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lazyhazydaisy · 26/01/2012 11:23

I have just got access to the internet. I am much less petrified than I was at first but definitely 0 out of ten. I have a tribunal and if that fails I think I will be here until July. I feel as though I am living in a nightmare. I have never felt so alone.

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garlicbutter · 23/07/2012 13:01

Yeah, I can see why you don't want to sit down to dinner with exP!!

Any chance of half an hour with DS, no exP, then come home (or to hotel)?

lazyhazyDaisee · 23/07/2012 13:02

Exp is nothing to do with it. It is parter of 6 years of proposal of marriage who is seeing XXX on Tuesday, although it was meant to be Saturday and he (DP) pulled out at last minute.

MorrisZapp · 23/07/2012 13:08

If you are the homeowner, surely it is your own responsibility to get your roof fixed. The snow and rain would have landed on your roof and caused a leak regardless of you being inside or not.

I don't think the insurance would pay out unless there is damage caused to your roof by a specific event eg a storm. Existing wear and tear that shows up when it rains is not covered.

It does not cost 20k to stop a roof from leaking. You patch it up and then do a proper repair when you have the resources.

Stick bin bags over it, whatever.

lazyhazyDaisee · 23/07/2012 13:10

Too trauatised to see any of them. Seeing my first born would break my heart. I see boys of his age snogging girls at the bus stop and keep peering in case it might be him.

I'd appreciate if people who have survived 'Poppy Shakespeare' would post with there experinces.

Minimum 4 months in solitary confinement,

OR

peopke who make money out of this hell.

And don't criticze me as a mother. I refused to get involved in any part of their teletubby world to protect my children from all of the hereditary conditions on the first page, written by a doctor who is shortly to be struck off, and all of whose diagnosis have now disappeared, due to the successful drug regime. (the drugs that I did not take).

lazyhazyDaisee · 23/07/2012 13:16

Of course I am not well. I have been kidnapped, forced to take dangerous drugs, subjected to disgustingly bullying staff, treated with no dignity, been institionalied and then dumped on the street to find my own way home, I am on the floor. How could anyone be well after that? If I saw my dc I would have a nervous breskdown. Does the word empathy mean anything to you, or do you make blood money out of thoe hellholes?

lazyhazyDaisee · 23/07/2012 13:19

Oops, I forgot the steaing (my diary), the revolting food and the lack of human dignity, 'How are you doing my lovely?' Answer: 'Look at the notice on the door.

Onadietcolabreak · 23/07/2012 13:23

If you feel it won't be good to see dc and them to see you, then, you shouldn't be forced.
The is a long shot, I don't know if it's there area, but if not they might be able to recomend a charity that can help, give advice - but have you tried shelter?

And just because you own your home, you should still be entitled to help due to your awful incarnation, it's not your fault your home has descended into such a state.

Good luck OP x

garlicbutter · 23/07/2012 13:23

Didn't somebody say "differential diagnosis" means a list of possible diagnoses for elimination? Wikipedia says much the same. So it seems Dr Clot worked through your suspected conditions until they were all eliminated, meaning he identified no specific illness!

Final diagnosis by Dr Clot: No identified mental illness.
No shame in telling that to your DC - or the DWP.

aesopslabials · 23/07/2012 13:29

daisy this thread is so busy and will fill soon. can you try to eat today and look at maybe starting to sort the house/ calling plumber/ british gas whoever? all the other stuff can be looked at at a later date when basics are in place?

lazyhazyDaisee · 23/07/2012 13:38

Good point Zapp. But in an ancient house, once one tile falls of it has to be dealth with immediately. Which I would have got fixed immediately. One of my neighbours had a bloke fixing broken tile today and I took his card.

But (and do argue with me on this, please) from Dec to July the weather has been horrndous and that has mad it all much much worse. I don't use electricity in the bedroom now; have put down bin bags and lots and lots of buckets. The surveyor said that if I leave it any longer it will cost "20,000

NotALondoner · 23/07/2012 13:44

I don't understand - is your partner a different person from your exp? Who spoke with your gp?

LadySucre · 23/07/2012 13:47

Right, I think we get the picture that you were kidnapped, incarcerated, drugged, diagnosed etc etc, you have said it enough times.
Soooooo, where do you go from here? How do you plan to move on from this? You have spent the last god knows how long going over and over and over what has happened. OK if you say it happened, it happened, you cannot go back and change any of it, so you start to move forward. Ranting all the time about what has happened is not helping you. Are you feeling better for it???? Thought not, so now you take stock and look at a way forward.

MorrisZapp · 23/07/2012 13:51

If you felt ok about asking next door's roofer for his card (with a view to engaging his services, I assume) then what it is he has that nobody else has - you have said you don't leave your house in daylight and you cannot have repairs done as you do not interact with humanity.

lazyhazyDaisee · 23/07/2012 13:53

DO you make money out of one of those hellholes?

Right, I think we get the picture that you were kidnapped, incarcerated, drugged, diagnosed etc etc, you have said it enough times.
Soooooo, where do you go from here? How do you plan to move on from this? You have spent the last god knows how long going over and over and over what has happened. OK if you say it happened, it happened,As Aesop pointed out, I keep getting the same questions again and again,

LadySucre · 23/07/2012 13:56

We are not asking about your incarceration, kidnapping etc.
We are asking how you intend to move on from this and rebuild your life. You are avoiding that.

Alameda · 23/07/2012 14:02

OP you may be able to get a grant/loan for repairs to your house

for example

lazyhazyDaisee · 23/07/2012 14:15

Lie in a stinking bed,wearing a hat ane under 2 duvets. Take dog for long 5am walk. Attempt to eat. Consider what to say to my father when he tels me that my mother is dead, Try and find a book that I haven't read for ages. Make appointment with mediator wife of vicar. Ring the Samaritans.

What would you do if you had been illegally imprisoned, possibly indefinely, forced to take wonder drugs, stalked by a scissor wielding obssessive with horrifying side affects, a worse diagnosis than the evil bastard who murdered the Norwegian children and finally dumped on the street with no transport? What would you do? I would expect the VIP suite in RAF Lynehan for the first couple of years.

Do you work in 'mental' 'health'. or am i just reading between the lines? Because your empathy is telling.

Then give myself a couple of years to try and come to terms with it, attempt to highlight the abuse to preventing it happening to anyone else, then take a large overdose whilst watching the Vicar of Dibley.

What would you do and are you paid by these brainwashed sadists?

aesopslabials · 23/07/2012 14:18

i would start getting my house back to habitable... force self to eat and care for self as best i could and continue contacting mind and others who could help me. small steps but essential imo....

lazyhazyDaisee · 23/07/2012 14:20

It didn't just happen. It destroyed me, minute by unforgiving minute. What would you do and do you work in this field? I suspect you do. At your next meeting would you go over the sucide statistics of those released and consider that they are not due to 'mental' ;disorder' but from their incarceration.

Any more questions? Would you like to meet up with the Birminham Six and ask them the same questions?

Sandthefloor · 23/07/2012 14:25

Daisee you must be very tired. You seem to have been up all night posting and as you normally sleep through the day you should try and get some rest now.

aesopslabials · 23/07/2012 14:35

thread will end soon and i believe some on another thread are planning to kill the thread by posting anyway Hmm message anytime if i can help daisy and please keep contact with mind etc and chase up sorting your home etc. would love to hear that you are doing better.

lazyhazyDaisee · 23/07/2012 14:37

I know, but people persist with pedantic questions. Can't take dog into gatden in case of rat dropings. Saw roofer, had brief conversation about toof tiles an the urgency of getting them fixed immediately. Knew neighbor was out
so felt safe enough to take his card, But I already had another estimate so sending the bill to Alcatras.

Upwardandonward · 23/07/2012 14:40

What do you think will happen after you send the bill to Alcatraz?

lazyhazyDaisee · 23/07/2012 14:45

They paid for the back door and the boarding up out of something called a 'socil fund'. So they can use that

Have also sent letter to MPs etc. I think that they are obliged to answer.#
I am certainly not paying, I also intend to claim for the gas, which was on at 23%! They were there for 4 hours and none of them shared a communal braincell to turn it down to 17%

WinstonThePony · 23/07/2012 14:46

then take a large overdose whilst watching the Vicar of Dibley
lazydaisy you have not lost your sense of humour or intellect. Hang on to that.
I know it is trite and easy for us to say..OK move on now lazydaisy...
but if you could try to stop concentrating on what has been done to you (which does sound terrible) just for a short while, say an hour, and concentrate on what action you are going to take, or what you need to do on a practical level, I think it would be positive. Make a list.