when you read the huge amount of responses, there must be comfort that a great number of people are sending their support and wishes.

I am so sorry to read about you and your families situation, and will be thinking of you all x

Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, MB.

I am so sorry. I wish you all peace so much.

xx

Thinking of you all - I hope that Mr MB(E)'s pain is soon under control

So sorry to hear this. Thinking of you all. xx

Thinking of you - very best wishes xxx

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Oh MB

Wishing you all much strength and with a following wind some more time for memory making.

Sorry to hear this MB

Sorry to hear this news MB.

He is a wonderful, brave, exceptional man.

Love to you and your family x

x

Sorry he isn't so good, take care.

Really sorry MB, thinking of you and your DH

This will be the third time he has been to the hospice as an in-patient. Sadly it is going to be the first time that he will be unable to walk in on his own two feet. It is all very different now, and things are changing almost day to day.

so sorry MB

oh sweetheart am so sorry. fm xxxx

Well said Issy! MB we are here when you need us, you just give us a shout

Look at all the wonderful things that you have done MB since he became ill- the Balloon ride- the sponsored walk, the weekends away- A fantastic acheivement to do all this with that bloody awful (shitty) disease hanging over him.
He must be incredibly tired now and need the support and help from the hospice.

I dont know what else to say- Im desperatly sad for you all

Sorry to hear this,MB.

Thinking of you all xx

I'm so sorry Mb, {{{{{hugs}}}}}}

Another mner wishing you strength with love.

so sorry, mb

thinking of you all

hope this is just a blip

Mb am so sorry - I hope the hospice can sort him out and give you some more time

take care

I am sorry MB. I hope the hospice can at least make his symptoms bearable.

I'm so sorry , just seen this. Sending all our best wishes and hoping the hospice can help.

No he doesn't deserve this, and neither do you. There is no way to reconcile such unfairness.

Hold tight - sending my love and strength.

An MBE - now that he does deserve and I am pleased that he has been honoured.