TTC after Early Miscarriage part 3

[Ella31]

Part three of of our previous threads.

I'm sorry @RaisingCornishWildlings I'm glad you aren't too far from ovulation though. 🥰

Hi all,
I'm 11dpo. Had sore boobs last couple of days and done the usual of getting carried away in my little head.
Very much feeling like AF on the way this morning though.

I'm going to test tomorrow morning. Trying to balance not getting my hopes up against not being too pessimistic- as though that in some way will make it a negative result by telepathy. Why is this so brain meltingly hard!

Anyone else nearly at the end of the TWW?

Good luck to all of you just starting yours! 🤞🏻✨🤞🏻

@Onthedouble123 I’m halfway through. Main symptom right now is lots of cervical mucus.

I'm sure you did ovulate @ThelastRolo20 as others said your peak was prob just before you tested. Will you test anymore or will you just go with 1dpo today? Yes! Company for the tww, let the symptom spotting begin! x

@Ella31 great to have your peak too, and more company is good, are you a terrible symptom spotter or are you pretty chill in the tww? x

I'm not chill at all sadly. After my loss I've been very anxious so I'm trying to de stress a lot and not symptom spot. What about you?

@Ella31 I over analysing every twinge etc, I think after a loss you just want it to happen even more so it's probably quite a natural way to feel but not healthy for sure, I hope you manage to be more relaxed.
I am trying to be more relaxed about it all, was more relaxed last cycle as I didnt track at all, so will see how I get on. Going to buy dark chocolate today to eat a piece each day as I read that can help, maybe some pineapple too , eating implantation foods is still "relaxed" I think 😂 x

@Ladyinpink1 nah no more testing, don't see the point 😂 considering today 1DPO but will have sex tonight as a last hurrah this month JUST in case something weird goes on

@Ella31 ❤️ we can all symptoms spot together. I'm not going to entertain any symptoms analysing until at least 8 DPO though to try and stay sane!

Just wanted to check in and see how everyone is doing. And saw you have a new thread. I think of you ladies often (in a non creepy way lol) but you were a big part of my MC whole experience.

Really glad to see some lovely news congratulations @ToeBeans24

I'm sorry that was such a rollercoaster @RaisingCornishWildlings but also hopeful for some good news here.

An update from my end I've had the dating scan and I am pleased to say all was well. It was really difficult given what happened at the scan last time but I am just grateful that she or he is doing well and that I was able to get through it.

Will always lurk around for updates and wishing everyone the best x

Congrats @Claudiasaz. Any trips on staying calm ?! Anxious after a prev loss. Aware I should be elated and I am of course, but anxious that it’ll be taken away again at any moment like last time.

Did a CB digital today and got 2-3 weeks which I think is in line with the late ovulation I predicted.

Planning on booking an early scan about 9 weeks.

@Claudiasaz how weeks were you at your dating scan? At 12 weeks I’ll be out the country so kinda hoping it’ll be before not after!

@ToeBeans24 I'll pop you a pm x

Glad to hear everything is going so well @Claudiasaz

Exactly. This week a year ago I conceived my late twins so im hyper aware this month. I'm doing accupuncture and find it really good. Might steal your chocolate idea🤣

@Claudiasaz congratulations that's lovely news, I can only imagine the relief! I'm dreading being pregnant already due to the anxiety and I'm not even anywhere near there yet. Hope you feel a bit more relaxed and get to enjoy your pregnancy.

Well done for getting this far. I'd have used all my tests by now. Do something nice this evening to try and not worry about what tomorrow brings.

@Ella31 caved and tested.
Optimistic line eyes thought I could spot something very faint..! Have opened it and shone my phone torch through it etc at every angle possible. Have now accepted it is an indent 😢

@Onthedouble123 oo they never look as good on photos but I think I might see something when I zoom in? Could be something! Everything crossed for you tomorrow 🥰

Good thinking @ThelastRolo20 an extra day can do no harm x

Aw I'm so sorry about your twins @Ella31 it really makes you overthink things getting close to that time, hope you are doing ok with it all.
I concieved my last loss with a cycle beginning 30th May last year and I keep thinking maybe it will happen this time in May again. It's good we have hope! x

@ThelastRolo20 thanks for the optimism 💕
I've thrown all the pieces away so that I stop looking at it. It came up within the time but I didn't see any colour to it so I'm certain it's an indent. I've searched past threads and it does seem that other people have been caught out.
My husband is wanting to think about IVF. We'd be private as already have one child. Does anyone have any idea how quickly you can get started if going private? He seems to think we could get seen and sorted within a couple of months but I'm not so sure at all! I'm not sure I want to go through it in any case- but if I thought there wouldn't be a long wait I'd be prepared to give it some more thought. Any experience gratefully received. Xx

@Ladyinpink1 unfortunately between the dog crying and busy work the pressure got to my husband so we've sacked off today 😂 it was only a bonus round anyway so I'm not too fussed

@Ladyinpink1 that would be lovely if you did. Keeping everything crossed for a beautiful May BFP for you! Xx

I can see something too @Onthedouble123 Will you test again in the morning? x

Oh, it's so hard isn't it @ThelastRolo20 as you said it was a bonus day. We should really be dtd tonight as today is pos opk and I have ovulation pains, so need to find some energy lol x

I am. I lost them at 29 weeks in November. One little boy was stillborn and my other son lived for 4 days. So im very early days in grief I suppose.

Definitely, hope is so important. Sorry about your loss too. It's an awful club to be in

I'm really so sorry to read this @Ella31 how awful, I can't even imagine what you have went, and are still, going through. I really hope you get a bfp very soon xx

Just did an OPK and it was very low, I'm fairly confident now my surge was a few days ago so I'm probably 2/3 DPO today instead of 1. But still going to try and not test until my period is due next weekend 😬

Same to you. I'm hoping this thread will be very lucky this month for us all.