My husband doesn’t like the idea of ordering food for delivery obviously it’s a lot more money
And if he is the one doing all, or most of the cooking, then fair enough that he prefers home cooked to take away.
Of course, if he just eats rather than cooks it, it's hardly up to him how often you get take away.
In my book, cook deserves a holiday so better to share the cooking.
He also eats out every day at work as he doesn’t take pack lunch.
Why am I not surprised by this, from the man who doesn't like ordering take away because it's more expensive. In this situation, I would expect him to be consistent across lunch and dinner, or at least not complain about the occasional takeaway.
The so called cost, or even high cost of takeaway and restaurant food is actually a reflection of the hidden cost of domestic labour. Domestic labour is hidden because it isn't paid. If the adults in the household share the labour require me to keep the household equally, or at least equitably, then fair enough to say money by cooking at home.
It is when that labour is not shared equitably, that a takeaway is one way to make life a little easier occasionally.