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February TTC Support Group

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Kateb149 · 09/01/2025 20:19

Hi all ☺️ I am now starting Cycle 6 TTC baby number one. I know some of us on January thread said it would be good to set up a Feb thread so thought i’d start it.

I should be ovulating around 17-18th so will be testing on 1st Feb!

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Kateb149 · 31/01/2025 08:12

Orangelover · 30/01/2025 22:23

Well I think I'm 9DPO and still holding out with not testing. I keep swinging between oh my god I'm in with a chance this month my boobs hurt and I've got loads of symptoms to I feel no different to usual and I'll get my period next week.

I did however just cry at a reel on Instagram about seeing your cat again in heaven one day when you're both dead which is not typical of my usual miserable, cold and stoic demeanour so it's not over yet Wink

I feel like I almost don't want to test because I think my gut is saying not this month but the longer I ignore it the more I still have a chance so I'm like yeah let's live in this ignorance for now.

You’ve just described how I feel every month during the TWW, a complete mixture of hope and a gut feeling that it’s not happened! It’s so hard isn’t it.

When is AF due for you? Do you think you’ll test before then? I tested yesterday at 10DPO and got a BFN so i’m just going to wait for AF now I think, I can’t bear to see another negative!

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Kateb149 · 31/01/2025 08:14

Mummy1502 · 30/01/2025 23:01

There’s lots going around isn’t there, just a bit pink now xx

Hope you’re not feeling too poorly this morning, and hope the bleeding has settled now. Are you going to speak to the hosp today? Xx

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StaceyWS88 · 31/01/2025 08:27

7DPO, tested even though I know it’s too early but I can’t help the urge to POS 🥴

Video call with our IVF consultant today, will do a transfer in May/June if I don’t manage to conceive before then (my 12 month old was IVF)

Mummy1502 · 31/01/2025 08:41

Miffy1994 · 30/01/2025 21:36

Sorry to hear so many of you are having a confusing cycle. I did last month as it was over Xmas and the stress clearly affected me, ovulated on cd19, had random spotting (but spotted with DD so took it as a positive) then AF turned up 6 days late. Been trying to keep calm/relaxed/unstressed this cycle and got my peak this evening on cd14 as normal so glad I’m back on track!
And can relate to all the rest of you TTC #2, I feel guilty that one day (hopefully soon) DD will be the big sis, like I’m taking away allowing her to be little/young?! Like she won’t get to be the baby of the family, but equally she is the only grandchild (and will unlikely get any cousins) so she surely needs a sibling so she doesn’t get all the attention from all sides of the family?!

This gives me hope that my cycle was just messed up this month from Christmas too xx

Mummy1502 · 31/01/2025 08:44

Kateb149 · 31/01/2025 08:14

Hope you’re not feeling too poorly this morning, and hope the bleeding has settled now. Are you going to speak to the hosp today? Xx

I’m feeling pretty rough, yes I will call them now xx

ljb23 · 31/01/2025 08:51

Hope you don't mind me joining. CD3 for me. Had 2 mmc last year and been TTC since. I only started fully ovulating last month after my mmc in October, fingers crossed this is the month!!

Kateb149 · 31/01/2025 08:56

Mummy1502 · 31/01/2025 08:44

I’m feeling pretty rough, yes I will call them now xx

Oh no, look after yourself ❤️ Lots of water and food if you can stomach it. Hope the hospital are helpful xx

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Mummy1502 · 31/01/2025 09:03

Kateb149 · 31/01/2025 08:56

Oh no, look after yourself ❤️ Lots of water and food if you can stomach it. Hope the hospital are helpful xx

Thankyou are you testing today? Xx

confusedmum25 · 31/01/2025 09:06

bramarcan · 31/01/2025 08:06

@confusedmum25 when do you think you’ll take a test?!

I have tests coming tonight off amazon, Im going to try wait until Monday but realistically probably from tomorrow 😂😂

I don’t ‘feel’ pregnant if that makes sense, might be too early though

Lcc5261 · 31/01/2025 09:16

I know it’s probably too early as I’m only 2dpo but I feel quite sick this morning and for the last few days I’ve had a twitch in my left eye and teeth pain, like all of them just feel sensitive. I’m also really bloated and gassy!

Kateb149 · 31/01/2025 09:44

ljb23 · 31/01/2025 08:51

Hope you don't mind me joining. CD3 for me. Had 2 mmc last year and been TTC since. I only started fully ovulating last month after my mmc in October, fingers crossed this is the month!!

Welcome ☺️ so sorry to hear about your MMCs… I have everything crossed for you this month 🤞

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Kateb149 · 31/01/2025 09:47

Mummy1502 · 31/01/2025 09:03

Thankyou are you testing today? Xx

I couldn’t bear to see another negative test this morning so I just did an LH test to see what the level was like (as I understand LH tests show really dark lines if you’ve got HCG levels) but the LH test was low. AF is due tomorrow so i’m probably out.. i’ve had some cramping this morning too xx

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carolinep3 · 31/01/2025 09:49

I think we are all a bit sensitive because we are so much more aware of our bodies and trying to work out what is going on. Realistically any symptoms wouldn't happened until at least 6DpO. I wish I could just hibernate until then 😂

Mummy1502 · 31/01/2025 10:14

Kateb149 · 31/01/2025 09:47

I couldn’t bear to see another negative test this morning so I just did an LH test to see what the level was like (as I understand LH tests show really dark lines if you’ve got HCG levels) but the LH test was low. AF is due tomorrow so i’m probably out.. i’ve had some cramping this morning too xx

Yes I’ve heard that too, keep us updated, if not we are all onto the next month, I’m debating wether to get ovulation tests or not as with our mmc that was actually the month I didn’t test and had given up trying, was so shocked to see a positive, was sure af was coming as I was really cramping and then got a positive the day after my period was due, there’s still hope for you, I’ve calmed down a bit now from the intense emotions I felt when af arrived, just feel like absolute crap with this cold/flu, it’s so disheartening that nothing happened but it seems a lot of us seem to be out of whack this month from Christmas which makes sense, I really hope it happens for us all soon xx

Kateb149 · 31/01/2025 10:57

Mummy1502 · 31/01/2025 10:14

Yes I’ve heard that too, keep us updated, if not we are all onto the next month, I’m debating wether to get ovulation tests or not as with our mmc that was actually the month I didn’t test and had given up trying, was so shocked to see a positive, was sure af was coming as I was really cramping and then got a positive the day after my period was due, there’s still hope for you, I’ve calmed down a bit now from the intense emotions I felt when af arrived, just feel like absolute crap with this cold/flu, it’s so disheartening that nothing happened but it seems a lot of us seem to be out of whack this month from Christmas which makes sense, I really hope it happens for us all soon xx

I’ll let you know tomorrow if AF arrives! It’s funny you say that because i’m thinking about not using LH test strips for the next cycle and just DTD a few times during my fertile window. I find it a lot of pressure and worry about when LH will rise so if I can get rid of that stress it’s got to be a good thing.
I’m glad you’re feeling a bit calmer now but so sorry you’re feeling rubbish with the flu/cold. Like you said maybe Christmas is to blame and we’ll have better luck next month.

I have booked a call in with a private fertility clinic for next week, just because i’d like to get some tests done now. I know it’s still early days but I think it would give me peace of mind and make me worry less xx

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Mummy1502 · 31/01/2025 11:36

Kateb149 · 31/01/2025 10:57

I’ll let you know tomorrow if AF arrives! It’s funny you say that because i’m thinking about not using LH test strips for the next cycle and just DTD a few times during my fertile window. I find it a lot of pressure and worry about when LH will rise so if I can get rid of that stress it’s got to be a good thing.
I’m glad you’re feeling a bit calmer now but so sorry you’re feeling rubbish with the flu/cold. Like you said maybe Christmas is to blame and we’ll have better luck next month.

I have booked a call in with a private fertility clinic for next week, just because i’d like to get some tests done now. I know it’s still early days but I think it would give me peace of mind and make me worry less xx

Yes defo if it’s going to help you, it will take the stress away if you get some answers xx

Room4onemore · 31/01/2025 12:19

4dpo and dying to poas 😂 time needs to hurry up

becksxx · 31/01/2025 12:39

Still no AF and tested negative this morning at 3 days late now, wish AF would just hurry up now so I can be on to the next cycle x

Lcc5261 · 31/01/2025 12:39

Room4onemore · 31/01/2025 12:19

4dpo and dying to poas 😂 time needs to hurry up

I’m 2dpo could be 3dpo and the days are going soooo slow!

Floralcat · 31/01/2025 12:40

confusedmum25 · 31/01/2025 09:06

I have tests coming tonight off amazon, Im going to try wait until Monday but realistically probably from tomorrow 😂😂

I don’t ‘feel’ pregnant if that makes sense, might be too early though

I did one this morning 7dpo ‘ for science’ and BFN as expected but feel better for having first test out the way hahaha

Kateb149 · 31/01/2025 12:43

Mummy1502 · 31/01/2025 11:36

Yes defo if it’s going to help you, it will take the stress away if you get some answers xx

My DH also admitted that he’s a bit worried about things even though he has a son already. So that made me feel much more validated as I really thought he had no concerns! Hope the hospital were helpful this morning xx

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Kateb149 · 31/01/2025 12:44

becksxx · 31/01/2025 12:39

Still no AF and tested negative this morning at 3 days late now, wish AF would just hurry up now so I can be on to the next cycle x

So sorry you’re still getting BFNs and no AF. It must be so frustrating! Has your AF ever been late before? X

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becksxx · 31/01/2025 13:09

Kateb149 · 31/01/2025 12:44

So sorry you’re still getting BFNs and no AF. It must be so frustrating! Has your AF ever been late before? X

It’s very unusual for me to be late, I’m usually a day or so early if anything. But I got positive ovulation test on CD22 so I’m guessing that why AF is late, the only thing I have changed is taking the sevenseas vitamins so I reckon that has thrown my cycle out a bit xx how are you feeling today?

Lemoncello823 · 31/01/2025 13:31

Hi I am out tomorrow for a friends birthday. Currently 3DO. Would you avoid alcohol? Or just take it easy? I just don’t want it to ruin my chances of conceiving 🙈

BerrieSweet · 31/01/2025 13:35

Lemoncello823 · 31/01/2025 13:31

Hi I am out tomorrow for a friends birthday. Currently 3DO. Would you avoid alcohol? Or just take it easy? I just don’t want it to ruin my chances of conceiving 🙈

I'm 3 DPO and are gonna enjoy a glass tonight at dinner with friends. Someone said drink til it's pink and I love that because u still want to enjoy life even when TTC. If you drink a lot and get really drunk though I think it can affect the inplantation, that's what chat gpt told me. 🥰

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