Meet the Other Phone. Only the apps you allow.

Meet the Other Phone.
Only the apps you allow.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Divorce/separation

Here you'll find divorce help and support from other Mners. For legal advice, you may find Advice Now guides useful.

Chatting

234 replies

Rosewilliam · 10/01/2019 22:16

Hello, I'm a single mum (going through divorce) just wondering if there are any others like me out there that just want to chat in the evening after the kids have gone to bed. I feel very lonely.
Please come and say hi.

OP posts:
Bonkerz · 02/02/2019 18:37

I had 2 bottles of wine last night and no headache but I'm very aware I'm using alcohol as a crutch at weekends. As long as I'm aware I think it's allowed for a few months while I adjust to the change. I don't drink in the week.
I am very lucky I have an amazing group if friends around me who are holding me up.
Do you guys have friends?

lostin2019 · 11/02/2019 09:48

Can I join you? Been so lonely since my boyfriend left me three weeks ago. Really miss having someone to talk to :(

RZNW · 14/02/2019 17:48

@westernchampion check your inbox!

Rosewilliam · 19/02/2019 18:06

Hello all. I'm so pleased this is still going on. I think there is a need for chats in the evening when so many people are alone out there. I'm have now started Counselling to try and sort my head out. She said she will help me enjoy my own company and find what I want in life!

OP posts:
Jellybaby82565 · 20/02/2019 15:00

Has anyone been through a divorce and could advise me?
Court date has been set for July for the financial settlement.
Anyone know how long it could take after this if both parties agree on what the court says? Does the court date happen and then there is a waiting period to find out what was decided?
Just want to know when it will be over
Thanks everyone

Bonkerz · 20/02/2019 23:37

Hi all.
So into the 3rd month now of separation. Each has taken youngest 2 DCs to wales. I'm keeping busy.
Quick question. Back in July I accused him of having an affair. He said definitely not.
Fast forward to now and I've had his phone bills through and itemised texts show one number that's used a lot more than others right up till jan 2019. You guessed it it's her number.
Do I confront? He has denied twice now that he's seeing this woman.
Or do I leave it.

Yellowshirt · 21/02/2019 20:46

Hi all.
Can people tell me what they would do if they disagree with the reasons on a divorce petition?
I want the divorce so I'm not disputing that fact as I want her out of my life but I'm just a little confused about the best way to respond. Am I better just signing it as I'm desperate to move on as I'm really really struggling with life in general at the moment.
Please help.
Thanks

westernchampion · 22/02/2019 11:58

Hi bonkerz, I've not been on here for a while will have to check back later, but my advice would be leave it.

Itsnotme123 · 24/02/2019 09:03

Hi yellowshirt I don’t think reason much matters, you have to have a reason, so any of the 5 will do. Just crack on and sign the petition.

New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Please create an account

To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.

This thread is closed and is no longer accepting replies. Click here to start a new thread.

Swipe left for the next trending thread