At some point, I am literally going to have to write a whole essay entitled "about Palestinian men". I used to be married to one. I loved another. They've been my BILs, FILs, friends, comrades, annoying uncles, students and teachers!
One of the things that has really - on a personal level - upset me the most about everything that has been said and written was the utter lack (generally speaking, of course there have been exceptions) of a human lens on Palestinian men.
No, of course Palestinian men, by and large, are not violent, homicidal monsters!
At the same time, no, they are also not just "romantic heroes". Or "innocent victims".
These things are also not binary! Several things can be true all at once! You can absolutely be both a) a victim of brutal oppression, b) a militant, and c) very tender and romantic, but also d) just as annoying as any British man when you have a stubborn habit of leaving your dirty coffee cups all over the place all the fucking time. These are not contradictions.
And, by the way, you can even be an apolitical Palestinian man. They, too, exist!