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TTC after Early Miscarriage part 3

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Ella31 · 19/04/2024 23:16

Part three of of our previous threads.

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Ladyinpink1 · 04/05/2024 21:46

Yes, if I'm reading your chart right then the dip is only very slight and still well above your base line?
3 days of high (above base line) temps in a row confirms ovulation happened the day before the temp rise so you are all good 👍 x

@DonnaWhat I am good thank you. Hoping this tww goes in fast x

ThelastRolo20 · 04/05/2024 21:47

Ladyinpink1 · 04/05/2024 21:11

Oh lovely, congratulations @Rosyposy26,I appreciate the 'sensitive content' and all of your tips of what you did, I shall be making a list, never heard of the tea, going to Google it now 😊 x

@ThelastRolo20 well you still having cramps are a good sign! I am hopeful (as I suppose I am every cycle) no feelings of anything, but I am waiting to see if I get sore boobs early or late, on pregnant cycles I get them later, non pregnant normally 6dpo they get sore, although I have had the odd crazy cycle where it's been different so it's not a certainty obviously lol ahh the tww drives you crazy doesn't it. Did you enjoy your park run? x

I'm fairly certain all the cramps have been in my head 😂 trying to ignore any "symptoms" and just see what Thursday brings! I really hope your boobs play ball and don't get sore too early 😂

I did, thank you 😊 managed to get a PB! aiming to do it every other week.

ThelastRolo20 · 04/05/2024 21:48

RaisingCornishWildlings · 04/05/2024 20:21

More congratulations- this thread really seeks to be having more luck recently! Sir happy for all of you with BFPs!

I have had a very stressful 3 days (my f*ing narcissistic mother AGAIN), and I've been turning in circles like a stunned rabbit in headlights. I have had no more EWCM since the little bit I had the other morning so I reckon the cortisol and adrenaline flooding my system has probably screwed ovulation for me this cycle. Husband deploys next week for at least a month!

On dates, I should be O-ing today/tomorrow so will try tonDTD but I really hold absolutely no hope! Angry and cross and grrrrrrrrrrrrrr

Try not to worry about EWCM, I think it takes an extraordinary amount of stress to delay ovulation (although I know how mothers can cause it!)

I once conceived on a cycle where I basically had zero EW so you never know 😊

Rosyposy26 · 04/05/2024 21:52

Ladyinpink1 · 04/05/2024 21:11

Oh lovely, congratulations @Rosyposy26,I appreciate the 'sensitive content' and all of your tips of what you did, I shall be making a list, never heard of the tea, going to Google it now 😊 x

@ThelastRolo20 well you still having cramps are a good sign! I am hopeful (as I suppose I am every cycle) no feelings of anything, but I am waiting to see if I get sore boobs early or late, on pregnant cycles I get them later, non pregnant normally 6dpo they get sore, although I have had the odd crazy cycle where it's been different so it's not a certainty obviously lol ahh the tww drives you crazy doesn't it. Did you enjoy your park run? x

I can’t say if it def worked but when I had a scan they asked if I was taking a hormone stimulant as my ovary looked good and ready to release a egg and my lining looked good also. The scan was to check if all retained product from my mc 2/2 had gone which it did from my period which was 14/4 and 45 days late.

emmatcc1 · 05/05/2024 09:35

Bbt dropped more so af is on the way.

ThelastRolo20 · 05/05/2024 09:38

emmatcc1 · 05/05/2024 09:35

Bbt dropped more so af is on the way.

I'm sorry lovely, when are you expecting it to arrive? In the next couple days?

I don't do BBT so can't give much wisdom but I don't suppose there's still a chance?

emmatcc1 · 05/05/2024 09:43

@ThelastRolo20 I’m due af tomorrow and my chart looks like this. I don’t think there’s any chance here.

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Ella31 · 05/05/2024 10:15

emmatcc1 · 05/05/2024 09:35

Bbt dropped more so af is on the way.

Have you tested @emmatcc1 , I'm rubbish at charts too so not much help there. Hence me having a meltdown yesterday.

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emmatcc1 · 05/05/2024 10:19

@Ella31 No I haven’t maybe tomorrow if af doesn’t arrive.

Ella31 · 05/05/2024 10:23

emmatcc1 · 05/05/2024 10:19

@Ella31 No I haven’t maybe tomorrow if af doesn’t arrive.

Fingers crossed for you. Do you find the temping exhausting. I'm thinking of only doing it as far as ovulation next month. It's been very draining this month

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emmatcc1 · 05/05/2024 10:30

@Ella31 No I measure vaginally so it doesn’t matter how disturbed my sleep is and if I temp at 6am or 10am it still gives me the same result. There were times where I could not be bothered to track bbt and only did the two rises after ovulation just to make sure.

Ncl31 · 05/05/2024 10:36

@Ella31 hows your chart looking today?
move had ovulation confirmed today - at 4DPO.

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Ella31 · 05/05/2024 10:38

Ncl31 · 05/05/2024 10:36

@Ella31 hows your chart looking today?
move had ovulation confirmed today - at 4DPO.

Ovulation confirmed at 4dpo too. Had a dip though. Don't know if that's normal? Please god it's our month @Ncl31

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Ella31 · 05/05/2024 10:52

emmatcc1 · 05/05/2024 10:30

@Ella31 No I measure vaginally so it doesn’t matter how disturbed my sleep is and if I temp at 6am or 10am it still gives me the same result. There were times where I could not be bothered to track bbt and only did the two rises after ovulation just to make sure.

I'm the same. I use ovusense. It's just seeing dips and so forth that drives me insane.

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ThelastRolo20 · 05/05/2024 11:20

So in my last two pregnancies I've had a dollop (can't think of a better word!) of EWCM type stuff at 8DPO on the dot.

I'm 8DPO today and nothing so far 😬 if I don't get any today or tomorrow I think I'm going to count myself out

Seeing all these charts has made me tempted to buy a thermometer!

Ella31 · 05/05/2024 11:24

ThelastRolo20 · 05/05/2024 11:20

So in my last two pregnancies I've had a dollop (can't think of a better word!) of EWCM type stuff at 8DPO on the dot.

I'm 8DPO today and nothing so far 😬 if I don't get any today or tomorrow I think I'm going to count myself out

Seeing all these charts has made me tempted to buy a thermometer!

I find the charts good for confirming ovulation @ThelastRolo20 but as you saw yesterday, I got so upset over the small detail, it ruined my day. I think next month I won't chart past ovulation.

Also I've had ranging symptoms all three times I've been pregnant so don't rule yourself out yet.

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Ella31 · 05/05/2024 11:31

Tomorrow's a big day for my partner and I . Monday 6th November exactly 6 months ago tomorrow, I went into the maternity hospital at 29 weeks thinking I'd be sent home for being silly. Around 10pm I found out my son Dara was gone and at 12.30 and 12.31 I gave birth to Adam and my sleeping Dara. I got to keep Adam for four days until we had to let him go on 10th November. He passed away gently in my arms. I miss them so much.

I really hoped by now I'd be telling them that I was giving them a sibling but in reality i just miss my boys. I just want them back.

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Ncl31 · 05/05/2024 11:34

@Ella31 thats great news you’ve had ovulation confirmed. I wouldn’t worry too much about a slight dip. Can you change the view to have the average line like I have on mine? I find it shows a much nicer line to follow.

Im so sorry you’re having a difficult time, im really sorry that you haven’t got your ideal outcome just yet.
let’s stick in this tougher and hopefully this month will bring us both good news.

ThelastRolo20 · 05/05/2024 11:35

Ella31 · 05/05/2024 11:31

Tomorrow's a big day for my partner and I . Monday 6th November exactly 6 months ago tomorrow, I went into the maternity hospital at 29 weeks thinking I'd be sent home for being silly. Around 10pm I found out my son Dara was gone and at 12.30 and 12.31 I gave birth to Adam and my sleeping Dara. I got to keep Adam for four days until we had to let him go on 10th November. He passed away gently in my arms. I miss them so much.

I really hoped by now I'd be telling them that I was giving them a sibling but in reality i just miss my boys. I just want them back.

Oh lovely I can't imagine how you feel, of course you miss them. They were your beautiful boys ❤️ please do keep talking about them - are you doing anything tomorrow? X

Ella31 · 05/05/2024 11:42

Ncl31 · 05/05/2024 11:34

@Ella31 thats great news you’ve had ovulation confirmed. I wouldn’t worry too much about a slight dip. Can you change the view to have the average line like I have on mine? I find it shows a much nicer line to follow.

Im so sorry you’re having a difficult time, im really sorry that you haven’t got your ideal outcome just yet.
let’s stick in this tougher and hopefully this month will bring us both good news.

I think i have it average. Or maybe I don't. Just looked at yours and it's similar. But maybe I'm missing something.

Absolutely. It's such a hard road isn't it.

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Ella31 · 05/05/2024 11:44

ThelastRolo20 · 05/05/2024 11:35

Oh lovely I can't imagine how you feel, of course you miss them. They were your beautiful boys ❤️ please do keep talking about them - are you doing anything tomorrow? X

Thanks so much @ThelastRolo20 nothing planned really. I just can't believe they are 6 months gone. They were due the 28th December so should only be around 4 months if they had survived.

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jellyfish2 · 05/05/2024 12:28

@Ella31 I'm so sorry it's such a tough time for you. I really hope you get to tell them soon that they'll have a sibling 🩷

B1989 · 05/05/2024 14:26

Have just taken a test 12po (AF due yesterday?). Am I going crazy? Just tried a CBD but didn’t have enough pee left so now I’ve caused the test to create an error😅

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ThelastRolo20 · 05/05/2024 14:29

B1989 · 05/05/2024 14:26

Have just taken a test 12po (AF due yesterday?). Am I going crazy? Just tried a CBD but didn’t have enough pee left so now I’ve caused the test to create an error😅

That's positive! 🥰😍🤩 Congrats!

B1989 · 05/05/2024 14:34

I can’t believe it. Please god let this one stick🙏🏻

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