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Westminstenders: Compromise is a difficult word

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RedToothBrush · 04/04/2019 19:26

Today the HoC had a water leak. It closed the house for the day. This isn't without consequence; any hope for the opportunity of Indicative Votes on Monday had cold water poured on it.

Meanwhile talks between talks between May and Corbyn were about as productive as you'd imagine. But apparently they had nice tea and biscuits.

The Cooper Bill, the last minute lock on May getting a extension to prevent no deal, has been in the Lords today. I say it's been in the Lords but Tories have filibuster Ed on procedure for over 6 hours to prevent the chance of it passing the house. Tory whips are timetabled until 6am but the opposition benches have vowed to go to 7.30am. So far the votes to ruin the procedure have failed comfortably so the opposition have the number. Its just a question of time.

The trouble is with the Lords not sitting tomorrow that means the bill won't get passed until Monday and there are fears it won't get royal assent until Tuesday.

The bill doesn't prevent accidental no deal but it would be a barrier to May.

It therefore looks like May's gambit with the EU to get an extension is to say her plan is ongoing talks with Labour for a cross party solution. It won't wash.

No deal looks more and more likely.

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howabout · 06/04/2019 10:59

Careful. Westminstenders meet up at the Chip could well get you all stereotyped as cossetted MC types for whom the Remain status quo is working very nicely.

I agree with frasersmummy which is why I just dip in and out when I am sufficiently interested in how the other side is thinking.

The long navel gazing and discounting of Boston and co yesterday being a case in point.

On the pensions discussion earlier I was surprised at a claim on twitter that 90% of 65+ age group are homeowners so checked. The actual figure is "only" 78%. However this contrasts with 36% for the under 35s (almost all of the 65+ are mortgage free). 65+ also make up the vast majority of dabbling BTL landlords. Even if they "only have their basic state pension" they have no mortgage / rent and could well be collecting a rental income on which they still have £4k tax free allowance and pay no NI.

The 22% who are not homeowners are comparatively poor BUT they get HB and are not exposed to the bedroom tax. They also disproportionately occupy what is left of the social housing stock.

HazardGhost · 06/04/2019 11:03

frasersmummy might buck the trend and say yeah I have seen some remainers on MN refer or imply to some leavers that they are stupid, racists, bigoted, etc. Have also on a few occasions seen leavers refer to remainers as stupid, naive, brainwashed etc.

There's a mixed bunch in both camps. I think it's harder when stupidity/racism is implied but not said because then it's harder to call out. Again seen lots of that from both leave and remain posters.

Isn't it honest though to say no one knew what they were voting for in 2016? We've moved on so far since then.

Can i add I voted remain but there is what i would consider to be a level of mc culture within remain that makes me itch and feel uneasy. It also fascinates me and leaves me wondering how as a society we will ever have a open conversation about class that's constructive. I don't think we can at this time or possibly ever. Sorry I am waffling but I do think this is a bit of thorn in the debates generally and creates barriers in effective communication from a) within remain and b) between remain and leave. Imo I think leave swerved much of the class barriers because there was a shape shifting goal for everyone to aim for.

I'll shut up now..

howabout · 06/04/2019 11:05

Cooper's No Deal Bill may already have been neutered because TM has pre-emptively asked for an extension.

If Labour does have contacts in the EU and is being smart perhaps they are pushing Macron to block extension for them so they can get behind Revoke.

TM suggesting indicative votes to come next week. Would also allow her cover to make a straight WA / Revoke choice.

Littlespaces · 06/04/2019 11:09

I know that the younger you are the more likely you are to vote Labour but this is really telling.

@ElectionMapsUK
How a General Election would look if 18-24's only were allowed to vote:

Seats || Votes

LAB: 541 || 55.0%
SNP: 56 || 4.5%
LDM: 25 || 14.0%
SF: 10 || 0.9%
PLC: 4 || 0.7%
DUP: 4 || 0.4%
CON: 3 || 14.5%
IND: 2
GRN: 1 || 2.0%
UUP: 1 || 0.4%
ALL: 1 || 0.4%
SDLP: 1 || 0.3%

Westminstenders: Compromise is a difficult word
MaudBaileysGreenTurban · 06/04/2019 11:10

I am a cosseted MC type, howabout and it would be extremely dishonest of me to try and pretend otherwise.

I would, however, prefer that those who are not cosseted aren't shafted by a fucking awful Brexit.

1tisILeClerc · 06/04/2019 11:11

{And that's exactly the reason they won't veto - because they want to keep exporting that food to us. }

You are taking the 'Don't you know who we are' line to some extent.
Of course there is a mutual supply and demand thing going on but it wouldn't take much 'working to rule' or actually ensuring all trucks that cross France are properly checked to mess up JiT food deliveries.
In a business transaction you always pitch high and by negotiation you meet a workable compromise. Mr Macron is obviously posturing tough, he needs to and is right to do it. It is obvious that his tough line will be diluted but he would be crazy to allow France (and by extension the EU) to be damaged by rolling over to the UK stupidity. Mrs Merkel and Germany would prefer not to be seen as 'bullies' due to history, and few others have the real clout to demand that the UK stops being an arse.
The EP and Brexit negotiators will be privy to a lot more information than is being revealed, particularly Russian and Bannon/USA interference which has been identified in France, Germany and Belgium at least, probably others too although I have not searched.

The implications for Europe are far wider than whether the UK buggers around or not.

borntobequiet · 06/04/2019 11:16

What’s the Chip? Am I not middle class now?

howabout · 06/04/2019 11:23

Maud when we were discussing democracy and self government at Uni many many moons ago one of my professors defined it as being:

"Do it yourself even if that means rue it yourself"

Darren Loki McGarvie recently found fame speaking truth to power on QT. He has just written an article expressing his worries that even after only a year he is starting to feel too far removed from the issues of poverty that he can no longer represent them effectively.

I struggle to understand how the MC Remainers so easily dismiss the concerns of WC Leavers in Boston and decide that they know better having never lived the reality.

Little I have seen that map. The one for 65+ is almost entirely blue and is what prompted my comments upthread. The problem for Labour is that there are far more 65+ than there are 18-24. The 65+ tend to vote whereas the 18-24 tend not to bother.

The problem for the Tories is that if they don't address the age related home ownership / wealth divide and disproportionate tax take on the young then the tendency to go from Red to Blue get older and older. In other words "hard working families" are always going to be the Battle Ground.

howabout · 06/04/2019 11:26

born it's a swanky Glasgow West End eatery where MC professionals and footballers rub shoulders when they want to avoid the riff raff.

I have never been despite living in the West End for 5 years. I have been to the Rogana and tbh it was a bit of a let down. Doesn't help that DH doesn't do seafood.

TalkinPaece · 06/04/2019 11:27

Remain
the whole they need to sell to us argument is a red herring .....

Lettuce grower in Spain can currently sell to the UK for 5000 Euros a truck and pays the driver 500 euros a run as its no stops for customs

after Brexit the driver will want 600 euros and the UK will only be able to pay 4500 euros because of tariffs

alternatively he can sell to Poland for 4500 Euros and still pay his driver 500 Euros

he'll sell to Poland
and the UK will go hungry

The growers have lots of potential customers
the UK customers will be rather short of suppliers

howabout · 06/04/2019 11:29

1tis then you are back to my earlier comment that that is no different to the French having their very regular bouts of downing tools. My cousins live in Kent so I am very familiar with "Operation Stack".

MaudBaileysGreenTurban · 06/04/2019 11:29

I struggle to understand how the MC Remainers so easily dismiss the concerns of WC Leavers in Boston and decide that they know better having never lived the reality

I didn't comment on Boston as I've never been there and have no experience of what it may be like to live there. I've not dismissed anyone's concerns.

MaudBaileysGreenTurban · 06/04/2019 11:30

Are we seriously going to start proving our credentials by arguing about fucking pubs?

howabout · 06/04/2019 11:31

Talk your argument doesn't work because the Polish consumers are not as well heeled as the British ones.

(I see no point to lettuce but in any event would just swap to cabbage or frozen peas)

Peregrina · 06/04/2019 11:32

Leavers don't discuss brexit on mumsnet because the following words are applied to them regularly
Racist, stupid, uneducated, no idea what they voted for

I was talking about Leavers that I know, and made none of those comments. However, I do think the Leaver I know who voted on a "dip, dip, dip, this one is it" basis, did not make an informed vote, which could well be construed as not knowing what he voted for.

woman19 · 06/04/2019 11:32

it's a swanky Glasgow West End eatery where MC professionals and footballers rub shoulders when they want to avoid the riff raff
Byres Road has clearly changed since I was last there then, many years ago. It did not used to be swanky. Wink
Just Glaswegian. Smile

67chevvyimpala · 06/04/2019 11:33

No one dismissed anyone.

Boston voted leave in high numbers.

Simply trying to understand why.

Tbh Boston was a bad example as its got higher immigration than other leave voting areas.

^ agricultural workers.

howabout · 06/04/2019 11:33

Maud did you just refer to The Chip and The Rogano as fucking pubs Shock Grin [spitting my tea out laughing]

MaudBaileysGreenTurban · 06/04/2019 11:36

howabout you're trying extremely hard to make some sort of point and I'm not quite sure why.

I have no idea what the Rogano is and I've only ever had beer in the Chip. So yeah, as far as I'm concerned it's a pub.

wtaf

UtterlyPerfectCartoonGiraffe · 06/04/2019 11:36

howabout
“Polish consumers are not as well heeled as British ones.”

What do you mean by this? (And how does it relate to lettuce? Shock )

GroovieGazelloo · 06/04/2019 11:37

Forget the lettuce " just swap to cabbage or frozen peas".
There, howabout has finally got Brexit sorted!

RedToothBrush · 06/04/2019 11:37

Isn't it honest though to say no one knew what they were voting for in 2016?

Speak for yourself!!!

This is my post from 16th June 2016 on MN.

In response to someone saying: I want to vote, and vote with conviction.

I think if you are Leave its probably more clear cut.

If you are Remain I think it tends to be an on-balance argument.

Which I think is making it hard for some people as they aren't in the later camp, but they are struggling with the on-balance argument with lots of confusing information. They are not 'YAY GO EU!!! WWWWOOOO!'. Its difficult to muster that excitement. In true I think its disingenuous to suggest you can be that excited about the EU.

The EU is flawed. Its a big monster. But there are big friendly monsters and big horrible monsters.

Leave is not an argument based on 'facts'. Its more of an 'outlook' based more on belief. Its stupid to try and look for them. There is no plan. There is no argument really apart from the propaganda slogan of 'Take Back Control' which in fairness is a very strong and positive one, especially when it sits next to the shitty weakness of the Remain camp's propaganda. What does it actually mean in reality though?

The truth: Not a lot. Its left deliberately open to interpretation, as that means people attach their own meaning to it - and therefore convictions and beliefs. Its to empower the person reading it. But there is little real substance behind it.

'To take back control', in life requires a detailed clear vision and strategy. Yet its nowhere to be seen, and Leave are quite happy to do this as it offers them the opportunity to promise the world (or glittering generalities as the technique is know). What how many times the phrase 'Take Back Control' is going to be repeated in the next week. Its an interesting game for Question Time Viewing!

Then there's the reality. Article 50, which is the mechanism to leave the EU, is heavily weighed against anyone leaving (its therefore not anti-UK). It puts us in a difficult position to make good on the promises of taking control, especially since there are French and German elections in the same period. Us leaving is likely to be met with hostility, even at cost to themselves, to try and prevent others leaving and getting similar 'concessions'. We will, instead of being in control, be the political football of the Germans and French. Who have no obligation to agree anything. If after two years there is no agreement, then we get thrown back into poor terms.

Then you have to consider the implications of politics domestically. I don't think there is any consensus on what the UK actually wants. Its very vague. Before we even get to the negotiation table we will have to settle this. I can't see there being much will to do this or much agreement.

Oh, and as for taking control. We'll get control of Sangatte alright. Only in Folkestone.

I might feel differently if there was a plan either within the Brexit camp or the Remain camp. Instead we have lots of competing and contradictory arguments.

If you are looking for facts over outlook, then I would go Remain. Lots of facts (of varying quality and bias and propaganda) but there are facts. Whether you choose to trust them - and their sources - is another matter. There is a definite split along these lines.

I think Remain are doing a shit campaign. They don't get it. They haven't been honest, and they have tried to scare people instead of just going with what the EU is.

On balance the EU offer us security and stability. Boring as hell but undervalued. If the EU did go tits up, then we would be sucked in regardless. Better to do it with others, in those circumstances. Its more likely to be controlled then. Movement of people is going to be a problem in or out due to a global population that is growing. We are better dealing with those problems on an international basis with people we are on good terms with rather than have just pissed off. Likewise, trying to get back tax from international corporation and tax havens - otherwise it will encourage an every man for himself mentality in the finance world which we have been chipping away at, albeit slowly. Then there's works and human rights. Deregulation will chip away at these. Its not a good thing. It seems to be fair game to talk about the EU in twenty or thirty years. I think its fair game to talk about workers and human rights in twenty or thirty years too.

Then there's this: The referendum looks set to be cut along age lines with the young wanting to stay in. If Brexit win, we loose a generation to political engagement as they feel they have not been listened to. The implications of this are wide ranging. It means few will take up the much needed call to get involved themselves locally. That means they don't get head. It means career politicians will dominate even more. I fear this perhaps more than anything.

Brexit is about trying to draw lines of division to me. Its about trying to other, and trying to use the word 'I' a lot. Rather than looking at what shared grievances we have and what we are all pissed off at, and using that to try and find solutions.

Even in terms of immigration, the them and us thing in terms of integration, requires both sides of the fence to reach out to each other. That's those who identify as White British making a positive effort as much as those coming over here and taking on British culture. Instead Brexit is driving a massive wedge in that. I'm scared some of the strength of negative feeling, so why would anyone from a none white British background feel better about it? It only adds more fuel to the fire.

Finally, there's Scotland and NI and the issues of their sovereignty and safety. I grew up fearing NI terrorism. I don't want to go back to that. I don't want to loose Scotland. I didn't want them to go last year. I still don't. I don't see how England is stronger without either NI and Scotland. I don't want to see friends who are Irish and NI and work across the border area have to make huge decisions.

I am PROUD to be British. I am starting the resent the fact that, I can not be British European and still be proud. Cultures do not disappear with the redrawing of lines on maps. Cultures flourish with trade and the bonds that brings. What makes someone proud to be Welsh? They have managed to maintain and indeed extend that in recent years, whilst still being part of the union. Ditto, Scotland and NI.

I have friends who are European and I see them as every bit as equal. The Little England nationalism is tiresome, and inaccurate anyway. I reject it.

Anyway, MY decision, is not anyone else's decision. But that's where I am. That's why I'm frustrated. I do have certain concerns but they are not going to get fixed in the way people think. Nor is it a decision from being scared.

It boils down to this to me. You can't just overthrown the government - domestic or the EU - with two fingers up, unless you have a credible alternative waiting in the wings with a credible alternative to fill the void.

Where is that? Where is that really?

I just hear a loud echoing silence to that question

I challenge anyone to argue I didn't know EXACTLY what I was voting on. I made other comments that same day which are also holding up remarkably well.

What would happen if we'd have remained? I think there would have been problems and a crisis of some other sort that led to EU reform. That reform will come now, and will be very different because there won't be UK input into it the same way, and that might well be less in our interests than had we stayed in. We don't escape the power of the EU whether we are in it or out of it. But we could have influenced it.

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LonelyTiredandLow · 06/04/2019 11:37

@howabout I seriously doubt whether being "well heeled" is in the list of concerns food businesses have. Food is food and the price of it across EU is going to be far more constant than in the UK.

TalkinPaece · 06/04/2019 11:39

howabout
Lettuce prices in Warsaw and London are pretty similar Grin
www.numbeo.com/cost-of-living/compare_cities.jsp?country1=Poland&city1=Warsaw&country2=United+Kingdom&city2=London

1tisILeClerc · 06/04/2019 11:39

{ your argument doesn't work because the Polish consumers are not as well heeled as the British ones.}

That is a disgusting thing to be saying and should be retracted.

The issue with too many 'leavers' is that they are arguing to 'solve' the wrong problem. For most points of discussion, it is the failing of the UK government over decades and almost nothing to do with the EU.