Loved it!
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Totally on board with the tragic death thing - I always felt Han and Leia had the sort of passionate sexual relationship which would burn out after a few years, rather than leading to happily ever after. (And my inner cynic thinks the financial backers said: "Look, the guy's in his 70s. Either we kill him off dramatically on screen in one, or we risk him dying in RL between episodes and having to come up with some half-arsed excuse no-one really buys for why he's not there... No brainer, guys. Script writers, it's our dollar, we say "jump", you say "how high?")
Thought Rey and Finn were great. Did anyone else get major echoes of Obi Wan in the way Rey flitted around the even newer, even bigger death star in her floaty desert gear? Was a little disappointed by Ren - the critics built him up into this massive, morally ambigous, brilliantly acted, conflicted bad guy, but frankly he wasn't a patch on Vader, and there was a slight hint of that annoying childish petulance which made Anakin in episodes 1 to 3 so bloody annoying.
The books were never going to be canon. I'm an old gimmer - 11 when Star Wars came out, actually still have my copy of the spin-off novel Splinter of the Mind's Eye which I bought aged 13, in which Leia and Luke get romantically involved... then along came Empire Strikes Back and it turns out they're siblings. So I learned 35 years back that the spin off novels have precisely no value whatsoever in terms of letting you know what is or isn't going to happen in the next film.