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TTC after Early Miscarriage part 3

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Ella31 · 19/04/2024 23:16

Part three of of our previous threads.

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Ella31 · 02/05/2024 12:26

ThelastRolo20 · 02/05/2024 12:12

So on a whim decided to check my cervix and I..... Have learnt nothing 😂😂 apparently it's meant to stay high and soft if conceived?? I have no idea if it's either of these things.. does anyone do this??

I did the first month ttc after my boys and same as you ......no indication of anything. From what I read it's more accurate about ovulation high and open .....but lots of women said their cervix didn't rise until a good few weeks into their pregnancy.

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Onthedouble123 · 02/05/2024 12:27

@ThelastRolo20 I never have any idea what I'm feeling for either so do share if you figure it out!

Still waiting for AF to arrive. Have felt utterly dreadful and know it's just round the corner bit it's being stubbornly slow to make an actual appearance. I've filled in the contact form for a fertility clinic. Hoping we can squeeze in tests etc within this cycle which seems feasible based on their website. Just waiting on a call back...

emmatcc1 · 02/05/2024 12:38

@ThelastRolo20 I checked it during my pregnancy and it was literally the same as not pregnant except one day when it was soft like a pillow.

ThelastRolo20 · 02/05/2024 12:40

@emmatcc1 I'm not going to bother checking again, I hear it's unreliable so I'll probably stress myself out 😂 I think it's on the lower and harder side though so mentally counting myself out anyway

@Onthedouble123 oh I really hope they can squeeze you in! 🤞🏻🤞🏻 Do you know what first rounds of tests will be?

Ella31 · 02/05/2024 15:04

I'm 2dpo and have a lot of wet cm discharge. Not gloomy like egg white but stretches a tiny bit and very clear.

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Ella31 · 02/05/2024 15:05

Onthedouble123 · 02/05/2024 12:27

@ThelastRolo20 I never have any idea what I'm feeling for either so do share if you figure it out!

Still waiting for AF to arrive. Have felt utterly dreadful and know it's just round the corner bit it's being stubbornly slow to make an actual appearance. I've filled in the contact form for a fertility clinic. Hoping we can squeeze in tests etc within this cycle which seems feasible based on their website. Just waiting on a call back...

Hopefully you'll hear soon. Xxx

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CadoAvo · 02/05/2024 16:27

Ella31 · 02/05/2024 15:04

I'm 2dpo and have a lot of wet cm discharge. Not gloomy like egg white but stretches a tiny bit and very clear.

I felt like I had a lot of that in my tww too. I don't usually pay much attention to it though but I did think it was unusual how much I had.

Ella31 · 02/05/2024 17:04

CadoAvo · 02/05/2024 16:27

I felt like I had a lot of that in my tww too. I don't usually pay much attention to it though but I did think it was unusual how much I had.

Oh here's hoping @CadoAvo

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ThelastRolo20 · 02/05/2024 20:18

Ella31 · 02/05/2024 17:04

Oh here's hoping @CadoAvo

@Ella31 appreciate this may be karma for prodding my cervix earlier but I'm cramping, again, and just had some string like white discharge. Really weird...and now wet discharge has picked up.

This is all far too early for 5DPO though surely?!

Ella31 · 02/05/2024 22:34

ThelastRolo20 · 02/05/2024 20:18

@Ella31 appreciate this may be karma for prodding my cervix earlier but I'm cramping, again, and just had some string like white discharge. Really weird...and now wet discharge has picked up.

This is all far too early for 5DPO though surely?!

It all sounds promising @ThelastRolo20

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ToeBeans24 · 03/05/2024 13:36

Ella31 · 02/05/2024 15:04

I'm 2dpo and have a lot of wet cm discharge. Not gloomy like egg white but stretches a tiny bit and very clear.

I had this from 3dpo @Ella31 fingers crossed!

Ella31 · 03/05/2024 14:30

Took another ovulation test because of my cm still being wet. Is this high for 3 days dpo? I definitely ovulated I reckon because I've 2 consecutive temp rises?

TTC after Early Miscarriage part 3
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Ella31 · 03/05/2024 17:30

ToeBeans24 · 03/05/2024 13:36

I had this from 3dpo @Ella31 fingers crossed!

Oh hopefully @ToeBeans24

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Ladyinpink1 · 03/05/2024 21:42

Congratulations @CadoAvo and I love your username BTW x

Ha ha @ThelastRolo20 I can definitely confirm I gave done some cervix checking before and tbh it always seems the same to me so it wasn't helpful but felt like I was doing something in the tww. How are you feeling now, hoping for good news for you x

Is extra cm usual for you at this point in your cycle or could this be a good sign? @Ella31 and just looked at your picture... are those easy at home tests? If so, I find they can give a pretty decent line for the time all around ovulation, I actually found it hard to figure out if it was a peak test because the days begore and after were quite dark too. So I'm sure you will have ovulated, just maybe lh levels going down slower x

Ella31 · 03/05/2024 21:51

Ladyinpink1 · 03/05/2024 21:42

Congratulations @CadoAvo and I love your username BTW x

Ha ha @ThelastRolo20 I can definitely confirm I gave done some cervix checking before and tbh it always seems the same to me so it wasn't helpful but felt like I was doing something in the tww. How are you feeling now, hoping for good news for you x

Is extra cm usual for you at this point in your cycle or could this be a good sign? @Ella31 and just looked at your picture... are those easy at home tests? If so, I find they can give a pretty decent line for the time all around ovulation, I actually found it hard to figure out if it was a peak test because the days begore and after were quite dark too. So I'm sure you will have ovulated, just maybe lh levels going down slower x

They are @Ladyinpink1 , that's good to know. I'm not sure about the cm, but I'd surely remember it from other months I think. I'm happy enough with the chart.. had 2 good rises so far since ovulation date

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Ladyinpink1 · 03/05/2024 22:04

Well sounds like the cm is a good sign then @Ella31 yes they say bbt is the most accurate way to confirm ovulation so that is reassuring for you.

I normally chart bbt, do opks, use apps and have a cycle diary... even typing this I realise I am the crazy ttc lady 🤣 which is very non relaxing but I do enjoy it, makes me feel like I'm doing something, however, last month I did a completely relaxed cycle and now this month I am only doing opks. Think if this isn't successful then I will go back to that, especially the bbt as it's nice to have that reassurance and know the definite ovulation date. Will you try to hold out with testing? x

Ella31 · 03/05/2024 22:15

Ladyinpink1 · 03/05/2024 22:04

Well sounds like the cm is a good sign then @Ella31 yes they say bbt is the most accurate way to confirm ovulation so that is reassuring for you.

I normally chart bbt, do opks, use apps and have a cycle diary... even typing this I realise I am the crazy ttc lady 🤣 which is very non relaxing but I do enjoy it, makes me feel like I'm doing something, however, last month I did a completely relaxed cycle and now this month I am only doing opks. Think if this isn't successful then I will go back to that, especially the bbt as it's nice to have that reassurance and know the definite ovulation date. Will you try to hold out with testing? x

I'm with you on the crazy - I do all those things too. I just can't stop away from the opks. I wouldn't be able to relinquish the control haha. Where are you cycle wise ?

I'll try and hold out until 9dpo but knowing me I'll start at 8. You?

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emmatcc1 · 03/05/2024 22:51

I have such a weird feeling in my uterus, kinda feels tight and slightly achy. Hopefully my temps stay high tomorrow. Overall I’m feeling normal I think I should be having some nausea by now if I was pregnant.

Ladyinpink1 · 04/05/2024 07:07

@Ella31 I am the same, I will try to hold off until 10dpo but will prob test at 7dpo lol. I was trying not to think too much about how many dpo I am so that I have a better chance of holding off, but realised I am the same dpo as the date so now I can't escape it 🤣 (I mean I am 4dpo today, on the 4th) I feel hopeful, do you? x

How many dpo are you @emmatcc1 ? Would those achy feelings be normal for you? x

ThelastRolo20 · 04/05/2024 07:45

Ladyinpink1 · 04/05/2024 07:07

@Ella31 I am the same, I will try to hold off until 10dpo but will prob test at 7dpo lol. I was trying not to think too much about how many dpo I am so that I have a better chance of holding off, but realised I am the same dpo as the date so now I can't escape it 🤣 (I mean I am 4dpo today, on the 4th) I feel hopeful, do you? x

How many dpo are you @emmatcc1 ? Would those achy feelings be normal for you? x

This is why i POAS at like 2DPO, to try and get it out my system 😂 7DPO today, I won't entertain it until at least Monday but hoping somehow to hold out to Thursday

Ladyinpink1 · 04/05/2024 08:20

Lol @ThelastRolo20 it really is an addiction isn't it. Do you still have the cramps? x

Rosyposy26 · 04/05/2024 08:46

Being very tentative but tested last night when I got back from I’m being away and tested again this morning. Actually I did 10 tests just to make sure. AF is due on Wednesday. I’m being hopeful but realistic as lost one 2/2 and was in and out of hospital as something didn’t feel right and I had retained product that came away on the 14/4. This month I actually took Maude and Mable fertility tea right up until ovulation and I treated myself to the clear blue ovulation and tested once a day. I also tried not symptom spotting but being away helped. I also started taking Proceive max and the omega 3 tablets from the start of my last MC. I believe I am 10DPO

Only symptom I have got was Wednesday I had backache and needing to wee a lot. Breast feel fuller but not sore.
Hope this bean sticks I have a spa day today but will have to tell them as was going to have a full body massage.

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ThelastRolo20 · 04/05/2024 09:41

Ladyinpink1 · 04/05/2024 08:20

Lol @ThelastRolo20 it really is an addiction isn't it. Do you still have the cramps? x

On and off but to be honest I think it's all in my head. I'm prepared for either outcome 😂 how are you?

ThelastRolo20 · 04/05/2024 09:41

Rosyposy26 · 04/05/2024 08:46

Being very tentative but tested last night when I got back from I’m being away and tested again this morning. Actually I did 10 tests just to make sure. AF is due on Wednesday. I’m being hopeful but realistic as lost one 2/2 and was in and out of hospital as something didn’t feel right and I had retained product that came away on the 14/4. This month I actually took Maude and Mable fertility tea right up until ovulation and I treated myself to the clear blue ovulation and tested once a day. I also tried not symptom spotting but being away helped. I also started taking Proceive max and the omega 3 tablets from the start of my last MC. I believe I am 10DPO

Only symptom I have got was Wednesday I had backache and needing to wee a lot. Breast feel fuller but not sore.
Hope this bean sticks I have a spa day today but will have to tell them as was going to have a full body massage.

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Ah congratulations!! That's a wonderful line 🥰

ThelastRolo20 · 04/05/2024 09:45

Ladyinpink1 · 04/05/2024 08:20

Lol @ThelastRolo20 it really is an addiction isn't it. Do you still have the cramps? x

Did park run this morning and now I'm cramping again. Knowing my luck I've cocked up implantation as I'm 7DPO 😂😂