Johnny Depp’s legal team really have played an absolute blinder. He probably won’t win the case as defamation trials are nigh on impossible to win in the USA but he’s ruined her life and so that’s a win for him. I don’t think she’s necessarily an angel but a woman having a fairly brash/mouthy personality does not mean violent retaliation from the man is justified, nor does she deserve to be raped by the man. And no, I don’t believe Johnny in his 50s with his fame, money and power was frightened or intimidated by an early 20s Amber. He wanted a young, blonde accessory girlfriend, a ‘bangmaid’, so to speak. That’s why he describes her withholding drugs from him during active withdrawal (and it was said that this is the recommend way to help the addict during withdrawal) as ‘cruel’.
I know intelligent, switched on women who have completely fallen for the ‘Amber is Satan’ bandwagon. A relative’s wife who was a child protection social worker for decades in the USA, Kentucky, explicitly said on Facebook “I don’t believe her, she doesn’t act like the many abuse victims I’ve seen.” I was stunned. She also shared a post written by a man describing how Amber’s baby needs to be removed from her, Amber doesn’t deserve to be a mother, speculating that Amber probably physically abused her daughter etc. Also petitions to have Amber’s baby removed from her, which I think is absolutely vile. This is an actual living child, not a prop for entertainment.
I think Johnny knows exactly what he is doing. His laughing in court is vile, it reminds me of my abusive ex laughing and belittling me. Watching the laughing and his smug was actually very triggering for me, and the way Amber became anxious in response. He made a huge deal about being absolutely gutted about not getting to say a ‘proper’ goodbye to the Jack Sparrow character. Again, I’m not convinced. He’s trying to get people to see him as their favourite movie character in an attempt to get them to sympathise with him, I can’t believe people are falling for it. I personally won’t be having Pirates Of the Caribbean on in my home again.
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bennetmoore · 10/05/2022 16:36
SnowWhitesSM · 10/05/2022 17:07
They're both both @Pumperthepumper shitting on his bed was abuse. I'm not defending either of them, they both behaved atrociously towards each other.
Pumperthepumper · 10/05/2022 17:08
That’s what courts do. Or don’t. But not believing people who say they’ve been raped helps nobody.
AllThingsServeTheBeam · 10/05/2022 17:06
How do you prove it though? Especially if the person saying the rape happened has lied before? You must understand why people are crying bullshit to it?
Pumperthepumper · 10/05/2022 17:03
How do you prove they’re lying if you don’t believe them in the first place? How do you have a rape trial if nobody believes it happened?
Incidentally, do you know how low the number of false rape accusations is? It’s very, very low.
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SnowWhitesSM · 10/05/2022 17:07
They're both both @Pumperthepumper shitting on his bed was abuse. I'm not defending either of them, they both behaved atrociously towards each other.
AllThingsServeTheBeam · 10/05/2022 17:09
We'll have to agree to disagree. But there is no way I think everyone who says they have been raped absolutely must be believed. This is coming from someone who has experienced sexual assault.
Pumperthepumper · 10/05/2022 17:08
That’s what courts do. Or don’t. But not believing people who say they’ve been raped helps nobody.
AllThingsServeTheBeam · 10/05/2022 17:06
How do you prove it though? Especially if the person saying the rape happened has lied before? You must understand why people are crying bullshit to it?
Pumperthepumper · 10/05/2022 17:03
How do you prove they’re lying if you don’t believe them in the first place? How do you have a rape trial if nobody believes it happened?
Incidentally, do you know how low the number of false rape accusations is? It’s very, very low.
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Tamzo85 · 10/05/2022 17:12
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It is low - but it’s not nothing. The percentage of rapes to false accusations is very low but given the massive number of real rapes that still amounts to quite a few real false accusations.
Its not really such a stretch to think that a woman who punches a man, has multiple personality disorders and is a proven liar who wants publicity as a victim of abuse might fabricate such a claim.
Sadly I know a woman with the same disorder as Amber who has fabricated a rape claim. I know it for a fact because I saw her story morph and change gradually over time and as she grew more unstable generally. It came to nothing and I don’t think she reported it but it was chilling hearing her say it knowing what she’d previously said. Perhaps she even believed it.
People have gone to prison over false accusations, but I’d say the amount of false accusations that are made but not even recorded in law because they’re just used as a payback or simply a lie made in the moment by an unstable person would be much higher than those that actually get to court.
Pumperthepumper · 10/05/2022 16:52
I think they’re both atrocious and that relationship is horribly toxic.
But I’ve been really shocked by how many people think she’s lying about rape.
dworky · 10/05/2022 17:14
Does she need to 'be an angel' to be a victim of abuse?
Pumperthepumper · 10/05/2022 17:12
That’s why conviction rates are so low.
AllThingsServeTheBeam · 10/05/2022 17:09
We'll have to agree to disagree. But there is no way I think everyone who says they have been raped absolutely must be believed. This is coming from someone who has experienced sexual assault.
Pumperthepumper · 10/05/2022 17:08
That’s what courts do. Or don’t. But not believing people who say they’ve been raped helps nobody.
AllThingsServeTheBeam · 10/05/2022 17:06
How do you prove it though? Especially if the person saying the rape happened has lied before? You must understand why people are crying bullshit to it?
Pumperthepumper · 10/05/2022 17:03
How do you prove they’re lying if you don’t believe them in the first place? How do you have a rape trial if nobody believes it happened?
Incidentally, do you know how low the number of false rape accusations is? It’s very, very low.
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dworky · 10/05/2022 17:14
Does she need to 'be an angel' to be a victim of abuse?
Pumperthepumper · 10/05/2022 17:16
Yes, it would seem so.
dworky · 10/05/2022 17:14
Does she need to 'be an angel' to be a victim of abuse?
AledsiPad · 10/05/2022 17:15
It is possible to both believe Amber Heard is an abusive piece of shit and Johnny Depp is an abusive piece of shit. Put together it's a circus, and that's what we are now seeing play out.
Tamzo85 · 10/05/2022 17:05
@Pumperthepumper
Yeah, but it was her who put it out there with her article about abuse which implied Depp abused her (yes it was obvious and everyone knows) in the first place.
If she really didn’t want it to become a thing she could have walked off from the divorce with her huge cash settlement which was frankly undeserved and continued her high paying acting career and he could have gone his own way too (as he was until then). She really kicked this whole public aftermath off, she just wanted to keep it purely on her own terms and control the narrative.
Its hard to feel sorry for her especially as she is clearly violent, controlling and unhinged. Not to mention seeming really really annoying to be in a relationship with.
Pumperthepumper · 10/05/2022 17:21
Here @AllThingsServeTheBeam
Tamzo85 · 10/05/2022 17:05
@Pumperthepumper
Yeah, but it was her who put it out there with her article about abuse which implied Depp abused her (yes it was obvious and everyone knows) in the first place.
If she really didn’t want it to become a thing she could have walked off from the divorce with her huge cash settlement which was frankly undeserved and continued her high paying acting career and he could have gone his own way too (as he was until then). She really kicked this whole public aftermath off, she just wanted to keep it purely on her own terms and control the narrative.
Its hard to feel sorry for her especially as she is clearly violent, controlling and unhinged. Not to mention seeming really really annoying to be in a relationship with.
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