My mums just rang to say she has breast cancer

[fairyfly]

I feel like im going to throw up

I'm scared tonight, i hate waiting for people to come out of theatre. I'm dreading tomorrow.

Hugs fairyfly. This must such an awful time for you. Can you plan to do something like shopping tomorrow just to keep you busy and occupy your mind? Probably sounds like the last thing you would want to do, but it may be best to keep busy. Do you know what time she will be due out of theatre? Will she be staying in overnight?

It will be a very long day for all of you - miam is right, you need to do something to take your mind off it, not just hanging around waiting.

Did she go in tonight or is she going in the morning? Only sometimes the beds that were supposed to be free on the day aren't after all, which is really frustrating. I know it's hard but try to distract yourself somehow. XXX

I'll be at college with my mobile phone. I'll loose myself in some work. Tomorrow she is admitted so fingers crossed what you say doesn't happen. I know this is incredibly morbid but deep down somewhere you always dread the worst. Thanks Miam and Janh

Will be thinking of you and your mum today. Hope all goes well. x

Thankyou Irishmum, you must be over the moon. Thanks Grmum, im really touched you posted this morning. Well she is on her way now and goes into theatre at 8.30. I am off to college to act wierd but thats nothing new these days. Have a good day x

Good luck ff and hope all goes well today

((((((((( hugs )))))))))))))))

Thinking of you and your mum , honey.

XXX

Thinking of you all, FF xxx

My thoughts with you and your mum too FF - and act as weird as you like at college, no-one will notice anything different ! x

Good luck to your mum, FF. Hope it all went well.

Good Luck to you and your mum FF - hope you get good news soon.

hope it all goes well sweetheart xx

I went to college, i was told the op would take an hour. When i didn't hear after two i thought sod this and went to the hospital. Ive not seen my mum but i kept my siter and dad company, they looked like they had both seen a ghost. Anyway my mum eventually came out, obviously dont know much yet but the operation went well. Hoorah.

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Glad it went well FF - you must be so relieved. x

So pleased it went well ff. Hugs to you and your mum xxx

Thankyou soooooo much xxxx

What a relief, ff. So very happy for you, hopefully it's just the beginning of great news

So glad it went well, FF.

Glad to hear all went well fairyfly.Hope your mum is feeling brighter this morning.

My my mum looks fantastic, really glowing. Will not stop moving her arm and doing all her excercises, physio is amazed with her and i am very proud. When i walked in to her room she had her hands stretched above her head practising.

so glad to hear this FF, you must be feeling very relieved

onwards and upwards now for you both