I think you mean Pig Dog shared his casserole with you topsy 
laetissimus - I am about as far from Nigella as it is possible to get - I stick to easy things that don't take long, - and in appearance I'm more like a Hairy Biker 
Sorry about teary day, - this business does get to you at times, - I think it's probably a good thing to have a bit of a cry sometimes - you can't bottle everything up.
I think your outlook on things definitely changes - I find I just don't get bothered by little things anymore, I've stopped posting on that thread - really I would have no problem with my mum making herself at home in my house - I would want her to. And some of the things people suggest saying to the poor woman in question
- my Mum would be heartbroken if I said something like that to her.
topsy - you will have to crow bar me out of Smee's suitcase, I was here first I tell you