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3dpo

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Ontheflipside_ · 05/04/2024 14:35

Anyone want to join? I'm going insane!! I'm not sure whether it's because it will be our last chance to have a baby in 2024 or that this is our 5th cycle so if AF comes it then marks half a year of trying, but I'm struggling this cycle. Need distraction! Lol

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Louki35 · 19/04/2024 16:06

@ToeBeans24 aww so sorry to hear this! 🤦🏽‍♀️

im 11 dpo today, not tested since 7dpo, could I get a positive?

ToeBeans24 · 19/04/2024 17:02

@Louki35 deffo! 7dpo is early. Try and wait till 12dpo or even 14dpo depending on when AF due / your luteal phase.

i have no idea where i am in cycle. Feel a bit lost. Had the most EWCM of all cycle last Friday which was CD23 so super late for me but wondering if that was in fact ov. Wondering I haven’t ovulated at all and it’s concerning 😢

cycles always regular. Even on the mini pill which stops periods for most people I still had regular periods. Why when ttc does everything go haywire 🤷🏼‍♀️

ToeBeans24 · 19/04/2024 17:04

@Plumchumm same as @sirensong ive heard of people conceiving successfully without much / any EWCM. Sometimes it’s “up there” which is where it needs to be rather than coming out. Sometimes just watery / slippery appears at ovulation too instead of EWCM

MissEmily5 · 19/04/2024 17:16

Hi ladies,
I hope you’re all good and happy weekend!
just wondering if you guys have any advice… I’m now 3 days late for my period and absolutely no sign of it coming- I stopped spotting yesterday after 11 days of it and now have creamy CM. I’ve taken a test this evening to check, but I just don’t know where my period has gone!! I’ve never ever missed a period before- I’m not overweight, I’ve not been on birth control for over a year, I’m not unusually stressed (I think the most stressed I’ve been was like 2 cycles a go), I have regular periods and I haven’t got PCOS.
I’m really worried that it’s going to screw up
my chances for my next cycle now- I’ve sent in another request form for an appointment with the GP but I’m just so confused and lost! 😔

Plumchumm · 19/04/2024 17:26

I’m 9dpo and I know it’s still early but I’ve been feeling pinching and had cramps all night last night. Tested and was bfn :(

just don’t have a good feeling x

Plumchumm · 19/04/2024 17:27

MissEmily5 · 19/04/2024 17:16

Hi ladies,
I hope you’re all good and happy weekend!
just wondering if you guys have any advice… I’m now 3 days late for my period and absolutely no sign of it coming- I stopped spotting yesterday after 11 days of it and now have creamy CM. I’ve taken a test this evening to check, but I just don’t know where my period has gone!! I’ve never ever missed a period before- I’m not overweight, I’ve not been on birth control for over a year, I’m not unusually stressed (I think the most stressed I’ve been was like 2 cycles a go), I have regular periods and I haven’t got PCOS.
I’m really worried that it’s going to screw up
my chances for my next cycle now- I’ve sent in another request form for an appointment with the GP but I’m just so confused and lost! 😔

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Emily have you started taking any new supplements? The pregnacare stuff messes with your cycle

sirensong · 19/04/2024 17:29

It's so weird suddenly knowing about EWCM. I previously did notice weird stuff like that across the course of adult life but had zero thoughts beyond "well ok, bit unusual". Did not link to my cycle or consider others got it.

sirensong · 19/04/2024 17:36

@MissEmily5 curious! It might just be a waiting game over the next few days. If nothing happens one way or the other over the next week, you could consider a scan which would show what your endometrium's deal is.

MissEmily5 · 19/04/2024 19:57

Thanks ladies for your advice- I contacted the doctors who said to ring 111, they’ve now got in touch with an out of hours GP who is going to call me- fingers crossed I get some answers!

Hopethisendswell · 19/04/2024 22:03

Hoping they have some answers for you soon @MissEmily5 impressed they got an OOH to check in, that's really good 👍
Hold in there everyone else 💕 sending lots of baby dust xxx

ToeBeans24 · 20/04/2024 08:38

Hope you get some answers @MissEmily5 🤞🏻

Louki35 · 20/04/2024 10:10

Happy Saturday Ladies!
Sending everyone love, light and baby dust for the days ahead!
I’m 12dpo and haven’t tested since 7dpo. I’m due my period next Tuesday 😱
I have thee sorest boobs and yesterday and during the night I have been peeing like a race horse, feeling queezy, I have an upset stomach this morning now, never been out the loo……are these symptoms or am I just super vigilant about everything and anything right now since I’ve tracked this month?
Let me know your thoughts!

Hopethisendswell · 20/04/2024 11:23

It could go either way...hoping its a BFP! Symptom spotting is so hard, do you have a cheapie you could test with? Hope it works out for you 🥰

Louki35 · 20/04/2024 11:41

@Hopethisendswell ooooh saw your message and was in Morrisons so ive bought some cheapies! How long do you suggest not peeing for lol

Hopethisendswell · 20/04/2024 11:50

If you can hold it for 3hrs? Or hold on until tomorrow morning, a better chance of being accurate with FMU? But I also know that once I've got a test I can't hold on to use it 😅 so hopefully someone more sensible will turn up!

Hope everyone has a great weekend xx

ToeBeans24 · 20/04/2024 14:12

Did you test yet @Louki35 ??
any update on the out of hours GP @MissEmily5

hope everyone’s ok x

Louki35 · 20/04/2024 15:19

Yes @ToeBeans24 sorry just back from walking the house hippos! Still getting a BFN on a Clear Response, is it the brand or am I not pregnant, I’m starting to think not x

Louki35 · 20/04/2024 19:27

Has anyone else had a BFN on 12dpo but a BFP 13/14/15 dpo can this happen?

ToeBeans24 · 20/04/2024 19:39

@Louki35 yes me. BFN at 12dpo. Didn’t check again until 14dpo and got my bfp. Sadly that was my chemical but I don’t think that was related. Some people don’t implant until 10-12dpo and it can take 2-3 days after that to get the hcg levels up

Louki35 · 20/04/2024 19:55

Oh @ToeBeans24 so sorry to hear that, a CP is awful, I’ve had one before too, digital test, clear blue the lot, all positive, midwife booked, scan letters received after CP too, it’s a lot to take in, in such a short space of time it all happens over.

On the positive side that’s good to hear, I’m not sure if I have a ‘sticker’ this month plus first time proper tracking with OT’s and vitamins ect but I’ll keep you posted! I have never used the Clear Response tests, I’ll do a morning one tomorrow and see, I can’t decide whether alllllll this sore boobs, peeing, sick feeling is AF and I’ve just never tracked with a fine toothed comb before lol ahhhh complicated isn’t 🫧😊🤍

Louki35 · 20/04/2024 20:27

Update, might be my imagination but I think I have AF pains 😱🫣

Hopethisendswell · 20/04/2024 21:21

Ah no! Sorry @Louki35 really hope it's not AF xx

Louki35 · 20/04/2024 22:20

@Hopethisendswell omg me too! Fingers crossed it’s not! I’ll keep yous posted!

What stage is everyone at on there catches now?
Anyone trying the SMEP this time, I think we might if no luck this cycle 🫣 hope I get a BFP in the next couple of days!

ToeBeans24 · 20/04/2024 22:36

@Louki35 i did last time but seems my positive OPK was a false surge so then tired ourselves out plus stopped testing via OPKs so likely missed second peak 😫

Plumchumm · 21/04/2024 08:22

I’m 11dpo today. Despite yesterday and day before having pinching cramps that felt just like implantation, my tests have all been BFN. My boobs are less sore. And my temp has dropped. Very upsetting looks like af is on its way.

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