Dh very ill, will be going into the hospice on Wednesday

[Blandmum]

Dh is now very poorly. He is very thin, has no appetite, sleeps most of the day and is up most of the night.

The Macmillan nurse visited today and has told him to stay in bed, and he will have a bed in the hospice on Wednesday.

I don't know if this is 'it'. but he is getting very ill very quickly. At least he got to do his balloon ride yesterday, and got the formal news of his MBE a little while ago.

We have been lucky to have the extra time that we have had, and we have built some fine memories, but this is very hard. He is such a good man and doesn't deserve this. I don't know if I can post updates, I may well just use MN as a distraction.

So very sorry to hear this.

Very sorry to hear this, MB.

I am so sorry MB. I haven't posted on your threads before but I have followed them and thought of you. My thoughts are with you xx

thinking of you and your family

oh mb thinking of you all.

Sorry MB - I hope the hospice is able to make Mr MB(E)'s time as peaceful as possible. Thinking of you and yours

So sorry to hear this Mr and Mrs MB.

I found MN a great distraction and time out place to be when I was going through a terrible time, I hope you do too xx

Oh I am so sorry for you MB, wishing you strength x.

Oh no

So so sorry.
xx

I am very sorry MB
thinking of you and your family

XX

So sorry for you.
I hope that you can find some strength and peace at this time
xxxxx

Sorry to hear htis, MB.
You're all in my thoughts.

i am very sorry to hear this news but just wanted to point out that hospices are the most wonderful places and they will do all they can to make your husbands stay there so calm and yes they even have a lot of happiness.Wishing you both the strength to cope with it all.Mr MB has kept going so long from when you first posted about his illness,it seemed he was going to be here for years.

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Sorry to read this, MB.

You are all in my thoughts.

Oh no. I'm so sorry

thinking of you

I am so sorry to hear this MB. You are in my thoughts.

oh mb

thinking of you and the family, MB.

So sorry to hear this

My thoughts are with you and your family x

Thinking of you all x

So so sorry MB. Take care of yourselves.

No of course you mustn't feel the need to post updates - this is your life, not a story for the press. Use MN anyway you like.

Be strong, take care.

x

Sorry you've had such a scary last few weeks. If this 'is it' then huge sympathies and I wish I could make the next bit easier. If it's not 'it' then make sure all of you rest whilst he's in the hospice. Have you seen his consultant?

Btw, can DH get an upgrade in decorations because Mr MB, MBE is rawther confusing!