I cannot gaslight with respect to a term that means different things to different people. Perhaps you're gaslighting me.
Gaslighting is about making people question their reality, like telling someone the PLO weren't terrorists, if only I hadn't been alive to see the evidence of their terrorism before the days of tik tok and instagram. The whole picture is a wee bit more two-sided than 'Israel is a terrorist state' , but doesn't it make emotive posting.
Clinton is on record as saying how Arafat scuppered two state solutions that gave him what he asked for and more, but there was no profit in it for him. It would be lovely to think that Gaza could exist peacefully as a nation state alongside Israel, that's the dream, excuses for hamas make Gazan lives worse not better.
As Twiglet said, if Netanyahu is using hostages as an excuse then send them home, without the fanfare and kisses and goody bags 🙄. Support the peace movement in Israel and cut off Hamas income stream. But I suspect peaceful co-existence is not the agenda for many people...I may be being gaslit.