Garbled message as typing when out and about. Yes, it is a problem. A massive one. And I’m not sure how Oct 7 will sway people. There are Israelis who have the ability to introspect and view things critically on both sides (really neither side have covered themselves with glory,) but they are being actively silenced by many, with a lot of slurs going on and a lot of rhetoric used against them, calling them “as bad as the Nazis.” (ie my Jewish family calling other Jewish Israelis this, to be clear.)
After initial furore in our family WhatsApp group and people leaving the group and then Gradually rejoining after Oct 7th, I think things have become calmer but there’s now an unwritten rule that no one is allowed to express sympathy for Gazans lest it offend the Israeli cohort (and our group has Arabs and Israelis in it, as well as two Palestinian Christians.) imagine them not being allowed to express hurt and anger and fear and grief.
when I was face timing my Israeli family members they expressed some vague sentiments about how the rising death toll of Gazans was “sad” but the overall prevailing attitude was “but what can we do when they simply don’t want peace?” Even my niece declared “the Palestinians arent like us though.” She’s a kid. What she meant by this was mystifying and I couldn’t find out further as her mum very sharply interrupted before I could ask, but it’s clear she’s already from a young age decided that the Palestinian deaths are somehow more acceptable as they’re just “not like them.” It’s the typical Israeli priming that happens within their education system, in their media. It’s rife if you look for it and these attitudes start to show.
And its this sort of shrugging off and vague excuses that makes me despair inside for a eventual political solution that doesn’t include wiping Gaza off the face of the earth