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Johnny Depp has played a blinder

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bennetmoore · 10/05/2022 16:36

Johnny Depp’s legal team really have played an absolute blinder. He probably won’t win the case as defamation trials are nigh on impossible to win in the USA but he’s ruined her life and so that’s a win for him. I don’t think she’s necessarily an angel but a woman having a fairly brash/mouthy personality does not mean violent retaliation from the man is justified, nor does she deserve to be raped by the man. And no, I don’t believe Johnny in his 50s with his fame, money and power was frightened or intimidated by an early 20s Amber. He wanted a young, blonde accessory girlfriend, a ‘bangmaid’, so to speak. That’s why he describes her withholding drugs from him during active withdrawal (and it was said that this is the recommend way to help the addict during withdrawal) as ‘cruel’.

I know intelligent, switched on women who have completely fallen for the ‘Amber is Satan’ bandwagon. A relative’s wife who was a child protection social worker for decades in the USA, Kentucky, explicitly said on Facebook “I don’t believe her, she doesn’t act like the many abuse victims I’ve seen.” I was stunned. She also shared a post written by a man describing how Amber’s baby needs to be removed from her, Amber doesn’t deserve to be a mother, speculating that Amber probably physically abused her daughter etc. Also petitions to have Amber’s baby removed from her, which I think is absolutely vile. This is an actual living child, not a prop for entertainment.

I think Johnny knows exactly what he is doing. His laughing in court is vile, it reminds me of my abusive ex laughing and belittling me. Watching the laughing and his smug was actually very triggering for me, and the way Amber became anxious in response. He made a huge deal about being absolutely gutted about not getting to say a ‘proper’ goodbye to the Jack Sparrow character. Again, I’m not convinced. He’s trying to get people to see him as their favourite movie character in an attempt to get them to sympathise with him, I can’t believe people are falling for it. I personally won’t be having Pirates Of the Caribbean on in my home again.

OP posts:
Pumperthepumper · 10/05/2022 19:14

You know of someone, or you know someone? If the vicar held the secret, how did it get out?

Ohchristmastreeohchristmastree · 10/05/2022 19:16

I feel very uncomfortable with the whole thing.
I’ve no idea who is lying and who is telling the truth. I’d imagine it’s both and neither.
I feel this whole court case is just a continuation of abuse and will be awful for whoever loses. I do think Amber is coming off worse and worry that she could be telling the truth.

Hedgerow42 · 10/05/2022 19:17

There was a tape played that had her saying no one would believe Mr Depp. I also found it fairly dismissive that you suggested people on his “side” were jumping on a bandwagon. Just because people have an overwhelming majority in favour of someone you do not like, does not mean it is a “bandwagon.” Additionally your argument for rape dismissed her abuse. Does two wrongs make a right? Mr Depp has been ACCUSED of it and will most likely lose this case but equally, it does not mean you should dismiss his feelings because you believe that he “isn’t scared” of a 20 year old girl. They are both just as bad so I suggest you refrain from throwing punches in the dark just because people do not agree with your opinion. That is ignorant.

Unsure33 · 10/05/2022 19:17

Swayingpalmtrees · 10/05/2022 19:02

Depp is a classic abuser, many of us can see straight through it.
He has done a good job trying to spread out the muck, and try and make it look like they were both toxic.

He is a dangerous, highly unstable man that should have been locked up years ago. I suspect he saw gutsy Amber as a challenge, and enjoyed shredding her to pieces. A cat and mouse game to him. I hope she can rise above this whole episode and put this behind her after the trial.

No wonder domestic violence prosecutions are at an all time low.

Also there is nothing stopping her now taking criminal action and then he will be locked up. She has now publicly accused him of enough to get him life imprisonment. What is stopping her ?

Tinyleopard · 10/05/2022 19:18

I'd imagine a lack of evidence. Surely if she had it she'd use it at this trial.

AMindNeedsBooks · 10/05/2022 19:24

AMindNeedsBooks · 10/05/2022 19:11

I think that's because she said she didn't know if the bottle was broken. Surely if it was a broken bottle you would know due to bleeding? Also the fact he is in his 50s and no one has ever accused him of anything similar.

I definitely think he has acted very badly and so has she. I actually find it quite astounding that the OP said she doesn't deserve violent retaliation - no one does and she is the only one who has admitted being physically violent.

I found it triggering when he spoke about how he would leave or hide. That's what I did. I don't (as the OP has said) that he was every scared of her as in thinking she would over power him, I think it's the triggering emotions.

Either way, they are both messed up people who need help. Personally I find her difficult to believe she has PTSD as I DO have PTSD from abuse and I can't think of anything worse than looking into the eyes of a bunch of strangers (the jury of course) and reliving such awful experiences so coherently. I know he made jokes but I often disassociate or make light of things when talking to someone I know as a coping mechanism. One half of a toxic relationship claiming they are the only victim is also triggering.

I might get flamed for the above however I think it is my right as an abuse victim to give my opinion. And just as a disclaimer, I may have liked JD's pirates films but I've never been a super fan or knew anything about his private life.

I should have said re. leaving/hiding that I STILL do this as soon as anyone gets angry, not just I did.

BorderlineHappy · 10/05/2022 19:26

SkerryVore · 10/05/2022 18:30

I agree OP, in short.

The comments I've read on these pages/threads about AH have been sickening, utterly sickening. She doesn't look or sound like a rape victim. She doesn't 'act' like an abused woman should. She's too confident. She's manipulating the court. She sounds scripted when giving evidence about being sexually assaulted. Oh yes. She looks ugly as well. Or too pretty. Apparently abused women should have the grace to behave according to the rulebook.

I've steered clear, mainly, as it's somewhat depressing to read page after page of venomous misogyny, profound ignorance about so many issues around the case, and posters just being so incredibly cruel about a complete stranger.

It's certainly brought out a vile streak in some people that's unpleasant to read/see.

Or maybe she's lying.
Not only did she claim tape,she said he used a bottle to rape her.
If that's true there's no way she wouldn't have to go to hospital.
You could die from something like that.

I've steered clear, mainly, as it's somewhat depressing to read page after page of venomous misogyny, profound ignorance about so many issues around the case, and posters just being so incredibly cruel about a complete stranger.

So we're mysogynist because we don't believe a liar.
I don't believe her because she admitted to it on tape.
I don't believe her because the police who where actually there didn't see her as a victim.

She's setting the DV movement back years.
But you want to believe her because Depp is a man and that's the crux of it.

smallbirdwidesky · 10/05/2022 19:28

AdamRyan · 10/05/2022 17:04

Just posted this on another thread
medium.com/@hannahxsummers/the-assassination-of-amber-heard-a2e861ad5ded

I think he's clearly abusive, the more I see of it the more I think that.

That's quite convincing.

bennetmoore · 10/05/2022 19:28

www.reddit.com/r/Deuxmoi/comments/ukgxe8/list_of_ahjd_abuse_myths_debunked/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

This Reddit thread is well worth a read. Most of the common arguments against Amber have other details to them that are never mentioned.

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Pumperthepumper · 10/05/2022 19:34

@BorderlineHappy I don’t think she said he used the broken end though, did she?

Arieldysney · 10/05/2022 19:35

Police do not ‘believe’ or ‘not believe’ just because someone said so, they need to investigate

SkerryVore · 10/05/2022 19:36

But you want to believe her because Depp is a man and that's the crux of it

Reductive, baseless and inaccurate, but I'm aware this is how these threads go.

I've stated my thoughts. We disagree.

alwaysontheloo · 10/05/2022 19:37

Reading some of these replies, some posters will only be happy when AH kills herself.
Absolutely disgusting.

ApertureGLaDOS · 10/05/2022 19:40

smallbirdwidesky · 10/05/2022 19:28

That's quite convincing.

I agree it’s convincing and there is evidence of this but we keep hearing from the ‘she’s lying’ brigade but they don’t seem to address this.

I think the one, absolute single thing I’d like to see the fans of JD address is the article this is all about - and properly. It’s all feeling very reminiscent to ‘JKR is transphobic’ without reading the article.

Here it is, and remember when reading this two things - he promised ‘global humiliation’ with that vile text in 2016 and she wrote this in 2018.

Read it again and again and tell us how she ‘reaped what she sowed’ and whatever other shit means she ‘deserves’ this.

www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/ive-seen-how-institutions-protect-men-accused-of-abuse-heres-what-we-can-do/2018/12/18/71fd876a-02ed-11e9-b5df-5d3874f1ac36_story.html

Onwards22 · 10/05/2022 19:40

This Reddit thread is well worth a read.
Most of the common arguments against Amber have other details to them that are never mentioned

This is a very biased thread though obviously written by someone who supports her, not him.

There needs to be the facts about both of them as they’ll be loads of threads like this but the ‘facts’ will change depending on who the writer is supporting.

User135644 · 10/05/2022 19:42

AndSoTonight · 10/05/2022 18:22

Isn't it amazing how many people just cannot grasp that? It's like a global IQ test failed by 75% of the population.

While we're talking facts.

  1. She did abuse him
  2. She then tried to destroy him

I don't care for Depp at all but she's a despicable person.

User135644 · 10/05/2022 19:45

Memyselfandfood · 10/05/2022 18:58

How lovely.
so it’s not possible for her to be an abuser?
And no, I don’t believe Johnny in his 50s with his fame, money and power was frightened or intimidated by an early 20s Amber
no ofcourse big jd couldn’t possibly be a victim.

i don’t know who is right or wrong, but comments like this are disgusting.

Didn't Amber say to him 'nobody will believe you you're a man'? regarding him being an abuser.

There's more to a power dynamic than physical frame.

smallbirdwidesky · 10/05/2022 19:46

I really don't get why Amber is portrayed as the crazy one when he is the well documented long term substance abuser with a well documented, long term history of violent rages and smashing stuff up.

guerrillagirl · 10/05/2022 19:47

This makes for an interesting pro-Amber read
www.independent.co.uk/voices/johnny-depp-vs-amber-heard-trial-fans-memes-b2075356.html?amp

Theunamedcat · 10/05/2022 19:47

Pumperthepumper · 10/05/2022 19:34

@BorderlineHappy I don’t think she said he used the broken end though, did she?

There are sources quoting her as saying it broke inside her

I'm not saying that's true its mostly scuttlebutt hard to tell facts from fantasy at this point

BorderlineHappy · 10/05/2022 19:48

Pumperthepumper · 10/05/2022 19:34

@BorderlineHappy I don’t think she said he used the broken end though, did she?

That wasn't me who mentioned the broken bottle.

Tinyleopard · 10/05/2022 19:49

smallbirdwidesky · 10/05/2022 19:46

I really don't get why Amber is portrayed as the crazy one when he is the well documented long term substance abuser with a well documented, long term history of violent rages and smashing stuff up.

..... Because of all the evidence perhaps?

DysonSphere · 10/05/2022 19:51

Tamzo85 · 10/05/2022 19:00

@MarieIVanArkleStinks

Ah the ol Mumsnet chestnut of the man “abusing through the courts” - which in this case means after Amber heard wrote her op Ed implying Depp abused her (despite it coming to light she is also abusive) and he lost movie roles, he took her to court, lost and now has taken her to court again.

She kicked of this whole thing with her article - why is he expected to lie down and be painted as an abuser and her as his victim and lose his career without any reply? She started trying to ruin him with her article (and benifet as a fashionable victim) had she not done that they could have both gone their own way and none of this would be coming out. Not her initial lies, not the whole fucked up truth.

I swear some women just can’t stand for any woman to be in the wrong as though it’s an affront to their feminism and think men should just lie down and take being lied about and lose their carer like a good boy to further the cause.

Absolutely agree

oakleaffy · 10/05/2022 19:51

It seems the world has definitely gone against Amber Heard, but any relationship where Class A ‘s play a part isn’t going to be plain sailing.

Both are actors, and It’s likely 6 of one and half a dozen of the other when it comes to fights.

I don’t get why they are looking to waste all that money on legal fees, the only winners are going to be the lawyers.

notanothertakeaway · 10/05/2022 19:56

Pumperthepumper · 10/05/2022 17:00

@AllThingsServeTheBeam because it’s important to believe women who say that they’ve been raped. Have you seen how low the conviction rate is for rape?

@Pumperthepumper

It's important for women who report rape to be treated with dignity and respect, and their report to be thoroughly and properly investigated

I don't think people who make a crime report, however serious, should automatically be believed, no questions asked. IIRC, a police force got into trouble for saying they would "believe" rape reports, as it's important to remain impartial