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Divorce/separation

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Divorce support group?

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Atleastthedogisfaithful · 28/05/2019 17:32

Does anyone have any experience of any good divorce support groups either online or face to face? It is 18 months since my husband left me after having an affair for 12 months. I have found it a rocky road financially and emotionally with good days and bad days - I suppose I want some reassurance life will get easier at some point!

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Littlefluffycloudos · 11/07/2019 13:27

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Simonfromharlow · 11/07/2019 13:56

Oh yes please I'll pm!

Spritesobright · 13/07/2019 09:41

Hey Littlefluffycloudos I've PM'd you to join the group, please : )

stucknoue · 13/07/2019 22:54

Well I've thrown my normal caution to the wind and booked a cruise for me and my daughter. Ai (she's 18) so hopefully an eligible father and son will be on board! You are all inspiring, now if only I could work out how to pm- do I have to use my computer? I've just downloaded WhatsApp and instagram I'm with the kids! Grin

Underthefur · 14/07/2019 13:07

Hello all, I haven't posted for a while but have been reading. I'd love to join the WhatsApp group if that's ok?

I'm quite a bit further down the line than some of you (3years) but still not divorced due to stbxh being stubborn and uncooperative at every stage. We've had the decree nisi since April 2017 but the finances have been so difficult (and costly) to resolve I feel like it's never going to end.

Hope everyone is managing to have some peace and respite from the shite this weekend Smile

Littlefluffycloudos · 14/07/2019 19:58

Hi @Underthefur sure just pm me your number!

Simonfromharlow · 14/07/2019 21:05

@stucknoue cruise sounds amazing!!

aspenheidi · 14/07/2019 21:12

I can empathize with you all. Up for a group! Does anyone live in the Cotswolds? Maybe we can set ones up in our areas? For those you wish to meet face to face.

Underthefur · 14/07/2019 23:13

@Littlefluffycloudos thank you, am on the app now but will log on properly tomorrow and pm you x

FantaSea · 15/07/2019 17:51

Is it ok to join you ladies please? I have been following this thread but haven't had the courage to post until today.

My H told me a few weeks ago that he is leaving as he has been unhappy for a long time and 'loves me like a sister'. He is sorting out somewhere else to live but in the meantime is still in the house and it is as tense as it can be.

I swing wildly between feeling desperately sad and crying all the time to being seriously angry. I am finding it hard keeping things together and we still haven't told our grown up DD.

@Littlefluffycloudos I would really like to join your WhatsApp group if I may please.

Itsallchange · 21/07/2019 14:15

Hope you don’t mind me jumping in - divorce started in Feb, down to me not loving him anymore not feeling part of a partnership and his drinking and gambling. He’s moving out (eventually) I’m staying. He keeps asking (begging) me for sex to sort him out, we didn’t have a great sexual relationship during the marriage but it’s really getting me down that he keeps asking and thinks he’s entitled to it. Just looking for some reassurance that I’m not wrong to want a relationship where I feel wanted, loved and respected and that this emotional rollercoaster will at some point end! Because right now I’ve had enough and just want to get off 😢😢😢

Simonfromharlow · 25/07/2019 15:25

@Itsallchange no you're not wrong to want that xx

Itsallchange · 25/07/2019 18:47

Thank you @Simonfromharlow I’ve had a really emotional couple of days, yesterday evening I contemplated all sorts but my kids need me so I’ve got to get through this and finish what I started xxx

Simonfromharlow · 25/07/2019 18:48

@Itsallchange be as emotional as you need to be. It's a life changing thing and takes a lot of dealing with!

CarolineBingleyisaBitch · 03/08/2019 21:20

Hi everyone.
I'm a bit more than three weeks since my husband came home from a work trip and told me we were over and he didn't love me. It took me a few days, but I ultimately found out I was right to suspect he'd cheated. I'm now back at my parents', as he can afford our rented house and I can't.

I've PMd about the WhatsApp group, I'd love to be added if that's OK.

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