ttc #4 ? come over here and join the noisy section..

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TTC #4 and lurking in the shadows really as some people may tut and say surely 3 is enough!
Anyone else doing the same?

Oh blimey, I will cringe if no one comes over!

Kat, don't panic about ectopic. If bleeding with an ectopic you would be in pain and bleeding would have been very dark (black).
I think a scan is def called for - very excited for you I do think former bleeding was implantation - it can last as a long as a proper period for some women (and be as heavy).

Excellent KAT - hope you get some answers from GP

Thanks Diege, bleeding was just red with a few tiny clotty bits but not as much as the month before when I had a painful mc (at same gestation) which lasted a week.
Seeing a nice female GP, and no never got a proper negative after my bleed. Got another faint BFP 3 days fater bleed but didn't look at it too much.

Kat - don't know if you have already left for doc's, but just wanted to say make sure that they do blood test. It does not sound too good to be low levels hcg, but it can be still ok. One thing is certain you are still pg. I hope that they send you for scan today to find out.

i think it must be implantation as well - good luck! Would get a test today but are basically snowed in!

Kat....god luck, hope you get the answers you need x

MrsD - those bloody men. I bet he will change gis mind soon enough, especially if you let him think it was his idea, not yours iyswim. I fought DH for 18 motnhs to ttc#3 - it nearly broke us up, i think. One day he told me he couldnt take it anymore and could i stop asking - i did. 2 motnhs later he told me to get my coil out in the middle of woolies

everyone is off due to snow. cue tears over snowballs.

Kat - hope you're getting some answers

kat, how annoying they didn't scan you the other day. I do hope you get sent for a scan today, something is definitely going on!

Talking of scans, I've got my nuchal scan this afternoon, I'll come back and post later- that is if I haven't died of shock!

Well, that was a waste of time really, she thinks there's a good chance I may still be pregnant but the hospital won't scan you until you're over 7 weeks so I have to wait another week, do another test and if it's still positive she'll get me scanned straight away.

Ho hum, I was ordered not to do any tests before next Tuesday - yeah right! Gonna save the other digi until then but don't think I'll be able to resist those ebay cheapies calling me from the bathroom cupboard.

Limboland... lovely place NOT.

Good luck Heinz! 2 babies......??

My CP and CM is weird...sorry if TMI. Almost ewcm and cp very high and soft...weird. am due period anytime really - next day or so expected. sore boobs. tired and weeing alot! (all normal and explainable btw...)

kat - can you go privately? they will scan before that privately.

something like this had my 3d scan here with mimi!

Hmm am googling them, cheapest round here is £90 can't really see DH going for that when I can have a free one in a week.... men don't understand these things... also would probably make sense to wait otherwise if they can't see a HB or anything I'll still have to wait another week or so.

Haven't even told anyone apart from my Mam, don't want to get DH all confuzzled (plus he's away) it's so nice to be able to chat on here, thanks xxxx

OOH Heinz, excited for you and your scan later Good luck!

i think this is the only place i natter about all this stuff - DH is only interested when its + !

dd has a cold and is very clingy today, poor girl.

Awww, poor baby Mine are all at school and I should be doing uni stuff. I have the document open but it's not writing itself sadly

Kat - sorry the doc was not more helpful, did she not even do a blood test? I thought that would be the minimum she would do. arrggg, so frustrating. Limbo land is a horrible place to be.

Heinz - hope the scan goes well.

sorry I can't stop to chat for long, got to go collect ds1 from school. Feel like I am always in the car at the moment.

Thanks Rainbow, I asked her about a bloodtest and she said it wouldn't be helpful at this stage.

Heinz, looking forward to news of scan.

Kat, oh my goodness, got my fingers crossed for you, really hope it was implantation bleed [can I also admit to being slightly ??

lol at your essay not writing itself.

hello everyone else x

Twigs I wouldn't be hun... think I'd rather have a BFN than be in limboland TBH. (does that sound awful?)
You are so sweet though, thanks
Obviously if everything is good then I'd be but I'm not getting my hopes up.

Thinking more than likely it was an incomplete mc or something.... just want to KNOWWWWW!!!

You're gonna have to put up with this for a week you know, I'm sorry in advance LOL.

Can I ask where we all live? I'm in Durham in the North East - was anticipating snow but it failed to materialise and yesterdays all gone now - kids are well annoyed!

I'm in very very south Cornwall! Have had a bit of snow, notm uch though as so close to sea.

How many weeks 'should' you be? sure of when you oved? Maybe you lost a twin ? The conception indicator is following conception, and you could be at the latter end of 2 weeks, so 4-5 weeks pg?

Sorry your gp wasn't more helpful KAT, although I suppose in one sense it's better to wait until nearer 7 weeks for a scan so that you can get a conclusive (ish) answer. FWIW, my BIL works in an NHS lab analysing bloods, and says that they've started refusing requests for HCG testing before 6.6-7 weeks as the results are just so variable and give people false hope/unncecssary worry. Their official line now is that they don't use HCG for dating purposes - doesn't help you much though! Am hopeful that things are looking positive for you
I'm in North West (Warrington) and the snow has all but disappeared!
Looking forward to your scan news HEINZ .
SCORPIO, you have the patience of a saint not testing...EWM sound good - I had that when a few days late, always have had at end of cyclke when pregnant. Fingers crossed x
Big waves to everyone else

I was so pissed off with the ebay cheapies that i have just given up. Was testing too early anyway, it has appeared. cd34 today......Wondering about just holding out till saturday so if period hasnt come by then i might stand a chance!!