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General election 2024

Labour Party and gender

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Mobley52 · 25/06/2024 20:34

I've seen quite a few threads where people have said they would not vote for Labour because of their stance on gender.

Would somebody be able to explain in simple terms why this is please

Many thanks

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NoWordForFluffy · 01/07/2024 16:30

Alwaystired94 · 01/07/2024 16:26

i'd be surprised if they didn't have anything automated for certain words - i doubt they'd want to rely on people reporting for some extreme examples which i won't name. But in this instance, it wasn't warranted.

I doubt any trigger words were in it. And if there were, it would've gone zap before anybody saw it. It was reported by somebody!

Back to this debate though, I agree with @MissScarletInTheBallroom, that's it's Labour's evasiveness which is causing issues. Plus they have contradictory policy in the manifesto (Cass compliance doesn't go together with conversion therapy ban, for instance - therapists have said that even if there are exclusions, there'll be a climate of fear around what they could be accused of, so won't want to go near if).

Alwaystired94 · 01/07/2024 16:35

NoWordForFluffy · 01/07/2024 16:30

I doubt any trigger words were in it. And if there were, it would've gone zap before anybody saw it. It was reported by somebody!

Back to this debate though, I agree with @MissScarletInTheBallroom, that's it's Labour's evasiveness which is causing issues. Plus they have contradictory policy in the manifesto (Cass compliance doesn't go together with conversion therapy ban, for instance - therapists have said that even if there are exclusions, there'll be a climate of fear around what they could be accused of, so won't want to go near if).

I meant your point about being reactive only, i assume they are proactive in some cases, but not this one.

in regards to conversion therapy, that is not only about Trans identities. That also means people receiving it for their sexual orientation, conversion therapy ban is a good thing. The Below link explains it better than i ever could but it explains why they want to ban it.

• Conversion practice means any practice, sustained effort, or treatment that— (a) is directed towards an individual because of the individual's sexual orientation, gender identity, or gender expression; and (b) is done with the intention of changing or suppressing the individual's sexual orientation, gender identity, or gender expression.
• Conversion therapy includes medical, psychiatric, psychological, religious, cultural or any other interventions that seek to change, "cure", or suppress the sexual orientation and/or gender identity of a person.
LGBTQ+ Conversion Therapy / Safe and secure communities / Policy Commissions / Labour Policymaking

LGBTQ+ Conversion Therapy / Safe and secure communities / Policy Commissions / Labour Policymaking

https://policyforum.labour.org.uk/commissions/lgbtq-conversion-therapy

NoWordForFluffy · 01/07/2024 16:39

Alwaystired94 · 01/07/2024 16:35

I meant your point about being reactive only, i assume they are proactive in some cases, but not this one.

in regards to conversion therapy, that is not only about Trans identities. That also means people receiving it for their sexual orientation, conversion therapy ban is a good thing. The Below link explains it better than i ever could but it explains why they want to ban it.

• Conversion practice means any practice, sustained effort, or treatment that— (a) is directed towards an individual because of the individual's sexual orientation, gender identity, or gender expression; and (b) is done with the intention of changing or suppressing the individual's sexual orientation, gender identity, or gender expression.
• Conversion therapy includes medical, psychiatric, psychological, religious, cultural or any other interventions that seek to change, "cure", or suppress the sexual orientation and/or gender identity of a person.
LGBTQ+ Conversion Therapy / Safe and secure communities / Policy Commissions / Labour Policymaking

But affirming gender dysphoria / distress sometimes has the result of conversion therapy for gay children / youths etc. That's the danger of the ban. Being able to talk through the gender distress is imperative.

CassieMaddox · 01/07/2024 16:41

EasternStandard · 01/07/2024 14:50

I’d rather focus on politics which is where policy happens than all the time pp invest in KJK

She's is leader of a political party Confused

Alwaystired94 · 01/07/2024 16:43

NoWordForFluffy · 01/07/2024 16:39

But affirming gender dysphoria / distress sometimes has the result of conversion therapy for gay children / youths etc. That's the danger of the ban. Being able to talk through the gender distress is imperative.

Talk through it yes. Push them either way, no.

If a child comes to them with Gender Dysphoria, pushing against it is also damaging. There is a middle ground between Conversion Therapy and "Here is your new ID card with your new gender on it". Which hasn't been possible due to lack of resources and such.

Conversion therapy does a lot of evil. Do we want to make it normalized and have lesbians being questioned that maybe they just haven't found the right dick yet? Because as others like to say about the GRC stuff being a slippery slope for women's rights, conversion therapy is a slippery slope for gay rights.

CassieMaddox · 01/07/2024 16:45

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 01/07/2024 14:59

They demand we focus on KJK precisely to detract from discussion about people who are making public policy. This will be even more the case after Labour win on Thursday.

Do you want to take a bet on it? I think once politicians think there is no political capital to be made on this interest will dwindle rapidly. And also that KJK is going to be a total damp squib and PoW will disappear into history.

CassieMaddox · 01/07/2024 16:47

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 01/07/2024 15:19

Yes, yes, I GET it.

All of this means that Labour will take advantage of how desperate people are for change in other policy areas to force through their beliefs about gender even though most people disagree with them. That is exactly what I am worried about.

Ultimately, the situation we are in is that the Tories are so fucking terrible that the country is willing to elect the people saying a woman can have a penis, probably with a huge majority.

And that is fucking terrifying.

Where are the grown ups?

The Tories also say women can have a penis

Here is the inimitable Kemi Badenoch making all clear
https://x.com/GMB/status/1797536066917765428/mediaViewer?currentTweet=1797536066917765428&currentTweetUser=GMB&currentTweet=1797536066917765428&currentTweetUser=GMB

EasternStandard · 01/07/2024 16:49

CassieMaddox · 01/07/2024 16:41

She's is leader of a political party Confused

Also your post

And also that KJK is going to be a total damp squib and PoW will disappear into history.

I prefer to focus on politicians who will impact policy. Not what’s going on on X

CassieMaddox · 01/07/2024 16:53

EasternStandard · 01/07/2024 16:49

Also your post

And also that KJK is going to be a total damp squib and PoW will disappear into history.

I prefer to focus on politicians who will impact policy. Not what’s going on on X

I dare you to post on FWR that KJK hasn't influenced policy!

EasternStandard · 01/07/2024 17:01

CassieMaddox · 01/07/2024 16:53

I dare you to post on FWR that KJK hasn't influenced policy!

You seem to be giving her a lot of time and headspace due to KJK being the leader of a political party - one post

At the same time as thinking she’ll be ‘a total damp squib’ in the other

Seems contradictory

Is she having an impact and worth the consideration or not

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 01/07/2024 17:16

Alwaystired94 · 01/07/2024 16:35

I meant your point about being reactive only, i assume they are proactive in some cases, but not this one.

in regards to conversion therapy, that is not only about Trans identities. That also means people receiving it for their sexual orientation, conversion therapy ban is a good thing. The Below link explains it better than i ever could but it explains why they want to ban it.

• Conversion practice means any practice, sustained effort, or treatment that— (a) is directed towards an individual because of the individual's sexual orientation, gender identity, or gender expression; and (b) is done with the intention of changing or suppressing the individual's sexual orientation, gender identity, or gender expression.
• Conversion therapy includes medical, psychiatric, psychological, religious, cultural or any other interventions that seek to change, "cure", or suppress the sexual orientation and/or gender identity of a person.
LGBTQ+ Conversion Therapy / Safe and secure communities / Policy Commissions / Labour Policymaking

I'm not opposed to the ban on conversion therapy for gay people.

But I would question how big a problem gay conversion therapy actually is in the UK. How often does it actually go on? Do we have any visibility on this?

Or is it something that doesn't actually happen in practice but the TQ+ community want to ban so that the trans conversation therapy ban can be the Trojan horse that sneaks in with it?

Because I don't think anyone should be allowed to transition until they've had an absolute fuck load of therapy to make sure there's no other explanation for their dysphoria.

Alwaystired94 · 01/07/2024 17:26

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 01/07/2024 17:16

I'm not opposed to the ban on conversion therapy for gay people.

But I would question how big a problem gay conversion therapy actually is in the UK. How often does it actually go on? Do we have any visibility on this?

Or is it something that doesn't actually happen in practice but the TQ+ community want to ban so that the trans conversation therapy ban can be the Trojan horse that sneaks in with it?

Because I don't think anyone should be allowed to transition until they've had an absolute fuck load of therapy to make sure there's no other explanation for their dysphoria.

But as i said, slippery slope.

It does happen, I'd recommend reading into it as it's incredibly distressing. Converson therapy is not ok, this is right to be banned.

Conversion Therapy is not the only 'therapy' option.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 01/07/2024 17:28

Alwaystired94 · 01/07/2024 17:26

But as i said, slippery slope.

It does happen, I'd recommend reading into it as it's incredibly distressing. Converson therapy is not ok, this is right to be banned.

Conversion Therapy is not the only 'therapy' option.

Why not just ban gay conversion therapy and leave trans out of it?

Alwaystired94 · 01/07/2024 17:31

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 01/07/2024 17:28

Why not just ban gay conversion therapy and leave trans out of it?

because conversion therapy covers sexual orientation AND gender identity. So bit hard to leave trans out of it?

NoWordForFluffy · 01/07/2024 17:32

Alwaystired94 · 01/07/2024 16:43

Talk through it yes. Push them either way, no.

If a child comes to them with Gender Dysphoria, pushing against it is also damaging. There is a middle ground between Conversion Therapy and "Here is your new ID card with your new gender on it". Which hasn't been possible due to lack of resources and such.

Conversion therapy does a lot of evil. Do we want to make it normalized and have lesbians being questioned that maybe they just haven't found the right dick yet? Because as others like to say about the GRC stuff being a slippery slope for women's rights, conversion therapy is a slippery slope for gay rights.

You know that's not what I'm advocating.

Alwaystired94 · 01/07/2024 17:33

NoWordForFluffy · 01/07/2024 17:32

You know that's not what I'm advocating.

but conversion therapy being banned stops that happening. So, why remove that protection?

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 01/07/2024 17:37

Alwaystired94 · 01/07/2024 17:31

because conversion therapy covers sexual orientation AND gender identity. So bit hard to leave trans out of it?

Not following?

You introduce a ban on therapy aimed at changing someone's sexual orientation and you leave gender identity out of it.

Alwaystired94 · 01/07/2024 17:51

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 01/07/2024 17:37

Not following?

You introduce a ban on therapy aimed at changing someone's sexual orientation and you leave gender identity out of it.

Ah so you want the awful thing proven to be harmful to impact the one you don't care for? Got it.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 01/07/2024 17:56

Alwaystired94 · 01/07/2024 17:51

Ah so you want the awful thing proven to be harmful to impact the one you don't care for? Got it.

No, I just don't think it should be illegal to question in therapy whether someone is really trans or not. I think it should actually be a prerequisite to any kind of medical treatment or change of legal status.

This obviously isn't relevant to gay people.

Alwaystired94 · 01/07/2024 17:58

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 01/07/2024 17:56

No, I just don't think it should be illegal to question in therapy whether someone is really trans or not. I think it should actually be a prerequisite to any kind of medical treatment or change of legal status.

This obviously isn't relevant to gay people.

but that’s not what conversion therapy is. conversion therapy covers a range of dangerous ways

are you assuming it is just people questioning why someone feels they were born in the wrong body? if so i’d recommend you look into it further. because if you’re not informed on it, why are you advocating for it?

FOJN · 01/07/2024 18:00

Alwaystired94 · 01/07/2024 15:59

but again, who has given 100% clarity on this? none except maybe Reform but thats beyond unhelpful for women.

I agree it's not good enough that we haven't been given clarity from anyone. Disgraceful even.

I agree there has been real hesitancy in clarifying what politicians mean when they say "women's spaces".

The Conservatives intended to clarify the EA to ensure that sex meant biological sex. This would have given all sorts of organisations the confidence to maintain single sex spaces and exclude males from female spaces, where it is a proportionate means to achieving a legitimate aim, whether they had a GRC or not.

KS never talks about single sex spaces he always says womens safe spaces. This is not the terminology of the EA and as a barrister I'm quite sure he knows that and its intentional. So he talks about womens safe spaces and because he's been so slippery on defining what a woman is he usual gets asked a follow up question about whether males with a GRC can be excluded from these "safe spaces", he has yet to give a clear answer. That's the point at which he starts talking about treating everyone with dignity and respect and saying how marginalised transwomen are. What are we to make of that?

Bridget Phillipson has (eventually) been more helpful. She did actually use the phrase, "single sex spaces" in an interview with LBC but when she was asked if this meant males with a GRC could be excluded she refused to answer no less than 8 times. She was pinned down on this issue in an interview with Times Radio where she finally admitted that she would expect males with a GRC to use female spaces.

I think Starmers reluctance to be clear and Phillipsons eventual admission gives me the answer to whether Labour will protect single sex spaces. I think the answer is no.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 01/07/2024 18:01

Alwaystired94 · 01/07/2024 17:58

but that’s not what conversion therapy is. conversion therapy covers a range of dangerous ways

are you assuming it is just people questioning why someone feels they were born in the wrong body? if so i’d recommend you look into it further. because if you’re not informed on it, why are you advocating for it?

The devil is in the detail, isn't it? How would conversion therapy be defined in the legislation?

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 01/07/2024 18:02

FOJN · 01/07/2024 18:00

I agree there has been real hesitancy in clarifying what politicians mean when they say "women's spaces".

The Conservatives intended to clarify the EA to ensure that sex meant biological sex. This would have given all sorts of organisations the confidence to maintain single sex spaces and exclude males from female spaces, where it is a proportionate means to achieving a legitimate aim, whether they had a GRC or not.

KS never talks about single sex spaces he always says womens safe spaces. This is not the terminology of the EA and as a barrister I'm quite sure he knows that and its intentional. So he talks about womens safe spaces and because he's been so slippery on defining what a woman is he usual gets asked a follow up question about whether males with a GRC can be excluded from these "safe spaces", he has yet to give a clear answer. That's the point at which he starts talking about treating everyone with dignity and respect and saying how marginalised transwomen are. What are we to make of that?

Bridget Phillipson has (eventually) been more helpful. She did actually use the phrase, "single sex spaces" in an interview with LBC but when she was asked if this meant males with a GRC could be excluded she refused to answer no less than 8 times. She was pinned down on this issue in an interview with Times Radio where she finally admitted that she would expect males with a GRC to use female spaces.

I think Starmers reluctance to be clear and Phillipsons eventual admission gives me the answer to whether Labour will protect single sex spaces. I think the answer is no.

All of this.

Alwaystired94 · 01/07/2024 18:03

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 01/07/2024 18:01

The devil is in the detail, isn't it? How would conversion therapy be defined in the legislation?

maybe read the link i put which explains it?

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 01/07/2024 18:08

Alwaystired94 · 01/07/2024 18:03

maybe read the link i put which explains it?

There was no clear definition in what was being proposed.

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