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Conflict in the Middle East

For people who say I stand with Israel

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sprinklesprinkle · 22/10/2023 15:30

What does that mean to you? Especially for Jewish people who are happy to answer.

I know what Free Palestine means - it has always meant freedom for Palestinians, peace, basic human rights such as water, the right to life essentially.

I Stand with Israel - what exactly does this mean?

I am genuinely not being 'goady" to use a MN word but I want to learn & understand. I know many will say not to have Israelis attacked at a festival or for the hostages to be released but what is the long term goal for those that support what the Israeli government is doing. What do you want for Palestinians?

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sprinklesprinkle · 22/10/2023 17:49

Thank you to those that have explained without being insulting.

It's not faux naiveté. Of course I've been aware of the situation but not immersed in it. I wanted to start to learn and read up when I started hearing the word apartheid used more. I'm a South African in my early 50's and not a white S African so I know all about apartheid. I got into a heated discussion with a friend (who's not S Africa) when I referred to Hamas as a terrorist group. She argued back that Mandela was also called a terrorist and if he didn't do what he did where would I or family be today? I tried explaining that it's not the same but she didn't want to listen. It's highly complex situation, that is not easily explained and people from both sides are suffering.

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Flyingthroughtrees · 22/10/2023 18:10

YoDood · 22/10/2023 17:16

Completely agree with that, and I’m not at all suggesting that anyone is taking a gleeful enjoyment in the horrific things which are happening to citizens on both sides.

It is just more a question of whether I should read complete support for the Israeli government’s actions into the “Hamas started it”, “don’t you think the British were right” and “what do you think we should do” type posts.

This exchange is helpful in highlighting the differences which may sit under those sorts of statements. You have said that my interpretation was wrong and I take it that from that you do not fully support what the Israeli government is doing. Loulou (I think, but am not sure) does seem to support the government’s retaliation notwithstanding the resulting starvation, war crimes and breaches of international law.

Those are quite different starting points which, if made clear, are highly relevant to the discussion.

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I neither condemn nor condone what the Israeli government is doing.

Because I don't know what a state should do in such a situation.

What does a 'proportionate' response look like? Should the IDF go in and murder babies? Should it go and mass rape Palestinian women? Should it go and tie up children and then burn them to death? Would that satisfy those calling for a 'proportionate' response? Should it torture 80% of those it kills? You go and listen to the testimony of the ZAKA volunteers retrieving the bodies of the murdered Jewish children, women and men, to understand the deliberate torturous brutality of Hamas.

Hamas in this attack have made it clear that they do not want a peaceful solution with Israel. That is the message they have very deliberately chosen to send. Their goal was to destroy the peace process forever.

So how do you 'proportionally' respond to an enemy whose only goal is your total destruction? What would satisfy those calling for 'proportionality'?

And why are those accusing Israel of war crimes, not condemning Hamas for war crimes in their recent ttacks?. Why are those accusing Israel of disproportionality not accusing Hamas and their attacks of being disproportionate in these attacks? We all know that the disgusting answer to that is because they think the torture, rape and murder of Jewish men, women and children was proportionate. And there is no word for that other than deep anti-semitism.

Because the fact is there is no response Israel could give that would satisfy the Free Palestine Protestors and their supporters. Because their response to this massacre shows that nothing Hamas does will be condemned. And everything Israel does, will be.

You'd have thought the massacre would have caused them to go ' Ah! Now I understand why Israel needed the blockades and road checks!' But no. Instead the utter numpties are still banging on about the injustice of the blockades. Nothing, nothing will make these people open their eyes.

Auvergne63 · 22/10/2023 18:24

soddingspiderseason · 22/10/2023 16:39

Then if you are in Gaza you should blame Hamas who broke a ceasefire to start a war with Israel by brutally torturing, raping and murdering 1400 people. Put the blame for this situation where it lies, with Hamas. Who even now are continuing to fire rockets into Israel. No food or water apparently, but plenty of rockets. Hamas are responsible for this.

I will not engage in a discussion with someone who believes that water and food have not been stopped by the Israeli government. This is despicable.
I will never stand by an Israeli government who flaunts international laws and has done for years as well as treating Palestinians as sub human. This has an echo of the past. Equally, I will never stand by Hamas or any terrorist organisations. I stand for humanity and empathy. Both my parents grew up under Nazi occupation; one of my grandfathers and a great uncle were sent to a labour camp. They survived. Their legacy was to teach me how precious life is.

MatthewsMumFromTikTok · 22/10/2023 18:27

@Auvergne63 but this isn't about YOU

Auvergne63 · 22/10/2023 18:28

YoDood · 22/10/2023 16:54

I always take this type of post (of which there are plenty others) to mean:

Hamas started it, but I support the right of the Israeli government to retaliate however they choose, however disproportionately and even it entails war crimes, the breach of international law, and the killing and starvation of hundreds of thousands”.

I would love to know whether I am mispresenting the position of @soddingspiderseason and others who make similar comments?

You are not.

Noicant · 22/10/2023 18:30

Namechangeagain2023 · 22/10/2023 15:39

I stand with Israel means to me that I will always support the existence of Israel as a democratic Jewish state. It also means I completely support the principle of them doing what they need to do to bring the hostages home and I support the need to eliminate Hamas.

Do not support the current Israel government who I hold responsible for entirely screwing up and tiny chance of a peaceful peace process and I do not support the starvation of innocent Gazan citizens

I will support the right of a Jewish homeland to the end of my days and also support a 2 state solution with a democratic government in Gaza and the West Bank helping them to build an infrastructure.

I support equal rights for arab Israel citizens within Israel and I believe that any Jews choosing to live on the West Bank need to do so under Palestinian rule and not colonise the land for themselves

That sums up how I see it too.

MrsFinkelstein · 22/10/2023 18:30

Brilliantlydone · 22/10/2023 16:52

How can you support the bombing of children ?

I don't.

Neither do I support the rape and murder of women, the burning alive of women and children, the beheading of children, the elderly being shot or having their throats slit, young people being shot.

https://twitter.com/MattGertz/status/1715848616059756720?t=5-NLoWiCJSi4I8Wis70jhg&s=19

https://twitter.com/MattGertz/status/1715848616059756720?s=19&t=5-NLoWiCJSi4I8Wis70jhg

Defiantjazz · 22/10/2023 18:31

Free Palestine unfortunately often means liberate the whole region, ie no more Israel, so people stand with Israel's continuous existence as a country and Jewish homeland.

I do know that many people supporting the Gazan civilians right now don't wish to see Israel's destruction, as a disclaimer to the above

Er..I don’t know where you got that idea from. I don’t think many people (outside of Hamas and their ilk) want this. Most people support the two state solution.

Flyingthroughtrees · 22/10/2023 18:31

Auvergne63 · 22/10/2023 18:24

I will not engage in a discussion with someone who believes that water and food have not been stopped by the Israeli government. This is despicable.
I will never stand by an Israeli government who flaunts international laws and has done for years as well as treating Palestinians as sub human. This has an echo of the past. Equally, I will never stand by Hamas or any terrorist organisations. I stand for humanity and empathy. Both my parents grew up under Nazi occupation; one of my grandfathers and a great uncle were sent to a labour camp. They survived. Their legacy was to teach me how precious life is.

I didn't see that post as saying anything about what the Israeli government are or are not doing, but rather making the point that Hamas are focused on military/ terrorist action rather than on humanitarian work for their own people. Which is what Hamas do. They've deliberately brought down slaughter on their own people, for their own ends.

Auvergne63 · 22/10/2023 18:32

MatthewsMumFromTikTok · 22/10/2023 18:27

@Auvergne63 but this isn't about YOU

Of course it isn't. My views/opinions have been formed/ influenced by my life experience like everybody else as well as seeking knowledge.

Flyingthroughtrees · 22/10/2023 18:33

Auvergne63 · 22/10/2023 18:28

You are not.

Yeah, yeah that poster was.

wheatsheaf8 · 22/10/2023 18:33

I know what Free Palestine means - it has always meant freedom for Palestinians, peace, basic human rights such as water, the right to life essentially.

No... that is not what it means

wheatsheaf8 · 22/10/2023 18:35

sprinklesprinkle · 22/10/2023 15:42

I believe the Jews have a right to a nation

What about a Palestinian's right to a nation? Where should they go?

Palestine was offered its own state many, many times. Every single time, they refused. The only resolution they would settle for was a complete destruction of Israel and one single Palestinian state.

PurpleChrayne · 22/10/2023 18:36

Jew here.

I stand with Israel means that I believe that the Jewish people deserve a homeland and we should be able to defend it. It is historically ours.

Brilliantlydone · 22/10/2023 18:36

MrsFinkelstein · 22/10/2023 18:30

I don't.

Neither do I support the rape and murder of women, the burning alive of women and children, the beheading of children, the elderly being shot or having their throats slit, young people being shot.

https://twitter.com/MattGertz/status/1715848616059756720?t=5-NLoWiCJSi4I8Wis70jhg&s=19

Certainly not, nor do I

PurpleChrayne · 22/10/2023 18:37

QuacketyQuack · 22/10/2023 16:12

How can anyone stand with Isreal after they dropped a bomb on a hospital, killed over 500 babies and children?

The fact that you can't even spell Israel, plus the fact that you clearly haven't read the news that it was an Islamic Jihad rocket and not the IDF, doesn't give me much faith in any opinion you have on this topic.

Defiantjazz · 22/10/2023 18:41

Eh they didn't. It was a misfired jihad rocket

Not been proven either way yet.

YoDood · 22/10/2023 18:43

Flyingthroughtrees · 22/10/2023 18:10

I neither condemn nor condone what the Israeli government is doing.

Because I don't know what a state should do in such a situation.

What does a 'proportionate' response look like? Should the IDF go in and murder babies? Should it go and mass rape Palestinian women? Should it go and tie up children and then burn them to death? Would that satisfy those calling for a 'proportionate' response? Should it torture 80% of those it kills? You go and listen to the testimony of the ZAKA volunteers retrieving the bodies of the murdered Jewish children, women and men, to understand the deliberate torturous brutality of Hamas.

Hamas in this attack have made it clear that they do not want a peaceful solution with Israel. That is the message they have very deliberately chosen to send. Their goal was to destroy the peace process forever.

So how do you 'proportionally' respond to an enemy whose only goal is your total destruction? What would satisfy those calling for 'proportionality'?

And why are those accusing Israel of war crimes, not condemning Hamas for war crimes in their recent ttacks?. Why are those accusing Israel of disproportionality not accusing Hamas and their attacks of being disproportionate in these attacks? We all know that the disgusting answer to that is because they think the torture, rape and murder of Jewish men, women and children was proportionate. And there is no word for that other than deep anti-semitism.

Because the fact is there is no response Israel could give that would satisfy the Free Palestine Protestors and their supporters. Because their response to this massacre shows that nothing Hamas does will be condemned. And everything Israel does, will be.

You'd have thought the massacre would have caused them to go ' Ah! Now I understand why Israel needed the blockades and road checks!' But no. Instead the utter numpties are still banging on about the injustice of the blockades. Nothing, nothing will make these people open their eyes.

Hmm yes I think you’re right that proportionality is perhaps not the right concept - it’s is perhaps suggestive of an eye for an eye which is inappropriate here.

I was thinking more along the lines of the principles which govern self-defence; the right to use such reasonable force as is strictly necessary in order to prevent harm to yourself or others, and no more. It is this which is hard to square against the killing of thousands, and in future hundreds of thousands, of innocent citizens.

I haven’t seen on here (MN) anything other than horror and disgust for the actions of Hamas and obviously I’m sorry if that has happened. Hamas are absolutely horrifically evil terrorists and there is no possible justification their abhorrent actions. There is absolutely no question of proportionality - it is just wrong on every possible scale. My support is fully with those who have suffered at their hands and those who are suffering from the concurrent rise in anti-semitism.

But it may also be that the Israeli government is engaged in the use of unreasonable force (using that measure above), war crimes etc which will cause horrific suffering. It is helpful to understand people’s position on this. Thank you for setting yours out so clearly.

EasternStandard · 22/10/2023 18:43

Not Jewish but agree Israel should exist and can defend from terror attacks

Less sure on Free Palestine

If Israel withdraws completely is that free?

For how many people is free meaning no Israel? Some, majority or few

lavender2023 · 22/10/2023 18:47

I am Jewish but I support Israel's right to defend itself as a sovereign state (has been so for over 70 years), rather than because it is considered the Jewish state. I disagree with what the current government is doing, it isn't just inhumane but also lacks foresight. You cannot continue the current policy of violent co-existence, your allies may not dare to tell you this, but you are running out of time because the age of American dominance is over and a multipolar world order means more conflict, so at some point unless you want to sacrifice future generations of Israelis, you need to find a solution that works for both parties). You cannot continue using your military strength on civilians and creating new generations of terrorists who would go onto hurt your own civilians. It is a perverse cycle of violence. It is not that you shouldn't defend yourself, but if you think that military force is always the solution, you would be doomed to conflict (and if the west is no longer strong, that is a recipe for disaster).

I sympathize with the Palestinian civilian population.

HeidiInTheBigCity · 22/10/2023 18:47

EasternStandard · 22/10/2023 18:43

Not Jewish but agree Israel should exist and can defend from terror attacks

Less sure on Free Palestine

If Israel withdraws completely is that free?

For how many people is free meaning no Israel? Some, majority or few

If Israel completely withdrew, sure!

But that would have to include giving up control over Palestinians` international borders, not "withdrawing" the way it did from Gaza.

Full national sovereignty, basically!

JimnJoyce · 22/10/2023 18:48

You can't equate all of the Palestinian people with Hamas

Notbeinfunnehbut · 22/10/2023 18:49

ScribblingPixie · 22/10/2023 16:00

I also know if I were Jewish right now I’d be terrified

I literally heard a couple saying goodbye to a shopkeeper when I was out today as they'd decided to leave London immediately. Just awful.

Why are western people so desperate to centre themselves in war crimes happening
elsewhere ? So narcissistic

unless they are also relentlessly being bombed and have no access to water or electricity there’s no comparison at all ,

Pollyputhekettleon · 22/10/2023 18:52

EasternStandard · 22/10/2023 18:43

Not Jewish but agree Israel should exist and can defend from terror attacks

Less sure on Free Palestine

If Israel withdraws completely is that free?

For how many people is free meaning no Israel? Some, majority or few

I don't think it matters in the end what proportion of Palestinians want the Israeli state dissolved. Even if it were a minority, the majority would be irrelevant in the face of a far more motivated, well armed, funded, trained minority with support from every surrounding state. If Israel stood down its army tomorrow that would be the end of it as everyone knows.