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General election 2024

Labour Party and gender

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Mobley52 · 25/06/2024 20:34

I've seen quite a few threads where people have said they would not vote for Labour because of their stance on gender.

Would somebody be able to explain in simple terms why this is please

Many thanks

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NoWordForFluffy · 01/07/2024 18:58

Alwaystired94 · 01/07/2024 18:48

but again, why would it need to be discussed everytime? it’s not as clear cut as you are making it either - i never thought i’d see people advocating for not banning conversion therapy.

Affirmative transitioning may well be conversion therapy of gay people. You seem to be happy to accept that kind of conversion therapy as a risk you're willing to take.

FOJN · 01/07/2024 18:58

Please understand that this concern has nothing to do with persuading people they aren't trans but a desire to prevent children (and adults) being put on a medical pathway which can lead to infertility, sexual dysfunction and life long health problems, if it is not necessary.

Alwaystired94 · 01/07/2024 18:59

FOJN · 01/07/2024 18:52

The concern about a conversion therapy ban stems from witnessing how it has played out in other countries, Canada is a particularly concerning example. See image for acts which are now illegal in Canada.

The definition of conversion therapy in your link includes psychiatric and psychological intervention.

We know that a significant number of children referred to the Tavistock had a complex range of needs. IIRC 90% had comorbidities including neuro diversity (mostly autism), a history of childhood trauma (including sexual abuse), anxiety and depression and factors such a being bought up in the care system. Time To Think by Hannah Barnes covers this is detail using data from the Tavi. We also know from detransitioners that many feel they were not given enough time to explore issues around gender identity.

We also know that 85 - 90% of children will reconcile with their biological sex as they progress through puberty if a supportive watchful waiting rather than affirmative approach is taken. Many will reach the conclusion that they are same sex attracted.

Data from the Tavi also shows that 99% of minors prescribed puberty blockers will go on to take cross sex hormones.

I do not think anyone condones the abhorrent practice of conversion therapy but the evidence so far suggests that watchful waiting, for minors, and talking therapy may lead to fewer people making the wrong decision and undergoing irreversible medical treatment.

Please understand that this concern has nothing to do with persuading people they aren't trans but a desire to prevent children (and adults) being put on a medical pathway which can lead to infertility, sexual dysfunction and life long health problems.

Any conversion therapy ban must make room for talking therapy for anyone who is questioning their gender identity.

i agree with you. the issue on the therapy is the repress or cure. so if the therapist is going ‘trans is a lie you’re just x or y’ that’s conversion therapy.

speaking to the child about why they feel a way and finding healthy ways to cope while underage is not the same. speaking to a child with compassion and not with your own opinions clouding your words.

so as the picture shows if your therapy has the aim to stop them being trans or speaking on their own gender identity then it’s conversion therapy.

Alwaystired94 · 01/07/2024 19:00

NoWordForFluffy · 01/07/2024 18:58

Affirmative transitioning may well be conversion therapy of gay people. You seem to be happy to accept that kind of conversion therapy as a risk you're willing to take.

i already stated how trans-ing the gay away is conversion therapy. which is covered under conversion therapy definition!!!

so no not once did i say or imply that.

NoWordForFluffy · 01/07/2024 19:00

speaking to the child about why they feel a way and finding healthy ways to cope while underage is not the same. speaking to a child with compassion and not with your own opinions clouding your words.

But therapists have said they won't even want to do this, due to the risk they get accused of actual conversion therapy. That's the problem. The ban creates a culture of fear.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 01/07/2024 19:02

Alwaystired94 · 01/07/2024 18:50

what would be the criteria for might detransition?

Essentially, the therapist has not yet exhausted all other possibilities.

But no doubt exhausting those possibilities in an effort to find an alternative explanation for the person's gender dysphoria would be considered conversion therapy.

Alwaystired94 · 01/07/2024 19:02

NoWordForFluffy · 01/07/2024 19:00

speaking to the child about why they feel a way and finding healthy ways to cope while underage is not the same. speaking to a child with compassion and not with your own opinions clouding your words.

But therapists have said they won't even want to do this, due to the risk they get accused of actual conversion therapy. That's the problem. The ban creates a culture of fear.

Edited

so we should just allow potentially dangerous people to use conversion therapy on kids because some therapists are worried they will get accused of conversion therapy?

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 01/07/2024 19:03

Alwaystired94 · 01/07/2024 18:59

i agree with you. the issue on the therapy is the repress or cure. so if the therapist is going ‘trans is a lie you’re just x or y’ that’s conversion therapy.

speaking to the child about why they feel a way and finding healthy ways to cope while underage is not the same. speaking to a child with compassion and not with your own opinions clouding your words.

so as the picture shows if your therapy has the aim to stop them being trans or speaking on their own gender identity then it’s conversion therapy.

Wait, so are you saying that any therapist who treats trans patients must believe in gender identity?

FOJN · 01/07/2024 19:05

Alwaystired94 · 01/07/2024 18:59

i agree with you. the issue on the therapy is the repress or cure. so if the therapist is going ‘trans is a lie you’re just x or y’ that’s conversion therapy.

speaking to the child about why they feel a way and finding healthy ways to cope while underage is not the same. speaking to a child with compassion and not with your own opinions clouding your words.

so as the picture shows if your therapy has the aim to stop them being trans or speaking on their own gender identity then it’s conversion therapy.

Please note that on the lower portion of that image it says that activities which may look like traditional counselling, such as psychotherapy, and withholding puberty blockers can be considered illegal.

There are parents who have been imprisoned or had their children removed for advocating a watchful waiting approach.

I think it's possible you are naïve about how trans conversion therapy bans are actually working out.

Alwaystired94 · 01/07/2024 19:06

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 01/07/2024 19:03

Wait, so are you saying that any therapist who treats trans patients must believe in gender identity?

no? why do you constantly put words into others mouths? i’m saying no matter their opinion on gender ideology they shouldn’t be pushing for either end.

NoWordForFluffy · 01/07/2024 19:08

Alwaystired94 · 01/07/2024 19:02

so we should just allow potentially dangerous people to use conversion therapy on kids because some therapists are worried they will get accused of conversion therapy?

Who's actually doing that? Bearing in mind there have been MASSIVE issues with psychologists using affirmative therapy only, and transing away the gay, I'd say that at present, the risk is more that gay children will be subject to conversion therapy.

Watchful waiting, as per FOJN's posts, is far more sensible for children with gender distress. We shouldn't be transitioning kids on any way, shape or form.

I do not condone dangerous conversion therapy. I find transing away the gay abhorrent, and there's plenty of evidence of that having taken place.

We need to be careful about throwing the baby out with the bath water.

Bearing in mind so much of the statute book is shoddily written, I can't trust Labour to get the legislation right (look at the GRA / EqA issues, for a start).

Alwaystired94 · 01/07/2024 19:10

NoWordForFluffy · 01/07/2024 19:08

Who's actually doing that? Bearing in mind there have been MASSIVE issues with psychologists using affirmative therapy only, and transing away the gay, I'd say that at present, the risk is more that gay children will be subject to conversion therapy.

Watchful waiting, as per FOJN's posts, is far more sensible for children with gender distress. We shouldn't be transitioning kids on any way, shape or form.

I do not condone dangerous conversion therapy. I find transing away the gay abhorrent, and there's plenty of evidence of that having taken place.

We need to be careful about throwing the baby out with the bath water.

Bearing in mind so much of the statute book is shoddily written, I can't trust Labour to get the legislation right (look at the GRA / EqA issues, for a start).

i agree with the watchful approach with exceptions. allowing them to use their pronouns and name is not anywhere near in the same league as medical intervention.

NoWordForFluffy · 01/07/2024 19:11

Alwaystired94 · 01/07/2024 19:10

i agree with the watchful approach with exceptions. allowing them to use their pronouns and name is not anywhere near in the same league as medical intervention.

Have you read the Cass report? Social transitioning is NOT a neutral act. Labour have committed to fully implementing the Cass report. Square that circle!

Alwaystired94 · 01/07/2024 19:13

NoWordForFluffy · 01/07/2024 19:11

Have you read the Cass report? Social transitioning is NOT a neutral act. Labour have committed to fully implementing the Cass report. Square that circle!

sorry am i supposed to agree with every single thing Labour is committing to?

im explaining my opinions not what labour policy is.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 01/07/2024 19:14

Alwaystired94 · 01/07/2024 19:13

sorry am i supposed to agree with every single thing Labour is committing to?

im explaining my opinions not what labour policy is.

Even Labour can't explain what Labour policy is.

EasternStandard · 01/07/2024 19:15

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 01/07/2024 19:14

Even Labour can't explain what Labour policy is.

That’s the issue

NoWordForFluffy · 01/07/2024 19:16

Alwaystired94 · 01/07/2024 19:13

sorry am i supposed to agree with every single thing Labour is committing to?

im explaining my opinions not what labour policy is.

So you don't care about the Cass report then?

FOJN · 01/07/2024 19:20

EasternStandard · 01/07/2024 19:15

That’s the issue

I think my frustration with the Labour Party is that the issue is actually not that important to them but they think it's a vote winner with younger people. Their lack of interest results in poorly thought out, incoherent policy which is unforgivable given what is at stake.

Alwaystired94 · 01/07/2024 19:20

NoWordForFluffy · 01/07/2024 19:16

So you don't care about the Cass report then?

i agree with parts and disagree with others.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 01/07/2024 19:22

Alwaystired94 · 01/07/2024 19:20

i agree with parts and disagree with others.

Which parts do you disagree with?

NoWordForFluffy · 01/07/2024 19:22

Alwaystired94 · 01/07/2024 19:20

i agree with parts and disagree with others.

What are your qualifications? What research have you done?

Alwaystired94 · 01/07/2024 19:24

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 01/07/2024 19:22

Which parts do you disagree with?

the omitting of the increase in suicides is a big one

FOJN · 01/07/2024 19:27

Alwaystired94 · 01/07/2024 19:20

i agree with parts and disagree with others.

Dr Hilary Cass is a well respected paediatrician. The Cass report was commissioned in 2020, there was an interim report in 2022 and a final report this year. She is a serious woman who seems to have done a thorough job.

FOJN · 01/07/2024 19:28

Alwaystired94 · 01/07/2024 19:24

the omitting of the increase in suicides is a big one

Could you clarify what you mean?

NoWordForFluffy · 01/07/2024 19:28

Alwaystired94 · 01/07/2024 19:24

the omitting of the increase in suicides is a big one

Where's your solid statistical evidence for both this and causation of it?