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TTC after Early Miscarriage part 3

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Ella31 · 19/04/2024 23:16

Part three of of our previous threads.

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emmatcc1 · 04/05/2024 10:08

I’m 12dpo and af due in 2 days. My temps have dropped a bit today but they’re still high.

spamOFtheDAY · 04/05/2024 10:08

Rosyposy26 · 04/05/2024 08:46

Being very tentative but tested last night when I got back from I’m being away and tested again this morning. Actually I did 10 tests just to make sure. AF is due on Wednesday. I’m being hopeful but realistic as lost one 2/2 and was in and out of hospital as something didn’t feel right and I had retained product that came away on the 14/4. This month I actually took Maude and Mable fertility tea right up until ovulation and I treated myself to the clear blue ovulation and tested once a day. I also tried not symptom spotting but being away helped. I also started taking Proceive max and the omega 3 tablets from the start of my last MC. I believe I am 10DPO

Only symptom I have got was Wednesday I had backache and needing to wee a lot. Breast feel fuller but not sore.
Hope this bean sticks I have a spa day today but will have to tell them as was going to have a full body massage.

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Ah amazing! Congratulations 🥳

B1989 · 04/05/2024 10:52

Tested this morning at 11dpo and not a whiff of a line. AF due today - hoping it might come tomorrow my luteal phase has extended itself this cycle with the vitamin c Iv been taking! Roll on cycle 4….

ThelastRolo20 · 04/05/2024 10:56

emmatcc1 · 04/05/2024 10:08

I’m 12dpo and af due in 2 days. My temps have dropped a bit today but they’re still high.

Have you not been tempted to test? 😬

ThelastRolo20 · 04/05/2024 10:56

B1989 · 04/05/2024 10:52

Tested this morning at 11dpo and not a whiff of a line. AF due today - hoping it might come tomorrow my luteal phase has extended itself this cycle with the vitamin c Iv been taking! Roll on cycle 4….

Ah sorry to hear that, luteal phase getting longer though is good! X

Ella31 · 04/05/2024 11:31

Congrats @Rosyposy26 amazing.

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Ella31 · 04/05/2024 11:33

Anyone using ovusense? My chart is confusing me. I ovulated on Tuesday I'm sure of it and I had 3 rises after it but I had a dip today at 4dpo and now it won't confirm ovulation but its saying 2dpo at the top. Does it look like I ovulated?

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emmatcc1 · 04/05/2024 11:51

@ThelastRolo20 Oh I’m very tempted to test but can’t get any until Monday and that’s when af is due.

Ella31 · 04/05/2024 12:38

I'm so upset. My ovusense support is saying I'm actually 2dpo and not 4dpo. I am convinced I ovulated on may 1st. So if I ovulated 2 days ago I didn't dtd 2 days up to that. I'm crying my eyes out here.

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emmatcc1 · 04/05/2024 12:41

@Ella31 Not sure what’s going on there but you obviously ovulated either cd22 or 23

ThelastRolo20 · 04/05/2024 12:46

emmatcc1 · 04/05/2024 12:41

@Ella31 Not sure what’s going on there but you obviously ovulated either cd22 or 23

@Ella31 I agree, temps can be a funny business - your OPKs are very clear, you wouldn't have ovulated later without another lh surge which you don't have 😊

Ella31 · 04/05/2024 12:46

ThelastRolo20 · 04/05/2024 12:46

@Ella31 I agree, temps can be a funny business - your OPKs are very clear, you wouldn't have ovulated later without another lh surge which you don't have 😊

Thank you. I'm in such a mess here. The rise is obvious isn't it?

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ThelastRolo20 · 04/05/2024 13:08

Ella31 · 04/05/2024 12:46

Thank you. I'm in such a mess here. The rise is obvious isn't it?

I think you're absolutely fine looking at all the tests and the temps ❤️ stick with 4DPO xx

Ella31 · 04/05/2024 13:15

ThelastRolo20 · 04/05/2024 13:08

I think you're absolutely fine looking at all the tests and the temps ❤️ stick with 4DPO xx

Thank you. God I'm panicking. I did have egcm 2 days later which is making me doubt myself but my opks were a clear peak.

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Ella31 · 04/05/2024 13:18

emmatcc1 · 04/05/2024 12:41

@Ella31 Not sure what’s going on there but you obviously ovulated either cd22 or 23

Thanks @emmatcc1 I'm so confused

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Ella31 · 04/05/2024 17:00

Ladies I'm in a flurry of panic. There's an online forum for my ovusense and another user pretty much said she sees no sign of ovulation on my chart. Am I crazy. I know opks are not a confirmation that you ovulate but my temps? I'm in such a mess right now. I was supposed to head out this afternoon, been at home crying.

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ThelastRolo20 · 04/05/2024 17:06

Ella31 · 04/05/2024 17:00

Ladies I'm in a flurry of panic. There's an online forum for my ovusense and another user pretty much said she sees no sign of ovulation on my chart. Am I crazy. I know opks are not a confirmation that you ovulate but my temps? I'm in such a mess right now. I was supposed to head out this afternoon, been at home crying.

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Lovely, I know TTC is incredibly important for you but there's nothing you can do ❤️ I maintain lots can influence temps, not much can influence lh readings - so I'd go with them. It's also in line with your previous month's ovulation time wise - I know you got some EWCM a couple days later but don't read into it too much.

Also, say you DID ovulate a couple of days later? Plenty of sperm hanging around waiting 😊 ovulation day itself isn't actually the best day, it's the days preceding. You still have a chance regardless ❤️

Plan a nice day tomorrow and step away from Google and Mumsnet xx

DonnaWhat · 04/05/2024 20:10

@Rosyposy26 a huge congratulations 🥰

Baby dust is certainly working on this thread ladies. Hope you are all well this lovely Bank Holiday.

Finally stopped bleeding on my first proper period since mmc. Lasted 12 days!! Been tracking ovulation and I just don't seem to be ovulating. I'm CD15 so hoping for a late ovulation but my pee sticks are showing an ever so slight lines, they're hardly visible on the pics.

We've book a last min holiday to majorca next week, fly on Saturday just for a break after everything so hoping I ovulate late and if I do and catch the egg I'll be all relaxed on holiday for it to be a sticky egg (fingers crossed) if I don't ovulate, is it something I should give time to get back or chat with a gp?

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RaisingCornishWildlings · 04/05/2024 20:21

More congratulations- this thread really seeks to be having more luck recently! Sir happy for all of you with BFPs!

I have had a very stressful 3 days (my f*ing narcissistic mother AGAIN), and I've been turning in circles like a stunned rabbit in headlights. I have had no more EWCM since the little bit I had the other morning so I reckon the cortisol and adrenaline flooding my system has probably screwed ovulation for me this cycle. Husband deploys next week for at least a month!

On dates, I should be O-ing today/tomorrow so will try tonDTD but I really hold absolutely no hope! Angry and cross and grrrrrrrrrrrrrr

Ladyinpink1 · 04/05/2024 21:11

Oh lovely, congratulations @Rosyposy26,I appreciate the 'sensitive content' and all of your tips of what you did, I shall be making a list, never heard of the tea, going to Google it now 😊 x

@ThelastRolo20 well you still having cramps are a good sign! I am hopeful (as I suppose I am every cycle) no feelings of anything, but I am waiting to see if I get sore boobs early or late, on pregnant cycles I get them later, non pregnant normally 6dpo they get sore, although I have had the odd crazy cycle where it's been different so it's not a certainty obviously lol ahh the tww drives you crazy doesn't it. Did you enjoy your park run? x

Ladyinpink1 · 04/05/2024 21:23

I'm sorry about your bfn @B1989 I hope you are ok, eating lots of chocolate and that starting a fresh new cycle helps x

@Ella31 I think you prob are 4dpo looking at your temps, although 1dpo on the chart isn't a huge jump, so if it was going to be any earlier, it wouldn't be anymore than 1 day earlier (so you would be 3dpo) and your temperature only rises after ovulation has occurred so don't worry, no matter which way you look at it, your bases are well covered with dtd x

Ladyinpink1 · 04/05/2024 21:29

@DonnaWhat my tests go suddenly dark then light again so keep up hope. Sorry your first af was so long, your holiday plans sound good, nice relaxed egg 🙂 x

Sorry things have been so stressful @RaisingCornishWildlings could you get something from the shop to help things along if not much ewcm? Like preseed, it has good reviews, hope things work out at the right time x

Ella31 · 04/05/2024 21:35

Ladyinpink1 · 04/05/2024 21:23

I'm sorry about your bfn @B1989 I hope you are ok, eating lots of chocolate and that starting a fresh new cycle helps x

@Ella31 I think you prob are 4dpo looking at your temps, although 1dpo on the chart isn't a huge jump, so if it was going to be any earlier, it wouldn't be anymore than 1 day earlier (so you would be 3dpo) and your temperature only rises after ovulation has occurred so don't worry, no matter which way you look at it, your bases are well covered with dtd x

Do you think so? Thank you. I've so relieved. I've definitely ovulated haven't I? Not sure why I had the dip today though?

How are you today?

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Ella31 · 04/05/2024 21:37

RaisingCornishWildlings · 04/05/2024 20:21

More congratulations- this thread really seeks to be having more luck recently! Sir happy for all of you with BFPs!

I have had a very stressful 3 days (my f*ing narcissistic mother AGAIN), and I've been turning in circles like a stunned rabbit in headlights. I have had no more EWCM since the little bit I had the other morning so I reckon the cortisol and adrenaline flooding my system has probably screwed ovulation for me this cycle. Husband deploys next week for at least a month!

On dates, I should be O-ing today/tomorrow so will try tonDTD but I really hold absolutely no hope! Angry and cross and grrrrrrrrrrrrrr

So sorry to hear that @RaisingCornishWildlings have you anything to distract you. I'm sorry your mother is being this way. I hope you can keep her at a distance. Definitely dtd. You never know

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DonnaWhat · 04/05/2024 21:39

@Ladyinpink1 Thankyou, how have you been this month, I am hoping I get a spike at last minute. 🤞🤞