Fuck. Im too ill myself to care for someone else and she needs me. Im soothing her, stroking her. Making a hot water bottle for her legs as I found that a distraction from the shakes.
Shes been coughing since Friday 20th so 13 days. Shes been largely brilliant other than flaking out on sun 22nd on me. Her cough is productive now and in sheer desperation I did a mild form of pummelling/cupping on her chest as she was struggling to cough anything up which she said helped.
There’s four of us in the house. Shes on day 13, me day 10, dd2 (8) started coughing yesterday and DH nothing. I feel like I can’t cope with this at all. Im not a strong enough person.
Has anyone else found anything else works for then that i can try with her? For me ive literally laid face down over pillows in an open window, but i have to rock my legs/pace/walk the garden. Shes frightened and crying and Im still ill myself so struggling not to freak out and she needs me.