Look the IDF, like pretty much every force, can make mistakes, can do wrong. However, there is a huge difference between targeting and torturing children as a deliberate tactic, and children being unavoidably caught up in an air strike or other military offensive.
There is no parity.
I keep seeing this. Talking to my kids teacher, about how all this is blowing up in school, I mentioned how, in the Middle East, I had heard casually expressed admiration of Hitler’s genocide of the Jews, the teacher responded ‘Israeli’s can be racist, I was in a taxi from the airport and the driver warned me to be careful of the Arabs because they rip you off’.
This teacher couldn’t see the difference, the lack of parity between supporting the genocide, the extermination of a race of people, and having a prejudiced and negative view of a ‘race’ of people.
Wariness is not as bad as murderousness. They are not on a par.