Hello girls.
Haven't been around much as been in a bit of a funny old state.
Had an appointment with the fertility doctor yesterday (thanks Heron for recommending her), and she said I should either do clomid, or IVF. I was surprised she recommended IVF, as I've conceived four times in the past three years, but she says if I got enough eggs, and then embryos, they could test them for chromosone probs, and put the good ones back. A year ago I was told to just keep trying naturally rather than try this technique, but I haven't conceived for a year, so maybe it's time to move on.
However, even with good responding, the success rate at my age isn't great.
And, to add to the confusion, I'm just been offered a new job, one that I really want! I'd have to do the IVF pretty soon, which feels bad just into a new job. So I'd have to lie, which means stress, etc...
And, we had been trying to adopt. All has gone tits up, as they've basically told us there aren't any suitable children, but if I do IVF it means I won't be able to do any other adoption route for at least another year (it's their rules).
My head's in a spin!