......excuse the provocative title, the correct term is 'I'm entitled to xyz'?
I'm genuinely interested to know.
I built up assets - a pension, ISA, a seven figure house, a successful business for 19 years before I even met my exDW.
She did not have anything to do with any of this or contribute in any way.
My exDw brought debt into our relationship which I paid off, she got fired 9 months into our relationship and could never find a job that suited her, so I transferred £2k a month to her bank account (BIG mistake - that sets precedent apparently, so for being generous, you get fucked more on divorce)
We got married in our 30's (me 38, her 34), it’s not like she didn’t have a chance to do these things.
She’d never paid into a pension, bought a house, put into an ISA.
Yes, I know it’s my fault as I’m the mug that married her.
BUT, what makes you feel entitled to things that a man has built up 20 years leading up to meeting him?
Thanks