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TTC after Early Miscarriage part 3

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Ella31 · 19/04/2024 23:16

Part three of of our previous threads.

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mountainlass · 02/06/2024 16:04

Lovedatforme · 02/06/2024 12:47

Can I join here?

I had an early miscarriage last week, would love tot start trying again asap.

How soon have people started TTC after a medical management of miscarriage? My dr said I can try again as soon as I want.

@Lovedatforme I'm so sorry about your miscarriage. Hope you are doing as well as you can and taking it easy❤️ We had a very early loss in March and decided to try again right away. I started tracking ovulation and ovulated around 5 days later the cycle following my miscarriage. We didn't get pregnant last month which was our first cycle after, but yesterday just received our very faint positive test on cycle 2! I'm praying this is our rainbow baby 🌈 I would say try again when you feel ready, there's nothing stopping you going right away if that's what you want but also don't feel pressured & make sure you feel okay in yourself x

Lovedatforme · 02/06/2024 16:46

mountainlass · 02/06/2024 16:04

@Lovedatforme I'm so sorry about your miscarriage. Hope you are doing as well as you can and taking it easy❤️ We had a very early loss in March and decided to try again right away. I started tracking ovulation and ovulated around 5 days later the cycle following my miscarriage. We didn't get pregnant last month which was our first cycle after, but yesterday just received our very faint positive test on cycle 2! I'm praying this is our rainbow baby 🌈 I would say try again when you feel ready, there's nothing stopping you going right away if that's what you want but also don't feel pressured & make sure you feel okay in yourself x

Thank you, I'm feeling okay mentally but physically still going through it so just waiting to start tracking everything again.

I'll have my fingers crossed that this your rainbow baby ❤

MisssMarion · 02/06/2024 20:59

Ella31 · 02/06/2024 15:39

Just looking here and can't believe we are only a few pages away from being 40 pages again. Like last time if people would like to stay on the thread, if you could thank the post and I can set up a new page at around the 38 page mark. Also if you just found yourself recently pregnant, you are more than welcome to stay. The more positive stories the better.

Would love to stay 😌 Still waiting for my 🌈 and can't help feeling this month won't be it... although I'm hoping very luck it will.

Loz365 · 03/06/2024 10:18

Just catching up on everything, @Ella31 I'm pleased you got the information and answers you needed. Hoping you get your peak soon.

@DonnaWhat I'm so sorry you're going through this. Life is so cruel. I hope you're okay and know that this is a safe space to brain dump with people who understand 💐

@mountainlass I definitely see a line. Crossing everything for you that this is your rainbow 🌈

@emmatcc1 any news today?

I'm now 8dpo, first proper cycle post-MC. Usually I get PMS symptoms from around 7dpo and my luteal phase has always been short, 9-10 days at the most with spotting from 7-8dpo. Currently I have zero symptoms and no spotting. Tiny part of my hoping we'll get a positive test but I'll be happy with a longer luteal phase if nothing else.
Hope everyone is doing okay x

Tallgirl91 · 03/06/2024 11:15

Hi everyone ! Sorry haven’t been kn for a few weeks , been crazy busy. @DonnaWhat
Im so so sorry, really am feeling for you 😢 no words will help but we are all here for you virtually 💖
Hope everyone else is doing ok ❤️

emmatcc1 · 03/06/2024 11:20

@Loz365 yeah AF arrived today.

Ella31 · 03/06/2024 12:05

emmatcc1 · 03/06/2024 11:20

@Loz365 yeah AF arrived today.

Sorry @emmatcc1 , very unfair. Xx

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Ella31 · 03/06/2024 12:07

Still waiting for tests to peak. Really strange month. I've definitely increased cm and it's egg white like since yesterday but tests aren't high. Im now day 23. It's very strange. Maybe I'm not ovulating this month sigh

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DonnaWhat · 03/06/2024 12:24

@mountainlass eeek definitely see the lines. I have everything crossed for you. ❤️❤️❤️

@Loz365 Thankyou, I'm OK, bleeding has eased off a little bit today but all weekend was horrific. Couldn't move far without needing a toilet quick!

I just feel so at home with this thread and you ladies. You don't realise how much it eases me seeing all the positivity when we're all going through the ringer. Love seeing more pregnancy announcements 😍 I open up more on here than i do to my friends but that's because we all understand the ups and downs that comes with losing babies. I definitely want to stay on the thread @Ella31 xxx

Figtree11 · 03/06/2024 12:29

I would like to stay on the thread too please 😊 Agree with what @DonnaWhat says, it feels so easy to talk so freely about how I am feeling on here. And even though I can’t ttc just yet, you are all so welcoming regardless

ThelastRolo20 · 03/06/2024 12:56

@Ella31 I'd love to stay in touch with you all, as you have all been such a support to me. However, I know this is a safe space for people currently trying to conceive again, so I'm happy to stay out as I'm now pregnant if that makes the place easier for those still on their journey x

emmatcc1 · 03/06/2024 13:00

@Ella31 Are you also tracking bbt?
I don’t know what’s with this month as well. I had ovulation be late and then af late but I measured my bbt a lot earlier than normally and it was 36.4 which is normal for af to arrive but then I woke up again a couple hours later and measured again at my usual time and it was 37 so one of these was wrong. I just measured again and my normal temp midday should be 37 at most but it’s 37.6. Also what I thought was af is just brown cm, no cramps just sore boobs and nausea still here.

emmatcc1 · 03/06/2024 13:01

@ThelastRolo20 You’re more than welcome to stay here, nice to have some positive stories around.

mountainlass · 03/06/2024 14:19

Loz365 · 03/06/2024 10:18

Just catching up on everything, @Ella31 I'm pleased you got the information and answers you needed. Hoping you get your peak soon.

@DonnaWhat I'm so sorry you're going through this. Life is so cruel. I hope you're okay and know that this is a safe space to brain dump with people who understand 💐

@mountainlass I definitely see a line. Crossing everything for you that this is your rainbow 🌈

@emmatcc1 any news today?

I'm now 8dpo, first proper cycle post-MC. Usually I get PMS symptoms from around 7dpo and my luteal phase has always been short, 9-10 days at the most with spotting from 7-8dpo. Currently I have zero symptoms and no spotting. Tiny part of my hoping we'll get a positive test but I'll be happy with a longer luteal phase if nothing else.
Hope everyone is doing okay x

Thank you so much @Loz365 I hope this is your month too. It's a good sign you've not had any PMS pains, I was the same this cycle! 0 symptoms at all but so glad to get my positive! It would be so lovely for you to get yours too & im sending you lots of good thoughts 🥰

Ella31 · 03/06/2024 14:40

ThelastRolo20 · 03/06/2024 12:56

@Ella31 I'd love to stay in touch with you all, as you have all been such a support to me. However, I know this is a safe space for people currently trying to conceive again, so I'm happy to stay out as I'm now pregnant if that makes the place easier for those still on their journey x

@ThelastRolo20 I'd be devastated if you went. Every one here knows this is a safe space and wishes you only the best. I also think you are a lovely success story so do stay if you would like to xx

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Ella31 · 03/06/2024 14:43

emmatcc1 · 03/06/2024 13:00

@Ella31 Are you also tracking bbt?
I don’t know what’s with this month as well. I had ovulation be late and then af late but I measured my bbt a lot earlier than normally and it was 36.4 which is normal for af to arrive but then I woke up again a couple hours later and measured again at my usual time and it was 37 so one of these was wrong. I just measured again and my normal temp midday should be 37 at most but it’s 37.6. Also what I thought was af is just brown cm, no cramps just sore boobs and nausea still here.

I am and no rise yet bit significant more cm since yesterday so hopefully I'm just late

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ThelastRolo20 · 03/06/2024 15:03

@emmatcc1 @Ella31 thank you both so much, it means a lot that I can stay with you both on your journeys, as well as others of course

@emmatcc1 I'm afraid I've never tempted so can't help but it still sounds quite promising especially with your symptoms?

@Ella31 glad to hear cm has picked up, hopefully peak in the next day or so! I agree with your doctor that when you ovulated doesn't matter, it's all about the luteal phase 😊

emmatcc1 · 03/06/2024 15:40

@ThelastRolo20 Af started now properly, thankfully no cramps.

DonnaWhat · 03/06/2024 21:24

@ThelastRolo20 absolutely not missus!! You're as much part of this thread as any of us! You've been through the mill with all of us and you've been a huge part of my healing too. I want to hear all about your rainbow baby and I want you to be able to share you're happiness with us all because weve shared your lows and id be happy to see your highs. it gives us all hope.

Loz365 · 04/06/2024 07:56

AF arrived late last night 😔 so looks like my LP is still really short. Trying to stay positive, we've got our appointment with the recurrent miscarriage clinic in a couple of weeks so hoping we get some positive news/info from that...

ThelastRolo20 · 04/06/2024 08:18

emmatcc1 · 03/06/2024 15:40

@ThelastRolo20 Af started now properly, thankfully no cramps.

I'm sorry lovely, I'm glad it's not painful though. Are you going to try anything new next month? X

ThelastRolo20 · 04/06/2024 08:19

@DonnaWhat thank you lovely, that means a lot. How are you doing? Xx

Ella31 · 04/06/2024 11:19

Ladies drumroll please.......it's looks like I'm ovulating. High opks equal tests today so I'd say ill peak today or tomorrow.

I was considering a nunnery at this point.

Hope you are all doing ok today particularly the ladies who have had a different week or two.

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mountainlass · 04/06/2024 11:22

@Ella31 ahhh fantastic news, that's such a relief!!! Sending all the luck for this cycle 🥰❤️

emmatcc1 · 04/06/2024 11:29

@ThelastRolo20 I just ordered prenatals bur gummy version with raspberry flavor as I absolutely hate capsules or tablets. But when I get pregnant I’ll probably switch to better capsules this is just to make sure I’m not lacking anything that could prevent pregnancy. Everything else we’ll do the same maybe try dtd 3 times in a row around ovulation.