I have a developing situation at home that I would like some second opinions on. When we realised I was in the extremely vulnerable group we spoke to DD who is mid twenties and still lives at home and explained that as she was WFH we would need her to stay at home for the duration (this was before lockdown).
She said she couldn't be separated from her BF who lives and works in London and expected BF to still be allowed to come and visit. We said no visitors and she decided to go and move in with BF.
BF then decided to go home and stay with his parents in Leeds and DD went to stay with them. She lasted just over a week saying BF's parents and their four cats were too annoying so she came back and moved in with my SIL who is divorced and suffers from a range of illnesses (none diagnosed) that means she needs someone to look after her and offered DD money to cook, clean and shop for her during lockdown. DD is naturally greedy and jumped at the chance of extra cash without thinking what it would actually be like to stay there SIL's own dc's are minimal contact because of her insistence that she is dying of some as yet undiagnosed illness.
DD isn't happy, said she feels like a slave and SIL is too demanding and annoying. DD is starting to make noises about coming home which I don't really have a problem with as long as she isolates in her room for 14 days and then commits to not going out at all. Yesterday she told us that her BF has had a Covid test because his mum is a frontline worker, she is a team leader in a 111 call centre and a colleague has had symptoms so they all had to be tested and their family members too. They apparently had to drive to Manchester airport for the test. I suspect they are lying, they have to be and it's so that she can come home and BF can come too.
DD is very typical of her age group, very entitled and selfish her siblings all have a problem getting on with her because of her attitude, especially towards me. DH has a soft spot for her because she's the youngest and can't accept that she would lie or put me at risk. I just think she's trying to manipulate us into getting what she wants.