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February TTC Support Group

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Kateb149 · 09/01/2025 20:19

Hi all ☺️ I am now starting Cycle 6 TTC baby number one. I know some of us on January thread said it would be good to set up a Feb thread so thought i’d start it.

I should be ovulating around 17-18th so will be testing on 1st Feb!

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Thomsonetthompson · 20/01/2025 15:32

Thank you for the info. I've got a condition which means we need loads of lube. Probably can't have too much hope for this month either if normal lube is so bad! I'll get some for next month I suppose.

@Matilda, there's no harm in pushing back and advocating for yourself. You've got nothing to lose!

Miffy1994 · 20/01/2025 16:03

Matildahoney · 20/01/2025 15:00

I'm really annoyed with the GP, I did an e consult (that's how you get an appt at my surgery) they've basically come back and said it can take a while for cycles to regulate after coming off the pill and to wait a few months! I don't have a few months, I'm 42! I'm also pretty certain it's not the pill that's the issue, I was on it 20 years and cycles returned to normal immediately, I can't see that this is going to chance after only 9 months back on it!! I feel like I've just been written off. Do I go back and say this?!

Rightly annoyed! That doesn’t sound like they’ve really listened to you. I’d definitely go back and say what you’ve said here to them. Maybe also tell them (/exaggerate a little?!) how long it took to conceive DS?

Orangelover · 20/01/2025 17:41

May I dive on here?

I think I'm around CD14 and either ovulating today or tomorrow. Been going for it most days anyway for the last week but this is the first month I've done temping and ovulation sticks as we've been "seeing what happens" with no contraception for a while to no avail (although not particularly trying hard so I'm not counting it). I'm 31 and this will be baby number 1. We've been ready to try for a while but life has got in the way but we're really hopeful this year and have a nice open calendar to see what happens and I just feel really positive.

I had a peak I think yesterday morning so hoping that my extra January efforts pay off and AF due 5th Feb so going to aim to hold out with the testing until then and just relax for a bit after this week (yeah I know, we'll see Wink).

Kateb149 · 20/01/2025 18:09

Orangelover · 20/01/2025 17:41

May I dive on here?

I think I'm around CD14 and either ovulating today or tomorrow. Been going for it most days anyway for the last week but this is the first month I've done temping and ovulation sticks as we've been "seeing what happens" with no contraception for a while to no avail (although not particularly trying hard so I'm not counting it). I'm 31 and this will be baby number 1. We've been ready to try for a while but life has got in the way but we're really hopeful this year and have a nice open calendar to see what happens and I just feel really positive.

I had a peak I think yesterday morning so hoping that my extra January efforts pay off and AF due 5th Feb so going to aim to hold out with the testing until then and just relax for a bit after this week (yeah I know, we'll see Wink).

Hiya 👋 welcome! How have you found temping and ovulation sticks this month?

Hope you manage to stay nice and relaxed ☺️ I’m in TWW now too and trying not to think about it but it is hard!

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Matildahoney · 20/01/2025 18:24

Miffy1994 · 20/01/2025 16:03

Rightly annoyed! That doesn’t sound like they’ve really listened to you. I’d definitely go back and say what you’ve said here to them. Maybe also tell them (/exaggerate a little?!) how long it took to conceive DS?

Technically if I include the MC then it was a year TBF!
I've gone back and said I want a blood test, no response as yet. I said I'd like a discussion with someone too but just a form!

Orangelover · 20/01/2025 22:18

@Kateb149 yes ok I think! I'm yet to see a temp change though but going with it. I feel like I'm doing some sort of science experiment. All kind of fun for now but I can imagine wears thin after a few months.

Wishing everyone the best luck 🍀

Marvelftw · 21/01/2025 06:26

Hey, joining from the January threads, TTC #1 3rd cycle. AF arrived this morning. I don’t know if it’s a blessing or a curse but the last two months when I was trying I had strong period like cramps really quickly, about 2 DPO. It’s good in a way because it means I know early on that I’m not pregnant but also a bit sad because I don’t really get those days of hope in between.

Room4onemore · 21/01/2025 07:24

Morning all, I’m cycle day 9 today but yesterday I had brown blood a few times when I wiped. I know this is old blood but will it affect my ovulation? Thanks

maple1234 · 21/01/2025 07:38

I am in absolute shock. I don't know how I'm going to wait until 5pm when my husband gets home

February TTC Support Group
Kateb149 · 21/01/2025 08:09

Orangelover · 20/01/2025 22:18

@Kateb149 yes ok I think! I'm yet to see a temp change though but going with it. I feel like I'm doing some sort of science experiment. All kind of fun for now but I can imagine wears thin after a few months.

Wishing everyone the best luck 🍀

It is a bit like a science experiment and I can confirm it does get a bit tiring 😅 just try not to read too much into it and you’ll be fine x

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Kateb149 · 21/01/2025 08:10

maple1234 · 21/01/2025 07:38

I am in absolute shock. I don't know how I'm going to wait until 5pm when my husband gets home

Oh my god massive congratulations!!! What an amazing thing to wake up to this morning! X

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BerrieSweet · 21/01/2025 08:16

maple1234 · 21/01/2025 07:38

I am in absolute shock. I don't know how I'm going to wait until 5pm when my husband gets home

Congratularions!!🥹😍😍

maple1234 · 21/01/2025 08:38

Thank you everyone. Its my first ever positive test so praying all goes well 💓

Thewaitingseason · 21/01/2025 09:03

maple1234 · 21/01/2025 07:38

I am in absolute shock. I don't know how I'm going to wait until 5pm when my husband gets home

Congratulations!🥳

Lcc5261 · 21/01/2025 09:11

maple1234 · 21/01/2025 07:38

I am in absolute shock. I don't know how I'm going to wait until 5pm when my husband gets home

Congratulations! X

Alex2022 · 21/01/2025 10:39

Coming over from the Jan group. Great to see some positives here already! Congratulations ✨

littlefox90 · 21/01/2025 12:20

Hi everyone, AF arrived today so coming over from the January thread. This will be 5th cycle for me measuring LH but just ordered a BBT thermometer 🤞

littlefox90 · 21/01/2025 12:21

maple1234 · 21/01/2025 07:38

I am in absolute shock. I don't know how I'm going to wait until 5pm when my husband gets home

Congratulations 🎉❤️
What a lovley thing to see so early in the thread x

Sunch · 21/01/2025 12:50

@maple1234 congratulations!! Fantastic news 🥰

Kateb149 · 21/01/2025 14:16

Welcome @Alex2022 and @littlefox90 ☺️ wishing you all the best this cycle!

@littlefox90 I’ve only ever done LH tests too but always been tempted to get a thermometer. Let us know how you get on x

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maple1234 · 21/01/2025 16:08

Thank you everyone 🥰 wishing everyone luck this month

Kateb149 · 21/01/2025 17:10

1DPO today so TWW has started. I’m interested to see what my PMS symptoms are like this month if I don’t get my BFP as i’ve been eating better and doing exercise since the start of Jan and taking different supplements too… hopefully this all helps with TTC as well 🤞

Felt this ‘warm’ feeling in my uterus today as if it was hot but the rest of me was cold. I know that sounds absolutely bonkers and it’s way too early to symptom spot but just thought it was weird 😂 hope everyone is getting on okay!

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Floralcat · 21/01/2025 18:09

Kateb149 · 21/01/2025 17:10

1DPO today so TWW has started. I’m interested to see what my PMS symptoms are like this month if I don’t get my BFP as i’ve been eating better and doing exercise since the start of Jan and taking different supplements too… hopefully this all helps with TTC as well 🤞

Felt this ‘warm’ feeling in my uterus today as if it was hot but the rest of me was cold. I know that sounds absolutely bonkers and it’s way too early to symptom spot but just thought it was weird 😂 hope everyone is getting on okay!

TTC makes you sooo aware of your body i think! Hope TWW flies by for you, are you an early tester or will you wait ? X

carolinep3 · 21/01/2025 18:10

Guys does anyone have any words of wisdom about spas in the tww?
Hubbys bday and I booked us a spa day on Saturday. Completely not thinking, I haven't ovulated yet but expect to in the next few days and I know heat - hot baths, jacuzzi's etc aren't good for fertilization and isn't good for sperm either 🤷🏻‍♀️
Don't know what to do, I've already paid quite a bit, if I'm just out again to is month will be all for nothing if I miss out. Bit also don't want to lower my chances and then be thinking 'what if'

BerrieSweet · 21/01/2025 18:12

carolinep3 · 21/01/2025 18:10

Guys does anyone have any words of wisdom about spas in the tww?
Hubbys bday and I booked us a spa day on Saturday. Completely not thinking, I haven't ovulated yet but expect to in the next few days and I know heat - hot baths, jacuzzi's etc aren't good for fertilization and isn't good for sperm either 🤷🏻‍♀️
Don't know what to do, I've already paid quite a bit, if I'm just out again to is month will be all for nothing if I miss out. Bit also don't want to lower my chances and then be thinking 'what if'

Enjoy the spa and BD, you definitely still have a high chance of concieving!💕

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