@sosotired1 - have you had your N95 fit-tested? If not, it's no better than a surgical mask. There is research to back this up but, I'm sorry, I can't find it with a cursory google and I'm exhausted. I'll try again tomorrow.
It's worth being aware that a lot of the more fitted masks (N95/FFP2 or N99/FFP3) have a valve on them. Unless that valve is also filtered - some are, mine is - the mask filters on inspiration only. So the wearer is protected, but everyone around them isn't. Given the primary purpose of a mask on a patient is to protect other patients and those treating them, our setting at least will not allow patients to wear valved masks. We'd be totally fine with you wearing a surgical mask over one (what we were doing until we got non-valved or filtration-valved FFP3s) but not one on it's own.
Hopefully that gives some context to why the hospital may have been twitchy.
(As an aside, if you're looking for an FFP3 I'd recommend this one as a good one to start with www.3m.co.uk/3M/en_GB/company-uk/3m-products/~/3M-Aura-Disposable-Respirators-9300-Series/?N=5002385+3291240516&rt=rud Much more comfy than many on the market, and fits most people. Plus no expiration valve, so you're protecting others. But it does need fit testing. To illustrate, it felt great on me, very protective, but my fit test showed it was leaking. Sadly, because it's noticably more comfortable than the one which did seal effectively.)