One internet thread is not 'us'.
Threads are centered on specific topics, topics attract people who feel they have something to say about that. By their nature that means they act like a prism, filtering out some voices, projecting others.
In reality you exist in a society which has over the course of it's long social history constructed mechanisms that act as a safety net when the going gets tough for individuals in that society.
This was hard won and fight for by all the countless people who went before and knew that misfortune is indiscriminate and the saying 'there but for the grace of God go I' applies.
Humans since time began understood that.
It's why in Gaelic (but also many other languages) there is a phrase that basically means 'there is no me without us' or 'the strength of me is in you'...
There are many versions of such phrases because actually we instinctively know that alone we can not get far and we all stumble at some point and if there are strong arms to catch you in the end we all succeed better. That's the umbrella view.
If you drill down into that there will be some individuals that uphold more than others because they have the gifts and can... But a scoreboard isn't needed because ultimately if that didn't happen we would all falter and fail collectively.
The trouble comes when people willfully abuse that system and seed resentment, which causes hardened feelings - but that's not you.
We are also very distant from lots of traditional misfortunes now, and some people have come to regard their security as a sign of their superiority forgetting that it often doesn't take much for the house of cards to crash down.
And the reason a lot of people are distant from that knowledge is because they live in a very stable society - by comparison to those where corruption is rife, health care is minimal or only for the rich, employment is exploitative etc etc
So feeling superior is in itself a privilege ironically.
Op, the questions to ask yourself are, have you done what you can? Have you sought what help you can and looked for a chance to improve your situation? Given the opportunity would you be kind to another? Are you caring for yourself in the true sense - offering yourself patience and healing so that when things change you are ready not beaten down from within?
Finally, give yourself until ten pm tonight to acknowledge and feel your distress at the window into some people's minds you viewed. Then draw a line and seek the others, find kind people and like minded people.
Stories of people helping animals, offering comfort, being a good human and reminds yourself that's your tribe.