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TTC after Early Miscarriage part 3

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Ella31 · 19/04/2024 23:16

Part three of of our previous threads.

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spamOFtheDAY · 01/05/2024 09:31

Hi ladies,
I took a bit of time off MN (I don't think work would be too pleased with the amount of time I was spending scrolling 😝). But decided to come back on now I'm 1DPO after MC in Jan.

Sorry to see a few familiar names are still on here 😞

Trying to think positive things for us all.
The improvement in weather and prospect of booking a summer holiday (which I wouldn't have been able to go on with my due date in august - so silver linings 😝!) is making me feel good

Good luck everyone

I'll be testing next Thursday Friday
(That's a lie - probably Tuesday 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️!)

Xxx

🌈

Ella31 · 01/05/2024 11:09

RaisingCornishWildlings · 01/05/2024 07:07

@Ella31 that is good going!!
I spoke to the Dr about my symptoms yesterday- she suggested I did one more test to be sure (FMU just now- a stark negative)... and she said if I'm still feeling nauseous in another week then they'll look into it further (blood tests I guess).

Got fingers crossed for all of you in the awful 2Ww!

I wonder @RaisingCornishWildlings are you run down. TTC is horrific when it takes time and stress can play havoc.

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Ella31 · 01/05/2024 12:13

ThelastRolo20 · 01/05/2024 08:39

I've had near constant cramping and bloating so decided to do another opk just in case I was having a weirdly late ovulation and it's still faint. Decided to pee on a HPT top for fun - obviously negative but definitely scratched that itch 😂

Maybe its symptoms of implantation happening. Hopefully

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Ella31 · 01/05/2024 12:14

spamOFtheDAY · 01/05/2024 09:31

Hi ladies,
I took a bit of time off MN (I don't think work would be too pleased with the amount of time I was spending scrolling 😝). But decided to come back on now I'm 1DPO after MC in Jan.

Sorry to see a few familiar names are still on here 😞

Trying to think positive things for us all.
The improvement in weather and prospect of booking a summer holiday (which I wouldn't have been able to go on with my due date in august - so silver linings 😝!) is making me feel good

Good luck everyone

I'll be testing next Thursday Friday
(That's a lie - probably Tuesday 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️!)

Xxx

🌈

Sorry for your loss. Hopefully this is your month. I'm 1dpo too

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ThelastRolo20 · 01/05/2024 12:18

@spamOFtheDAY @Ella31 we'll all be testing at similar times 🤞🏻🤞🏻

Ella31 · 01/05/2024 12:20

ThelastRolo20 · 01/05/2024 12:18

@spamOFtheDAY @Ella31 we'll all be testing at similar times 🤞🏻🤞🏻

We will. I'm excited but nervous.

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B1989 · 01/05/2024 18:05

8 DPO today. No stand out symptoms. Going to hold out testing until Friday😅

Ncl31 · 01/05/2024 18:14

ThelastRolo20 · 01/05/2024 12:18

@spamOFtheDAY @Ella31 we'll all be testing at similar times 🤞🏻🤞🏻

ill be testing around the same time too I believe. Ovulation day today - AF due 16th may.

CadoAvo · 01/05/2024 18:52

I've just realised I'm a POAS addict 🙄

This mornings test had the faintest line. Just got home from work and did another cheapie test, another faint line. So did a boots early test with the same urine, superrr faint line. (FRER was from yesterday)

I did a CB digital early last night and it said not pregnant. I don't want to do another digital yet, will try and hold off.

The not knowing for sure is hard. I go from "am I pregnant" to "could it be a chemical" to "'maybe it's positive because of the miscarriage" (which I had a negative on a cheapie a couple weeks ago but didn't use any other tests). I know there's nothing I can do but wait however last time I got a BFP at 9DPO, I'm only 10DPO today but amn't celebrating yet as it's not as clear cut as it was last time.

The good thing about the clear blue saying not pregnant is if I do turn out to be pregnant and I get a BFP later then I know for sure it's not the miscarriage.

Thanks for listening to my rambling 😂

TTC after Early Miscarriage part 3
TTC after Early Miscarriage part 3
Ncl31 · 01/05/2024 20:42

CadoAvo · 01/05/2024 18:52

I've just realised I'm a POAS addict 🙄

This mornings test had the faintest line. Just got home from work and did another cheapie test, another faint line. So did a boots early test with the same urine, superrr faint line. (FRER was from yesterday)

I did a CB digital early last night and it said not pregnant. I don't want to do another digital yet, will try and hold off.

The not knowing for sure is hard. I go from "am I pregnant" to "could it be a chemical" to "'maybe it's positive because of the miscarriage" (which I had a negative on a cheapie a couple weeks ago but didn't use any other tests). I know there's nothing I can do but wait however last time I got a BFP at 9DPO, I'm only 10DPO today but amn't celebrating yet as it's not as clear cut as it was last time.

The good thing about the clear blue saying not pregnant is if I do turn out to be pregnant and I get a BFP later then I know for sure it's not the miscarriage.

Thanks for listening to my rambling 😂

You’re not rambling. This is a safe space to chat.
i can definitely see line progression on the cheapies!
not so much on the FRER or boots but that’s probably just my eyes.
fingers crossed for you, are you waiting to test 48 hours? Or will you test again tomorrow?

ThelastRolo20 · 01/05/2024 20:48

CadoAvo · 01/05/2024 18:52

I've just realised I'm a POAS addict 🙄

This mornings test had the faintest line. Just got home from work and did another cheapie test, another faint line. So did a boots early test with the same urine, superrr faint line. (FRER was from yesterday)

I did a CB digital early last night and it said not pregnant. I don't want to do another digital yet, will try and hold off.

The not knowing for sure is hard. I go from "am I pregnant" to "could it be a chemical" to "'maybe it's positive because of the miscarriage" (which I had a negative on a cheapie a couple weeks ago but didn't use any other tests). I know there's nothing I can do but wait however last time I got a BFP at 9DPO, I'm only 10DPO today but amn't celebrating yet as it's not as clear cut as it was last time.

The good thing about the clear blue saying not pregnant is if I do turn out to be pregnant and I get a BFP later then I know for sure it's not the miscarriage.

Thanks for listening to my rambling 😂

Ah ramble away! I have everything crossed for you - it's looking really positive at the moment! 🥰 X

CadoAvo · 01/05/2024 21:04

Well after saying I wasn't going to do a digital, I did one and it paid off. I'm so happy and can't believe it and really hope this little one can stick around 🤞🏼

TTC after Early Miscarriage part 3
Ella31 · 01/05/2024 21:13

Ncl31 · 01/05/2024 18:14

ill be testing around the same time too I believe. Ovulation day today - AF due 16th may.

Brilliant @Ncl31 wonder why we were si late this month

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Ella31 · 01/05/2024 21:14

CadoAvo · 01/05/2024 21:04

Well after saying I wasn't going to do a digital, I did one and it paid off. I'm so happy and can't believe it and really hope this little one can stick around 🤞🏼

@CadoAvo congratulations. My god you are definitely fertile. Delighted for you.

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CadoAvo · 01/05/2024 21:26

@Ella31 thank you, I feel so lucky. I've never ever tried to get pregnant in my life until this year so had no idea how it would go. Just need this one to stick around this time. I really really hope you get your BFP this month 🤞🏼💞

Onthedouble123 · 01/05/2024 21:48

Congratulations @CadoAvo! 💕💕💕

DonnaWhat · 01/05/2024 22:52

@CadoAvo Yay! Congratulations. The baby dust is really working on this thread 🥰🥰🥰 Sending baby dust to you all xx

Ncl31 · 02/05/2024 06:34

Ella31 · 01/05/2024 21:13

Brilliant @Ncl31 wonder why we were si late this month

Not sure, cd19 for me which is 4 days later than 2 cycles ago and 3 days later than last cycle.
ive had a temp rise today - although OvuSense won’t confirm it for a few days yet. At least I can see it going up.
when are you going to wait until testing?

RaisingCornishWildlings · 02/05/2024 07:16

@huge congratulations @CadoAvo - everything crossed for a sticky little bean!

Hoping this will be my month- will aim to DTD every day since yesterday until Tuesday to cover the fertile window- think I'm supposed to O on Sunday (we are away at in-laws for the bank holiday weekend so that'll make it tricky!) and it's our wedding anniversary on Monday. Don't have any pee sticks so will just go with it this time!

Hubby and I have chatted and now think we will keep trying until end of this year before we call time!

CadoAvo · 02/05/2024 08:55

Thank you all, woke up cloud 9 this morning 💞🤞🏼

ThelastRolo20 · 02/05/2024 09:21

@RaisingCornishWildlings you have a great social life - I barely seem to do anything 😂 good luck sneaking in some sex at the in laws like a pair of teenagers

@CadoAvo congratulations lovely 🥰

Why is the TWW going so slow? How on earth am I only 5DPO??

RaisingCornishWildlings · 02/05/2024 09:25

Haha @ThelastRolo20 I'm not sure a weekend at in laws counts as a social life- just a duty visit (although saying that I am going with my lovely bro in law, his wife and her bro, and my bestie from years back to see Bruce Springsteen in Cardiff on Sunday/ very excited for that (I saw him 12 years ago at Isle of Wight festival and he was epic!!

Lots of EWCM this morning so looking promising! 🤞

Come on TWW, speed up! Hoping to be back in that club soon (this time next week prob 3 or 4 DPO!)

Ella31 · 02/05/2024 11:25

ThelastRolo20 · 02/05/2024 09:21

@RaisingCornishWildlings you have a great social life - I barely seem to do anything 😂 good luck sneaking in some sex at the in laws like a pair of teenagers

@CadoAvo congratulations lovely 🥰

Why is the TWW going so slow? How on earth am I only 5DPO??

It's so slow isn't it. And at the same time I hate when it gets later in the week as reality sets in. 2dpo today

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Ella31 · 02/05/2024 11:26

RaisingCornishWildlings · 02/05/2024 07:16

@huge congratulations @CadoAvo - everything crossed for a sticky little bean!

Hoping this will be my month- will aim to DTD every day since yesterday until Tuesday to cover the fertile window- think I'm supposed to O on Sunday (we are away at in-laws for the bank holiday weekend so that'll make it tricky!) and it's our wedding anniversary on Monday. Don't have any pee sticks so will just go with it this time!

Hubby and I have chatted and now think we will keep trying until end of this year before we call time!

That's wonderful. Hope this year is lucky for you

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ThelastRolo20 · 02/05/2024 12:12

Ella31 · 02/05/2024 11:25

It's so slow isn't it. And at the same time I hate when it gets later in the week as reality sets in. 2dpo today

So on a whim decided to check my cervix and I..... Have learnt nothing 😂😂 apparently it's meant to stay high and soft if conceived?? I have no idea if it's either of these things.. does anyone do this??