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I have been sectioned.

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lazyhazydaisy · 26/01/2012 11:23

I have just got access to the internet. I am much less petrified than I was at first but definitely 0 out of ten. I have a tribunal and if that fails I think I will be here until July. I feel as though I am living in a nightmare. I have never felt so alone.

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LadySucre · 23/07/2012 09:31

Well, I am very surprised that there are 18 spare staff in a hospital to attend the incident. I am also verysurprised that 18 staff on top of eachother did not suffocate the patient. I am well aware of the restraint procedure, and know it can take up to 6 people. I am also surprised to hear that nurses feel it is a perk of the job to restrain. All of them? Seriously?? Of course there is a possibility someone who may think it is a perk, but I have yet to meet him/her.

aesopslabials · 23/07/2012 09:34

morning daisy. you don't have to answer this interrogation you know. if people read the thread they would have their answers.
my partner sat up til 2am last night reading your entire thread and she has come up with some additional contacts for you. when you are ready will post them or maybe she will join and post.
well done for coming back. well done for still having fight. what are your plans for today apart from avoiding troll hunters? i am sorry for the cynicism you have encountered on here. makes me feel ashamed tbh :(

please don't be dragged away from the progress you were making. you were looking at sorting some of the practical probs out in regards to roof etc. i truly think that if we can get you in a functioning environment then it will be much easier for you to deal with the rest of it all.

to the poster who spoke about my" posting style" i am not even sure what that means but i am sure that you are going to tell me Hmm. all you are doing by now attempting to analyse my motives is flooding daisy's thread with unhelpful stuff that takes away from the support she needs.

worrywortisworrying · 23/07/2012 09:34

FWIW< I have very good relationships with my DSDs (teenagers).

If I sent them a tenner every week, I doubt I'd get a reply. Nothing to do with their desire to see me. Just being teenagers.

lazyhazyDaisee · 23/07/2012 09:36

Owl, that what I was told but it was, apparently a very large an potentially violent man. I also overheard a nurse telling a fellow inmate that if she wouldn't take her meds she would have another IM. I concede that you know more about this than me but the rest of the ward, who were not given my 30 second warning, were locked in a small tv room for an hour.

I think the creepy bit was getting either locked in a room or out of the ward so that no-one was a witness. I am (very x 1.000.000) terrified of needles so the threat of IM was a source of CONSTANT anxiety. I'll check out the source of that story; it seemed unbelieveable to me but the rest of the ward were genuinely locked for an hour in a small tv room. I'd be glad to check that out.

worrywortisworrying · 23/07/2012 09:36

aesop - Of course, because everyone who disagrees with you is a troll. Silly me.

It doesn't sound to me that Daisee is after support of any sort.

lazyhazyDaisee · 23/07/2012 09:41

aesop I will get back to you but will need to think more.
worry I asked him to send me a paying slip/book to pay in some dividends from some shares that I bought for him years ago, without telling him. I emailed him to tell him that I had a cheque to put in but have heard nothing. I simply dread what they have been told about me.

GinAndStoic · 23/07/2012 09:41

there is no troll-hunting going on. Hmm people disagreeing with you doesnt make them wrong.

aesopslabials · 23/07/2012 09:45

worry i did NOT say that. stop misquoting me. i don't give a fuck if you disagree with me. i care about daisy having the help that she needs. i also care about the people who are determined to accuse me of all sorts because i am a newish poster. i have offered to show mnhq who i am etc and have talked to them. now anyone else who wants to try to second guess me, kindly pm me if you want to "challenge me" or "question my motives" because it is pathetic and distracts from daisy. ffs.

LadySucre · 23/07/2012 09:46

Aesop - There is no interrogation. Surely we are free to ask questions. TBH I am actually not quite sure what the point of the OP is now.
Clearly she does not want advice or help. She states that she has loads of support. She is ranting at all and sundry. We aska question and we are interrogating troll hunters. ffs get a grip.

aesopslabials · 23/07/2012 09:47

nope gin it doesn't make them wrong. it doesn't make them right either. accusing me of having " a posting style" etc is conjecture and distraction from somebody who needs the help. i don't give a shit what people here think of me. i care about daisy having a space to talk and accessing real life help, i am not here to answer questions or justify myself unless to mnhq

GinAndStoic · 23/07/2012 09:47

I agree with ladysucre.

GinAndStoic · 23/07/2012 09:49

it doesnt make them trollhunters either.

LadySucre · 23/07/2012 09:50

"i care about daisy having a space to talk and accessing real life help,"

She doesn't want it though.

aesopslabials · 23/07/2012 09:50

lady. read the thread. there has been plenty of interrogation. she does not have plenty of support in real life at all. she has support in here thank god. half of what is being asked is covered in the thread. this woman needs to get her house straight, be able to eat and function not dance about answering things she already has or defend her corner. i didn't call anyone a troll hunter for asking questions. a few pages back i had accusations levelled at me that were frankly pathetic and i am answering those. please read what people say.

worrywortisworrying · 23/07/2012 09:51

SO do I.

OwFriggingOw · 23/07/2012 09:51

No one is troll hunting. Op is clearly in desperate need of RL help judging by her posts. That's what people are trying to support her to get - as are you.

aesopslabials · 23/07/2012 09:52

lady she does want it and has contacted MIND, sane and some other outside help. until the thread took a turn towards telling her she was mentally ill, she had plans to address the house. now she is wasting her energy trying to answer accusations and prove that she is not mad. horrible :(

GinAndStoic · 23/07/2012 09:52

aesops, I have read the thread. several times. I have been reading the thread since january. I just dont see it the same way as you.

aesopslabials · 23/07/2012 09:53

aye owl. ok. but i disagree. can we focus on helping daisy?

GinAndStoic · 23/07/2012 09:54

and I say that as someone who was "wrongly and unfairly" sectioned when younger.

aesopslabials · 23/07/2012 09:55

accepted gin. can we just agree that we all want to assist her? yes i am newish. so shoot me. yes i disagree with some of you. some agree with me. it matters not. she needs help to get her life in order. lets help her.

LadySucre · 23/07/2012 10:07

"I have 100k of what you quaintly refer to as 'help' What further do you suggest" By Daisee

"she needs help to get her life in order. lets help her." By Aesop

SHE DOES NOT WANT HELP

MorrisZapp · 23/07/2012 10:09

What LadySucre said.

aesopslabials · 23/07/2012 10:11

she has taken and followed up suggestions here despite her fear of contacting people so i would say that she does. she had plans to sort house. she is still here. i guess again we will agree to disagree. if nothing else there is info on this thread about orgs and some names that she can contact to facilitate outside help.

MigratingCoconuts · 23/07/2012 10:11

Ok, i've read the thread and it seems to me that either this is a massive miscarriage of justice or op is totally delusional and in need of medical help.

I don't see how any of us can really know and its seems impossible to offer support given that wrong advice/support either way could do more harm than good.

RL support is the only way to go with this. I hope you get out of this hell, I really do.