Cag Definitely the case that you need to really develop a thick skin and self belief to be self employed, but I am convinced you are able to do both.
I have had a terribly spendy day. But fun. I haven't shopped for a long time, and I am going to spend a bit each month from now on, to prevent splurges like this.
£28 French Connection, navy sleeveless shirt.
£75 Jack Wills, cable knit jumper and cable knit cardigan. Classic styles that will last.
£100 Moda in Pelle, sandals and shoes (sandals cheap, shoes expensive)
£18 Primark, top and 2 sets of PJs.
£48 Office, pink wedged suede sandals that are totally impractical, not needed and wonderful 
£40 Birkenstocks.
Ouch, so hardly any clothes and 4 pairs of shoes 