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TWW at 40 yrs old

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poppymango · 20/02/2025 09:12

A few days into my two week wait now, period due around 2nd of March.

Trying not to get too excited as I'll soon be 40 and I know my chances are lower - nevertheless, I found myself downloading a pregnancy tracking app this morning and looking at all the visuals of what the baby would look like at various stages 🙃

Anyone else out there want to wait with me? Crossing fingers and toes for my November baby!!

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VanessaShanessaJenkins99 · 22/04/2025 12:58

Iris2024 · 22/04/2025 11:59

My AF come on first cycle back 😔 onto second cycle. I’m CD6 today and my fertile window is showing from Friday onwards. This will be for a January babaa.

Im loving that I’ve got other woman in their 40s to chat to.

Congratulations @Daisychains9 ❤️ this gives me hope ❤️

Where is everyone in their cycle?

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I am on cycle day 6 too but I have pcos so my cycles are longer - so my "app is saying" 14 days until I ovulate but I am taking Maca Root and Inositol to help regulate! When we tried to conceive our son I took these and my first cycle was a bit all over the place but my second cycle I ovulated on day 14 and fell pregnant! I am 42 though now so that is at the back of my mind worrying that it will make it harder :(

MrBigsCat · 22/04/2025 13:06

I’m on O day today
trying sperm meets egg plan this month as we have tried every other day for past 6 months and no success!

VanessaShanessaJenkins99 · 22/04/2025 13:12

MrBigsCat · 22/04/2025 13:06

I’m on O day today
trying sperm meets egg plan this month as we have tried every other day for past 6 months and no success!

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How old are you if you don't mind me asking? Do you have any other children?

Mouche85 · 22/04/2025 14:27

39 yo herr
OPK positive sunday.
At home insemination yesterday
2 weeks to wait

Iris2024 · 22/04/2025 16:54

VanessaShanessaJenkins99 · 22/04/2025 12:58

I am on cycle day 6 too but I have pcos so my cycles are longer - so my "app is saying" 14 days until I ovulate but I am taking Maca Root and Inositol to help regulate! When we tried to conceive our son I took these and my first cycle was a bit all over the place but my second cycle I ovulated on day 14 and fell pregnant! I am 42 though now so that is at the back of my mind worrying that it will make it harder :(

Oooooo we in the same cycle, my cycles range from 24-28 days but definitely have got shorter lately. I’m 41 now so know how you feel with the worry of it being harder. I’m taking folic acid, omega 3 and 600mg COQ10 a month. What does maca root and inositol help with?

MrBigsCat · 22/04/2025 19:30

VanessaShanessaJenkins99 · 22/04/2025 13:12

How old are you if you don't mind me asking? Do you have any other children?

I have 3 children and I’m almost 40
#1 took 2.5 years
#2 took 4 months
#3 took 6 months so 🤷🏼‍♀️
been ttc almost 2 years now

VanessaShanessaJenkins99 · 22/04/2025 20:06

Iris2024 · 22/04/2025 16:54

Oooooo we in the same cycle, my cycles range from 24-28 days but definitely have got shorter lately. I’m 41 now so know how you feel with the worry of it being harder. I’m taking folic acid, omega 3 and 600mg COQ10 a month. What does maca root and inositol help with?

Inositol is something to do with regulating insulin which is a major thing with pcos and then maca root is for hormone imbalance and fertility- im also taking the 7 seas trying for a baby !

VanessaShanessaJenkins99 · 22/04/2025 20:06

MrBigsCat · 22/04/2025 19:30

I have 3 children and I’m almost 40
#1 took 2.5 years
#2 took 4 months
#3 took 6 months so 🤷🏼‍♀️
been ttc almost 2 years now

Oh wow ! Did you conceive them all naturally?

MrBigsCat · 25/04/2025 08:31

VanessaShanessaJenkins99 · 22/04/2025 20:06

Oh wow ! Did you conceive them all naturally?

Yes, I was in my 20s though!

im 4dpo here how about everyone else?

VanessaShanessaJenkins99 · 25/04/2025 11:56

MrBigsCat · 25/04/2025 08:31

Yes, I was in my 20s though!

im 4dpo here how about everyone else?

I am on cycle day 8 - so ive started doing my ovulation tests and will have sex every other day until i get a positive ovulation and then i think the 3 days after - just to make sure there are enough swimmers up there!

Mouche85 · 25/04/2025 16:42

We are exactly (if my calculations are right) another same stage.

Did you have any early sign for your previous pregnancies?

VanessaShanessaJenkins99 · 25/04/2025 19:43

Mouche85 · 25/04/2025 16:42

We are exactly (if my calculations are right) another same stage.

Did you have any early sign for your previous pregnancies?

I had sore boobs but that was about it ! But i think you can think everything is a symptom

Fullofconfusion · 25/04/2025 22:28

I’m 7dpo I think. I keep getting lower abdomen tugging pains the last 24 hours…trying to relax and not overthink

MrBigsCat · 26/04/2025 08:36

Fullofconfusion · 25/04/2025 22:28

I’m 7dpo I think. I keep getting lower abdomen tugging pains the last 24 hours…trying to relax and not overthink

2 days begind you at 5dpo here

Fullofconfusion · 26/04/2025 09:12

MrBigsCat · 26/04/2025 08:36

2 days begind you at 5dpo here

When are you testing?

I was thinking maybe Wednesday

MrBigsCat · 26/04/2025 09:33

@Fullofconfusion im out of tests so I’m going to hold off as long as I can before ordering on Amazon!
af due Monday 5th May

TheFutureIs · 26/04/2025 11:31

Period has finished, hoping I ovulate just after he gets back from the stag do

SCK2024 · 27/04/2025 16:21

Hey girls 🌸

AF was due around 26-29th.

i had V light bleed for one day (25th) red in colour.

on the 24th had severe cramps and back ache to the point I needed co-codamol it was that bad, never had pms ever or symptoms like that.

or had bleed for 1 day - lightly.

i haven’t done a HPT as urine will be diluted.

anyone had aimilar and BFP?

VioIetMoon · 28/04/2025 00:22

Hi Ladies , hope its ok to join.
Wishing you all the best of luck this cycle
I'm currently 2dpo but not holding out much hope this month either

CheekyLittleD · 28/04/2025 07:27

Hello all. I'm hopping over here from the April TTC thread, which was not quite the right place for me. Because my cycles are still adjusting to coming off the pill in January and so I spent most of this month in that thread with nothing to say because my OPKs were showing nowt of note.

Until Saturday, when I finally got this month's LH peak. So we DTD on Saturday and yesterday and, if DH is up to it, again tonight to be on the safe side.

I'm 40 and he's 44, and we're TTC baby #1. We met when I was 38 and had all but given up on finding my person, marriage and all that jazz. If we're lucky enough to have a baby, it would be the icing on the cake for us, but very much counting our blessings about finding each other in the first place.

We've been trying since I quit the mini-pill in January but my cycles have been a bit all over the place, but gradually shortening now. Good luck to everyone on this journey too x

MrBigsCat · 28/04/2025 07:33

SCK2024 · 27/04/2025 16:21

Hey girls 🌸

AF was due around 26-29th.

i had V light bleed for one day (25th) red in colour.

on the 24th had severe cramps and back ache to the point I needed co-codamol it was that bad, never had pms ever or symptoms like that.

or had bleed for 1 day - lightly.

i haven’t done a HPT as urine will be diluted.

anyone had aimilar and BFP?

Edited

I would test in any case as if you are pregnant it should show diluted or not! Good luck

MrBigsCat · 28/04/2025 07:34

VioIetMoon · 28/04/2025 00:22

Hi Ladies , hope its ok to join.
Wishing you all the best of luck this cycle
I'm currently 2dpo but not holding out much hope this month either

Welcome- how long have you been trying so far?

MrBigsCat · 28/04/2025 07:36

Welcome @CheekyLittleD hope your cycles regulate soon for you

Fullofconfusion · 28/04/2025 08:02

@SCK2024I had very light pinkish discharge and expected my period to start last time I was pregnant. It didn’t come so I tested and negative. Tested again maybe 5 days later and it was a BFP so I’d wait a few days and do a test. I get awful period cramps so no help there. My periods were irregular so no idea when I ovulated or conceived in the cycle so was very surprised when I tested positive.

Well I’m 10po today and I caved this morning and tested. There is the faintest line. It came up within the time but it’s very faint. I’m not holding my breath as I had a chemical 2 cycles ago. I just kind of feel a bit numb for want of a better word.

Fullofconfusion · 28/04/2025 09:44

I can’t edit my post to add a photo but this is my test this morning. Line is definitely there but super faint. I am only 10dpo though

TWW at 40 yrs old