@Tara336
I will be spending Christmas with my family. My DF is extremely ill, this may be his last Christmas and I will not have that taken away me. DM is struggling to cope and needs support, she will continue receiving help from us. I complied with every single rule the government imposed whilst witnessing people completely ignoring them, so I’m done with the rules I will be doing what is best for me and my family
I think you would be totally right to spend Christmas with your family.
My family spent the whole of last year abiding by the rules. We only saw my elderly parents once during the whole year because we wanted to keep everyone save especially them.
For the first time in my 66 years we did not have Christmas all together and my parents were alone as were me and DH and both my siblings and their OH's and nieces and nephews and their OH's.
We tried to make the best of it but it was, honestly, a shit Christmas. We had a zoom call but it just made me upset missing my family.
In January dad had to go into hospital for a couple of days. This turned out to be completely unnecessary but in the couple of days he caught covid. No one knew this and he was sent home. He died and my mum who obviously caught it from him died just over a week later alone in hospital.
I am so so angry and upset that we didn't have Christmas together and will never spend another Christmas apart from the rest of my family