TTC after Early Miscarriage part 3

[Ella31]

Part three of of our previous threads.

@ThelastRolo20 so exciting. Hopefully you'll be in luck. Great to have you back on board.

I feel like I can see something. First urine tomorrow will hopefully be clearer

@Onthedouble123 I really hope it isn't an indent ❤️ I'm afraid I don't have any experience with private IVF but there are boards on Mumsnet with women who will be able to give more insight.

I'm hopeful for your test this morning though 🥰

BFN. I honestly feel like crying all day. 😢
Good luck to the rest of you ✨✨✨ Xx

@Onthedouble123 I'm so sorry, that indent was so cruel 💔 it's totally okay to cry xx

@Claudiasaz lovely to hear from you and delighted all progressing well!
Two friends have recently announced they're pregnant with their 4th babies, I'm so desperate for it to be me too!!

I'm now on day 7 of feeling nauseous, and keep having minor twinges in my groin (which I had during my brief pregnancy of the one we lost).
But I know I'm absolutely not pregnant- with the period and the BFN on Sunday- I have called the doctor surgery today and waiting for a call back this afternoon. I need to know what is causing this bloody nausea- it's driving me mad!

@RaisingCornishWildlings that's so odd, I wonder what it is? Have you tested since just in case??

I haven't tested since Sunday. But if I was PG it would have deffo shown then!
I had a period on 17-20 March, probably O'd on 4th April, had a negative HcG on 15th April, period arrived 17 April. Bled fairly heavily (normal for me) for 2 days, very light by 19th April. Spotting on 20th. So overall a shorter period than my usual.
Started feeling nauseous on 24th April.
BFN Sainsburys pregnancy test 28th April (not FMU but a stark negative, and if we work on March being my last "period" and assume April bleed wasn't a period, that would make me 6 weeks on the 28th when I got the negative! So there's surely no way I'd show negative that far into a pregnancy?! And of course the April bleed way too heavy to be implantation.

So the nausea can't be anything to do with pregnancy

So sorry. Cry away. It's very unfair 🥰🥰

@Ella31 are you in the TWW now? Are you going to test at 8DPO? X

I peaked yesterday so expecting to ovulate today or early tomorrow. Yeah I'm going to hold out till 8dpo. What about you?

@Ella31 I'm going to try and hold out until next Friday which would be around 13 DPO 😬😬 guessing you'll be next Wednesday/ Thursday?

I don't want to find out until as close to my period as possible but I don't work Fridays so I can't imagine I'll stop the temptation. I'm not that hopeful this month though due to not having a clue when I ovulated. will definitely track next month!

You never know @ThelastRolo20 , I think your approach is so healthy and relaxing might work in your favour. Did you get much egwcm this month

@Ella31 I got some over a few days, I never have tonnes and that's always been fine before. It completely disappeared over the weekend though so I do reckon a Friday/ Saturday ovulation rather than Sunday

Well I live in hope but preparing for bad news 😂 I'm training to try and get my 5km time under 25 minutes so focusing on that instead

You are so proactive, fair play to you. I cleaned the house today if that counts. 🤣🤣

For all my early symptom spotters, a peer reviewed study in 1997 did find that in women who conceived there was a steeper increase in progesterone in the early stage of the luteal phase... So it might not all be in our heads 😂

I'm so sorry @Onthedouble123 it's hard enough getting a bfn but when you had a hopeful looking test before, it makes it even harder. Sending a hug and hope you are ok x

@RaisingCornishWildlings the announcements are so tough, I have 2 pregnant family members atm, hoping for good news for you, and some answers about your symptoms soon. x

Nice to know my craziness has a medical explanation @ThelastRolo20 lol. You do so well to wait to 13 dpo, I would love to wait until then as you said you would get a definite answer plus knowing your period is so close but so far I'm like @Ella31 with the early testing, sometimes from 7dpo 😂. I'm going to try and wait with you This cycle, will need a pep talk in a week x

@Ladyinpink1 I won't lie, there's a solid chance I'll carve early and test at 10DPO but I live in hope that my willpower holds 🤞🏻 are you 1 DPO now? X

I'm desperate with the early testing as I tested positive at 8dpo on a digital with my twins. I couldn't believe it.

@ThelastRolo20 got my peak yesterday so ov should be today, I planned to dtd tonight but dh has just informed me that 5 times in a row is enough for now so hoping last night was close enough and maybe get a chance tomorrow. x

On a digital test was super early, I also have had early +tests at 8dpo (faint lines) my last 2 pregnancies so I think that is why it's harder to resist @Ella31 , because you know there is a possibility of a bfp then x

Ladies I think I met a record this week. Due to initially thinking my ovulation would never come we officially dtd 8 days in a row plus every other day after period. The relief on my husbands face when I said, just one more day to cover us.

And who said TTC isn't romantic 😅😏😏😏

@Ella31 your husband needs a medal 😂

@Ella31 that is good going!!
I spoke to the Dr about my symptoms yesterday- she suggested I did one more test to be sure (FMU just now- a stark negative)... and she said if I'm still feeling nauseous in another week then they'll look into it further (blood tests I guess).

Got fingers crossed for all of you in the awful 2Ww!

I've had near constant cramping and bloating so decided to do another opk just in case I was having a weirdly late ovulation and it's still faint. Decided to pee on a HPT top for fun - obviously negative but definitely scratched that itch 😂