I'll update and then catch up with everyone's news :)
We managed to get there nice and early which worked well before things got busy.
Dd has a lovely room, really spacious and loads of storage. The gyp (kitchen) is very very small but she managed to nab the best cupboard.
We got her unpacked, went and bought her some food bits and then went for a bite to eat and an explore.
She managed to find the post room and some post. At that point it felt like starting a new video game, the sort where you get quests and sub-missions to complete 
Ie. Objective:find post room and receive letter from bursars office. Completed.
New objective:pay college bill
Optional mission: sign up for paid research projects 
Anyway, she has eleventy billion bits of paperwork now to fill out.
At the end we went to a speech by someone important who gave an appropriate welcome students, don't worry parents talk.
Quick hug goodbye and I left her to it. Now I'm on the world's slowest train back to London and desperate for a non existant loo.