Long time lurker, first post.
For those of you considering/actively self isolating, what will you do about family or friends (who are not taking any precautions themselves) wanting to come see you/you go see them?
I'm currently 19 weeks pregnant, have a toddler and three other boys at school (one of whom had pneumonia as a baby, so not sure whether he is still classed as at higher risk?) and am quite honestly freaking out about this whole thing, and have been for a while!
I'm all for withdrawing the boys from school now and home educating (SAHM so no worries about childcare) to try and reduce our overall household risk of catching this horrible thing. My husband thinks I'm absolutely psycho and overreacting, but he's taken the approach of burying his head in the sand so far. He has agreed we will probably be forced into withdrawing them from school at some point, although last night he said once we had 10,000 cases in the UK...which in my mind is waaaayyyyy too late! He owns his own business (office based) which employs another 4 people, so his exposure from work is hopefully minimum, and he has the option of WFH if things get too bad (again in my mind, he should be proactive now).
But what about visitors? I'm thinking OH family will be particularly awkward about still wanting to visit the children or having them for sleepovers etc. whereas my family are more likely to be on board with my stance of protecting the children and my pregnant self (I'm particularly worried that there aren't many studies so far on the effects the virus has on pregnant women). The inlaws both work in schools, so it seems very counterproductive to take the boys out of school to mitigate their risk of infection if they're still then mixing with others who aren't taking precautions themselves and coming home from infection breeding grounds. They also travel during every half term to their holiday villa in spain, so exposing themselves to possible infection whilst away and on flights.
Unfortunately, I can't see my OH backing me up on not seeing any of them until the worst bit of this is over so what are others planning to do? I feel very alone and vulnerable at the moment.