Bear I can assure you I did listen/ read and absolutely nothing you or anyone said even came close to convincing me that the benefits of leaving begin to outweigh the negatives.
Vice versa here - nothing could convince me that remaining was in the UKs long term interests.
EU Army - so CSDP and EEAS stuff (that I am trying to find) was passed in 2015, and we do not apparently have a veto.
Corrupt bureaucracy - I would argue that there is a difference between politicians and bureaucrats, but the point was the system itself is flawed as opposed to the people therein.
Superstate Read your history books to have a look at the worst that could happen. It would not be benign.
Immigration I see no reason why we shouldn't be like Canada, Australia, NZ and the US is ensuring that those who immigrate to the UK are required for specific jobs, and fit the criteria on supporting themselves, no access to state health care etc. It works for those countries, and no-one thinks anything odd about it.
Border control Yes, if you're from a non EU country, there are controls. If you are not, you tend just to come straight in.
Sovereignty Evidently you don't understand the acquis and the ratchet. What is that but a loss of sovereignty?