I didn't say it was acceptable, I condemn the death of any child, regardless of skin color or situation.
Ill leave @Jupitersstorm words here as a response to your post.
And when you feel upset reading them perhaps you'll have empathy and understanding for the upset that is felt when the death of another child who's only fault was being born on the 'other side' is questioned as justifiable until 'events leading up to it' are clear.
"You need to be patient and wait for all evidence to surface.
We should not speculate or theorise without the data."