Trying To Conceive after a Miscarriage - We CAN Do It !!!!

[Diddle]

Thought as there was 955 messages on our old thread that we should have a new one again, its very annoying scrolling down to the bottom.

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Welcome to our new thread girls.

Should we put our stats again???
saves us thread hopping, and we have had newbies.
I will try and copy some from the old thread.

Well i am completely feeling like my head is going to explode!
Maddyd - So you think that i'm not then? But i thought that sometimes you can still get a BNF a while after getting BFN's? Sorry, i got my hopes up last week when Tabs said that she had got 2 weeks of BFN before her BFP showed. Arghhhh, i dont know!
Diddle - I have Cat you, let me know if you dont get it and i'll text you. You know i said about the crystal thing, well i have been asking it all morning, i have it clutched in my hand and every time it says YES! I asked it loads of other questions, i even asked it if Spacecadet and Rach Rog was, it got that right too! I have asked it a million and one questions trying to catch it out but every time it's right. I have even asked it questions i do not know the answer to and then looked them up! How wierd! I have booked into the docs tomo at 10.20am to have a chat! I feel like a big huge pile of crap!

Oh i have had a good cry, i cant stop tho! I tell ya, i look like exactly how i feel! Good job my boss isn't in today!

No Lottie im not saying your not, im just saying its not that high percantage that would test negative at this stage. I would say if you did one of those early tests and it came up negative then the chances are pretty low of you being pregnant. Sorry to sound negative i dont mean to, i hope i havnt upset you further. Its just we get so hopfull dont we???????

How early did you get a posotive test last time???

Sorry your having a bad day LLou

Must get of the computer as Ofsted (arghhhhhhh) will be here soon.

Maddyd - to be honest it did upset me a little but at the same time brought me back to earth i guess. I was approx 1 1/2 weeks late but i didn't test once before so just got a BFP straight away. All this maybe in my head i know but i am very very rarely late and always get pains when i am due but i have only had one tiny cramping pain last friday but then nothing at all. Perhaps am clutching at straws.

Maddyd - they had Banana Boat in Boots last year, but I haven't seen it this year (but I'm working somewhere different now and it's a much smaller branch). I got mine from one of the large brances of Tesco (Tesco extra). There are some other PABA-free ones out there, and they will usually say so on the label (which tells you how common PABA allergies are) - you just need to read all teh labesl carefully to make sure you've found one of them.

it didn't work lottie, no cat from you

xena - good luck with ofsted hope it all goes well.
Lottielou - hope you're blubbing has made you feel a little better. I think maddyd is just trying to be sensible and not get you're hopes up, she coudl be right, and all the exercise and training you have been doing could also have slowed af down. But i do believe there is still hope, you'll get you're BFP eventually.

Just got back from the dentist, had an injection in my gum, now i can hardly talk, i look really daft. Can't eat for an hour and it will be numb for 3HOURS!!! that ages. feel like an elephant, not that i know what they feel like.

hello ladies. just wanted to say thank you to those of you who responded to my thread. miscarriage is so hard. I cant believe i have 4 babies as angels now.....i know i have 3 here with me but it is still hard. good luck to all of you x x x

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Diddle- great to see you, bet you're all excited.
Maddy- your poor little man! Best get better soon wishes being sent his way. I'm great, no sign of af. Knowing me I'll end up pg without one!
Xena, Lottie- great to see you both.
Thanks Titania. Mc is a cruel business but luckily we're all for eachother!

very quite isn't it, i've been out for 5 hours and there is still only 2 messages since i left.
Hope you're all having a great day.
Titania - Our pleasure, glad we could help.
So sorry for your losses.
HK - Hello, yes very excited. Going to get our Euros in a minute.

Hi everyone, Havent been around for a few days. My birhtday was on Saturday. We went to the 'Taste of London food festival' in Regents Park. We had a great time, weather was stunning. DH met Gary Rhodes , JC Novelli and Michel Roux Jnr. On Sunday we went to local lido and had a picnic for fathers day. We really had a perfect weekend.
Have a hospital appointment with consultant on Wednesday to explain all the test results. Hopefully will be given the all clear. AF due on Friday can start seriously trying next month hopefully.
So whats the news here.?Any positive tests?

cori - no recent news. Sounds like you had a wonderful weekend My Af has just finished so loads of bd for me. Going on my hols on Wed, so won't be able to check how your tests went, best of luck.

Evening ladies

Quite a bit to read today.

Lottielou-hope you are feeling much better and have made up with DP-MEN it is day 21 after my MC and I still find it a struggle to speak to my DH. They really are from Mars!

Maddyd-hope your DS is recovering-I have to be careful with suncream as it gives me prickly heat (not nice)-my DD only had a slight heat rash. If my AF takes another 55 days to show I am going to kill myself as that wouldn't be until August and I still haven't passed everything yet! Arrghh!!! I WANT TO BE PG BY THEN! (lots of feet stamping)

Cori-good luck for your test results.

Titania-lovely to hear from you-you know where we are if you need us {{{x}}}

Love and hugs to everyone. It is the final of Celeb Love Island so I'm off to watch it and do some ironing.

Until tomorrow
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GOOD MORNING!!!
Hello everyone, hope you're ok and ready to enjoy another sunny day.

Morning all.
Spending the afternoon in the garden (still trying to brown). Already got the housework done so today can be relaxing.
Still no sign or symptoms of af. Hmmmmm. Ah well guess she'll show when she's ready.
How is everyone?

Hello all
The Ofsted visit yesterday went well (it was a safety inspection). She called back last night to say she would be coming to do my inspection in the next 2 weeks!!
Took my last pill yesterday so Af will be due this week, I'm not sure what to do I don't know if I want to get pg anymore??

Xena- I know what you mean. I think if it was'nt for ds2, and wanting him to have a brother or sister, I doubt I would. How are you?

Glad the inspection went well to

xena - so pleased the inspection went ok, horrible aren't they.
I can't say i know how you feel about wanting another baby, but i hope you come to a decision.
You need to sit down and think of the reasons why you do and don't.

Lottiwlou - are you with us today?? how are you feeling?

Hi All!
I have sort of been watching this morning but just wanted to let you know that I am not going to be on here until next Monday. I cant handle this being in limbo lark. I wish i coudl just know either way and then i can get on with things.
I went to see my dic this morning, he was so supportive. He said that obviously there is a great chance that i could be as all the symptoms i have point otwards yes. He didnt do a test as he didn;t seem to think it would be worth it as i got a BFN on Sunday and he didn't want me disheartened if it were to say BFN, he said blood pressure was up slightly so i need to calm down a little. He gave me hope, i asked him to be completely honest and not give my false hope. He said to leave it till the weekend, not every 3 days to give me a break from it. So am waiting until Saturday morning to test, fingers crossed i get my BFP then. But if not i am trying to look on the positive side that i can get back to trying again! I will get there! As we all will on here!
So on that note i am going to give MN a rest until i come back to work on Mon (well thats the plan at the moment)
I hope you are all keeping well and good luck to any testers and BD'ers.
If there are any devlopments with me i will let you know.
Diddle - Will keep in contact by text hun! When is it you go away? Is it tomo?
Love Ya'll, will still be thinkning bout you all! x

Oh dear i went to see my dic???!! LOL i meant Doc! Oh i have made me giggle! x

Oh Lottie so sorry you're not right. Glad you're "dic" was positive, looks like there really is hope, oh good. i think he's probably right about the testing but its not that easy is it. I'd be tempted to test every day, then i'd be very poor.
Yes we're going tomorrow morning, just getting the washing done. Got loads to do. I hope a break from mumsnet helps you, i often wonder if its doing me more harm than good, keeps you thinking about it all the time. maybe not having it on your mind all the time and getting back to some normality will help you're blood pressure too.
Oh i feel so sad for you, you make sure you take it easy.
How is you're dp being now, have you sorted yourselves out?
Not defending him or anything, but it is so hard for men to understand us women and often they say the wrong things and come across as though they don't care, but its often just that they don't know how to deal with it. He'll come round.

You better stay in touch, will have my mobile on my hols and i know it works over there, so feel free to text whenever you want.

Its very weird, i feel like i've known you for ages, I'm very worried about you. i hope that you will be ok.

Diddle - Thanks hun! I'm sure that a break will do me good. Well thats the plan anyway!
I hope you have a wonderful holiday, you make sure you get plenty of rest and enjoy yourself. x Have a cocktail for me x
DP and i have sorted things out now, i sent him an emial yesterday pouring my heart out so he called me, we had words over the phone as he was still being very insensitive but when i picked me up after work he appologised and agreed that he had been very out of order and that i knew what he had done wrong. We kissed and made up! So all is sorted now.
I am trying to convince myself that i am not pg but i cant help feeling that i am, now i am feeling that i have got my hopes up way toomuch and feel like i have imagined all the symptoms and the stress of it is keeping AF away! Well we shall see. I will let you know on Saturday morning what the result is and will text you now and again to see how your holiday is going, i wont text too much as it's a breal you need not me texting every 5 secs. LOL
I know exactly what you mean about knowing each other for ages, it feels like i have met you, feels like we went to school together or something. It's really wierd, good wierd tho, it's special!
Dont worry about me hun, i will be fine, i promise. and as i said if i do get a BFN or AF arrives then yes i will be gutted but i will get over it and get back to trying. I will be fine please dont worry about me just have a lovley holiday!
You take care sweetie x x x x x x x

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