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3dpo

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Ontheflipside_ · 05/04/2024 14:35

Anyone want to join? I'm going insane!! I'm not sure whether it's because it will be our last chance to have a baby in 2024 or that this is our 5th cycle so if AF comes it then marks half a year of trying, but I'm struggling this cycle. Need distraction! Lol

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ToeBeans24 · 07/04/2024 14:21

That’s a good deal @Ontheflipside_ !

@MissEmily5 it could well be implantation! Keep monitoring over the next few days !

@Hopethisendswell could also be the start of implantation cramps perhaps.

The month I conceived I had cramps from 6DPO. However I don’t think I implanted then. In fact pretty sure I implanted late as I got a bfn 12dpo and the faintest squinter at 14dpo. Did get darker but sadly lost at 5 weeks.

I have so much hope for us all this month!

When is everyone testing?

sirensong · 07/04/2024 14:28

I'm about to fly to Greece on holiday and have two tests in my bag for next Saturday, which will be 10 days past ovulation. Interestingly the NHS site says implantation happens on day 5/6. I thought it was a bit later!

MissEmily5 · 07/04/2024 18:16

@ToeBeans24 I blooming hope so! Each month I go crazier than the last 😅

errr I’m undecided…I’m considering testing on the 10th, only because it’s my husbands birthday and if I’m slightly further along like I think I might be then there could be a small chance of getting a BFP. But I think that might be setting myself up to fail! Maybe next Saturday? I really don’t know 🙈
my Flo app is predicting my period in 8 days but for me to test in 10 days… the app only started saying to test later than my due period date last month.

@sirensong ooh lovely! I’ve just got back from Athens, it was gorgeous weather. Does it really about implantation bleeding? Nice to hear that I might be in for a chance! :)

Hopethisendswell · 07/04/2024 18:31

Ooh I'll keep an eye on anything else strange going on - as if I wasn't already 😆

I've given in and tested today (obviously a BFN) and probably will everyday, that way I can put it out of my mind and relax a bit. I just don't have the self-control for the long wait!

Hopethisendswell · 07/04/2024 18:33

Have an amazing time @sirensong

Keeping my fingers and toes crossed for you @MissEmily5

ToeBeans24 · 07/04/2024 18:36

Yeah implantation is earliest 6DPO. Usually 6-12dpo, most common being 9dpo I believe

ToeBeans24 · 07/04/2024 18:56

Hmm v odd. I’m had 2 pregnancies. One non viable which was a late implantation (must’ve been 12dpo) and the other 8dpo. Confirmed with implantation spotting. I guess they can only give a guide or range as we are all diff. Same with ovulation times etc

Ontheflipside_ · 07/04/2024 19:14

Really think I could be out this month already 😭 I'm only 5dpo but my cervix is lower and harder 😢😢

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Hopethisendswell · 07/04/2024 19:44

@Ontheflipside_ There's still hope 🥰 doesn't it rise and go softer again after implantation? Maybe things will change in a couple of days, don't give up x

Ontheflipside_ · 07/04/2024 19:47

Hopethisendswell · 07/04/2024 19:44

@Ontheflipside_ There's still hope 🥰 doesn't it rise and go softer again after implantation? Maybe things will change in a couple of days, don't give up x

Ah I'm not sure! I thought it just stayed high and soft after ovulation if you'd conceived. I didn't do any cervix tracking with my last pregnancy so I have nothing to compare it to really x

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Hopethisendswell · 07/04/2024 20:03

I'd always thought so...but I've also just read it stays up 🤷‍♀️ I hope someone with more knowledge can help out.
Still a little ray of hope xx

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Hopethisendswell · 07/04/2024 20:05

(Pic was what I always thought happened)

ToeBeans24 · 07/04/2024 20:08

I’ve given up reading into these things as the month I got my bfp I was convinced I was out as cervix was low and open 🤣 🤷🏼‍♀️

Hopethisendswell · 07/04/2024 21:01

It always felt like I had to do an obscene yoga pose to find mine 😂

Cherry85 · 07/04/2024 21:17

So this is a bit random, but I'm hesitant. I have had tonsillitis the past few days, 3dpo and think I'm going to have to go to docs tomorrow.....would you take antibiotics if waiting to find out if pregnant? Or am I being ridiculous

Ontheflipside_ · 07/04/2024 21:19

I feel like mine is just there all the time 😂 it's always so easy to find because it tilts to the front!

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Hopethisendswell · 07/04/2024 21:39

Would you feel happy mentioning it the Dr. @Cherry85 ? They might be able to reassure you or offer alternatives

Cherry85 · 07/04/2024 22:15

@Hopethisendswell yeah I guess that would be the logical solution 😂

ToeBeans24 · 07/04/2024 22:21

@Hopethisendswell that made me laugh!! I know exactly what you mean 🤣

@Cherry85 sorry to hear that. I’ve had tonsillitis lots and it sucks. I think it should be ok for most antibiotics but worth a mention to the Dr just in case and for peace of mind.

i got another loads of EWCM this evening at 4dpo. No idea what’s going on. Did an opk. Was expecting the blank circle as that always shows first time you use it after 48hrs with the clear blue one. Checked the line and it’s so faint so not a second ovulation.

What is going on?!

YorkshirePeridot · 07/04/2024 22:36

Hi ladies, I'm going to hop in and join you as I'm 3dpo today and have found it helps so much to chat to people who are at the same point. Weirdly my period last month never came and this lh peak snuck up on me so this tww seems more chilled than before as I wasn't expecting it!

Hopethisendswell · 07/04/2024 22:57

Sometimes I don't think our bodies get the memo @ToeBeans24 !

Hi @YorkshirePeridot 🤗are you trying for your first?

Plumchumm · 08/04/2024 03:25

Hi ladies, I’m possibly 3dpo but not sure. I had pinching ovulation pain about 4 days ago but today it’s been constant af type cramps and pinching on both sides. I’m waiting for BBT to confirm as sometimes I have a slow rise and so it’s not totally clear yet. Been dtd a lot at least. I’m ttc number 1, I got pregnant back in July but had an early loss. I don’t always ovulate so it’s nice to feel the cramps even tho I’m not sure when ovulation happened/is going to happen.

my partner is so excited he’s went and found random baby books at a charity shop lol.

baby dust to all

YorkshirePeridot · 08/04/2024 07:06

@Hopethisendswell Yes this is the first time I've tried, we started at new year! I spent the whole of my twenties terrified of an unplanned pregnancy so it's been a bit of a shock to find out that getting pregnant isn't that easy 🙈

MissEmily5 · 08/04/2024 14:10

@ToeBeans24 any more EWCM? Could be a good sign?! I know they say lots of creamy CM…but I never take much stock in what they say online because I find there are lots of differing experiences!

@YorkshirePeridot welcome! I’m also TTC baby number 1. I totally get what you mean about worrying about getting pregnant and then all of a sudden it’s not easy 😂 how long have you been trying?
How strange you didn’t get your period? Are you usually regular?

@Plumchumm so sorry about your loss 💔I feel you pain about not ovulating, last year I experienced a few months that I didn’t ovulate and I don’t think I did this month either (but holding on to hope that I did!). How sweet that your husband is so excited!