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dh and I are having a last push at ttc. we are giving it either a year or another mc before we give up (haven't told gp ) so i have decided to reopen the anti-testing thread!

thankyou lissie! It was/is my downfall.

I hope you have some luck xx

and you. are you ttc this month? how are you feeling now?

gonna hop back on, yes , GP said i twas ok. Physically im fine; mentally much better but still

i know babe.

i almost feel mean for feeling happy sometimes, dykwim?

Well i don't know how ttc works after mc? guess i just carry on doing whatever we want and see? Will i ov in first cycle?

probably, i find that a few cycles post-mc are quite erratic with either early or late ov. but theres no such thing as normal in these circs.

I'm not TTC (all done with that)

Just wanted to pop in and say the best of luck to you both

and NO early testing! Am going to wait a week longer than normal, then do it. Will be obvious by then.

thank you benny

scorpio, i never test early now. unfortunately i have to test on CD28 because of my history, and again after my period, but i refuse to test earlier!

Well im going to wait until cd40. so there.

(normally get BFP on like cd32)

wow Scorpio, thats impressive. if you are tempted just think of the stats!

Please refer me to this thread in a motnh or so. ta muchly

no problem! im in the dreaded 2ww, but not holding out much hope. got a bit of backache last night and period is due in 7d.

aghh, 2ww. I'm cd8 - a week ago i was sat in the doctors screeching . Testing, when, then lissie?

oh sweet

testing next monday i think. lost tube at 6+4 so cant afford to hang round really.

hiya scorpio i lost a baby at 6+4 weeks (i think we were on the ttc thread together). at my follow up scan they told me i was oving and we started trying straight away before my first af. didnt catch but did the next month. weve now got a lovely 10 1/2 mth old . i couldnt wait to test mind and found out about her when i was 3+6 weeks which ment i felt like i was pregnant forever! good luck for this month (you too lissie) x

spugs thats lovely i found out about the other baby at 3+6 too; really dont want to early test next time!

thanks spugs. i tend to get bfp's quite early on so its particularly hard for me to hold off. but i have to for my own sanity!

well, 6d til period is due, currently 8dpo and this is the tough part. going up town later so shall be avoiding boots methinks!

Lissie you better not have gone in boots!

nope, you will be v proud of me. didnt even look at it!

but did get some nice new undies

good, even better you didnt even look

in our boots the tests and condoms etc are right by the till, so a little embarassing, especially as such a small place you are bound to know someone in there!

Have just worked out if my cycle stays the same, i could get BFP whilst DH is away in April (2nd cycle). eeek. Am never that lucky though!

you never know Scorpio, keeping everything crossed for you!!

am in a v bad mood today. trying not to think about impending period. this month i seem to have lost the plot a bit and am obsessive in a way ivw not been for years!