TTC after Early Miscarriage part 3

[Ella31]

Part three of of our previous threads.

@Ella31 I'm so glad you've left with a sense of knowing what happened, and reassurance that they were genetically healthy.

I absolutely agree with the doctor and I'm sure you'll get pregnant again (although I appreciate their reassurance is a bit more helpful than mine ❤️). You've been through so much and so deserve your happy ending xx

Thank you, I just realised genetically healthy sounds so cold. But I think for me it means I can consciously get pregnant again and not subject a baby to anything were there any issues. My fear was something cropped up but no they were as perfect as they were when I saw them. When we turned off our first twins life support, the guilt was overwhelming but today proved we made the right choice for him.

Hope you are all ok today.
@CadoAvo just checking in. Hope you got on ok ?

@jellyfish2 so sorry didn't mean to tag!

@DonnaWhat just checking in to see how you're doing? Has your bleeding started yet. I know these will be such a difficult few days getting your head around what's happening, thinking of you x

@mountainlass thankyou for checking in on me. Not slept all night, was sick last night (I had night sickness with my girls) lower back ache and I was thinking maybe I could have been wrong. Done another digital and another negative and just now starting to bleed. :( I am OK though. It just wasn't meant to be this month but I di take comfort in knowing I can be more fertile now hopefully so my sticky baby will come wheb they're ready too. How are you doing this cycle? Xxx

I'm so sorry @DonnaWhat it's just so unfair, sending a hug to you x

That was a really tough day for you, you seem like a really brave person. I'm glad the results have given you a little bit of reasurrance and it sounds like theres every reason your next pregnancy should be a success. Hooe you are able to have a nice few days this weekend x

@DonnaWhat sending hugs. There's no words but it will happen. I'm just sorry this happened. Xxx

Still waiting for peak ladies but I've a little bit more cm. Ovulation will be late again it seems. I asked gp yesterday and she said it doesn't matter as long as you have a good lp on the other side.

Hopefully you will ovulate as normal and it doesn't mess up your cycle too much, I ovulated just a few days later so you will be able to try again right away if you feel ready ❤️ look after yourself xx

That's good cm is increasing. @Ella31 sorry I forgot to tag you in my last comment, the obe under Donna's was meant for you x

Thank you ladies and just wanted to say all of us here have had loss, or are going through a lot at the moment. You are fab strong women, remember that always. There is a rainbow at the other side.

I'm enjoying the sunshine today and going to have a beer or two outside in the garden. Waiting for peak but my gp told me to live a little yesterday. Her advice sounds good.

@Ella31 I'm so pleased to hear it went well. And lovely to read how perfect your beautiful boys were.
I think your GP is very wise! We all need to live a little. It's far too easy to get sucked into a cycle of TWW, fertile weeks etc etc. My husband and I were just saying yesterday that we feel like we've blinked and lost the last year. Definitely need to stop and look up now and again! Hope you enjoyed your drinks.

Those of you on COQ10 what dose do you take? I swear my Dr recommended 600mg but could only get 100mg from Holland and Barrett today so I'm supposed to take 6 capsules a day? Feels like I'm doing it wrong! Xx

I started taking coq10 but I got peaks on my ovulation tests a week ago and definitely wasn't positive. But I know @ThelastRolo20 had good results with it

Morning lovelies, I tested last night at 9dpo (top 2 tests) after having a chat with my Fiance to prepare for some negative tests as I was convinced this wasn't our month... But we seen something! I rested again this morning and I think there's a very faint line at 10 dpo? (Bottom two tests) Guarding our hearts very closely as my only two previous pregnancies have ended in a late loss & a Chemical pregnancy which we are terrified of again. Just praying and hoping with everything we have the line progresses ❤️

@Ella31 I’m so pleased your appointment went as well as could be & got the answers you needed

@mountainlass i definitely see those lines! Mine last time started out faint like that. Are they pink in colour?

@mountainlass I see it! Huge (but tentative) congratulations to you both 💕💕
Here's hoping that little one is sticky and the lines get stronger 🤞🏻🤞🏻 xx

@DonnaWhat I'm so sorry you're going through this. It will happen!

And @Figtree11 , you're in my thoughts, this sounds really tough, hoping that the complications are resolved soon.

That is exciting @mountainlass ! That's a definite line, I wouldn't call it that faint, being only 10dpo and since I'm sure it's darker IRL vs a pic. It's so hard not to worry, all fingers and toes crossed for you.

@Ella31 You are so brave and I'm so pleased the results were reassuring and you can move on with such a positive attitude.

Day 6 of flashing smiley on Clearblue today, negative on LH tests. Only 17 days post D&C so I think I should probably take a rise in oestrogen and not getting false positives on LH strips (from HCG) as a positive. I did a pregnancy test a couple of days ago and pretty sure it was negative, maybe the lightest of light squinters, but it seems to have gone down pretty quickly, I will double triple check if/when I get a positive ovulation test to make sure no confusion.

@Figtree11 so glad it's not just my imagination. It was my first time using these premom tests so I had to double up to be sure, yes the faint line is pink in colour so I'm hoping it's not an indent. It's reassuring to know yours started out like this too🤞

@Onthedouble123 thank you so so much. We are being so cautiously optimistic right now but it's a bit of hope ❤️

@mountainlass i see it! Fingers crossed it continues to progress and you get your rainbow

@Ncl31 thank you so so much ❤️ it would honestly be a dream come true if we did get our rainbow 🌈

@ExTriTrying thanks for your lovely words, yes in person it's so much clearer, still faint but the fact we can see the line is giving us some hope. Sorry about your D&C I hope you're looking after yourself. The clear blue flashing smiley really tests my patience but I didn't get my peak till after 7 days of flashing this cycle so there's time. Ovulation was a little delayed for me post my loss so hoping it comes for you soon ❤️

@Onthedouble123 I took 300mg of coQ10 and it bought my ovulation forwards by a couple of days I think 😊

@mountainlass congratulations! Really hope everything goes well for you x

Can I join here?

I had an early miscarriage last week, would love tot start trying again asap.

How soon have people started TTC after a medical management of miscarriage? My dr said I can try again as soon as I want.

Just looking here and can't believe we are only a few pages away from being 40 pages again. Like last time if people would like to stay on the thread, if you could thank the post and I can set up a new page at around the 38 page mark. Also if you just found yourself recently pregnant, you are more than welcome to stay. The more positive stories the better.

Would love to stay in this thread. Af was supposed to be here today but instead I got a temp rise. I did a test that was negative but not with fmu and diluted urine, surely it would show on a test by now if I was pregnant right. I have been lightly cramping for the past couple of days as well as on and off nausea and sore boobs.